Did others try to convince you that "he's not the type to cheat" or "You're just paranoid" only to find out that your gut instinct was correct?
2007-04-03 16:47:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm amazed, because I've lost about 9 years to this "brainwashing" nice....well at least others will know I tried.
2007-04-03 17:08:26 · update #1
you know what realy sucks? is when he cheats on you he brings them home so you can meet the one he's you know,or
his friends know and some dont say anything,,or
you know he is and he knows you know but he still lies about it.
or he brings you gifts,or hes really nice to you,and so on.
the best excuse i've herd will knock your socks off:
the reason your husband wont spend time with you much is because you dont do eough house work for him to..for aonther words:no housemaid gets time unless the chorse are done.isn't that the funnest excuse you have ever heard.i myself thought i married a man ,i didn't marry him to rasie him lol
2007-04-03 19:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by nobodyspeical00 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All my friends tried to tell me that my husband of 16 years was madly in love with me and adored me and that he would never do that to me........3 months ago i found out that for the last 6 months he was having an affair with the secretary at work, well they sure got a shock but i had a feeling something wasn't right. go with your gut instinct if something doesn't seem right then it isn't. good luck.
2007-04-03 17:09:55 · answer #2 · answered by Joeds 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first husband cheated on me and left me for another women. It was him that would tell me he was not the cheating kind. It was him that told me I was crazy and being paranoid and how dare I think he was doing that lol. It was a blessing he cheated on me because I am a much happier better person now. Move on and have fun without him in your life.
2007-04-03 17:01:39 · answer #3 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Others didn't as much as he did. He tried to make me believe that I was paranoid and imagining things. I knew my gut instinct was correct, but when the one who is doing it, tries to make you think your crazy, it's really hard.
He was cheating and tried to make me think that I was a total psycho!! I wasn't, he was.
2007-04-03 18:50:46 · answer #4 · answered by Karen H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes guys will tell you anything just so they don't get caught. You should always listen to your gut it's usually right about that kind of stuff.
2007-04-03 17:26:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my first did thats why my second husbands secrets and lies about his internet porn and dating sites is so hard to forgive.he knew how much my ex had put me through and how hard it was for me to trust him.but i did i trusted him completely i never thought he would lie or betray me cause i was so good to him in every way.it floored me when i found out the truth i was actually throwing up and could not sleep i wanted so much to hurt him.but i am a christian i am not a saint however and i have my breaking point too.always listen to that inner voice people dont want to tell cause they dont want to hurt you.good luck.
2007-04-03 17:12:29 · answer #6 · answered by dixie58 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Bigdaddy
To have sex or not to have sex?
Ok, I'm totally hammered and my husband, who've I've been discussing the logistics of divorce all day (litterally all day) wait, how am I gonna word this? huhm...well I'm thinking of having sex, should I have sex with him, I mean, there's no other guys around...should i have sex with him? I'm about 5 martinis in, i think, and a shot of rum...what woudl you do?
2007-04-03 17:39:26 · answer #7 · answered by Bu Tran 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but to be fair, he was cheating on all of his girlfriends. Once we were having sex, one of his other girls came over, sat on the bed and started talking to us! The next week I found him in bed with her and 3 other girls, and one of them was wearing my handcuffs! So I took some of his good jewelry and threw it into a sewer drain. I hate men....
2007-04-03 16:56:01 · answer #8 · answered by garcia_lives86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,yes and yeeeeeeeeeessssssssssss!
Now I know.......Always trust your gut-never others!
2007-04-03 17:03:42 · answer #9 · answered by jea nate' 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YUP-----always follow your instinct
2007-04-03 16:56:13 · answer #10 · answered by Ghanaian Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋