In today's fast living and materialistic world it is hard to find a committing and long lasting relationship. What kind of woman believes in old value like building a family and future together and have a life long relationship. Where can I find?
2007-04-03 17:31:48 · 13 answers · asked by Ronaldini E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Laughter. Having a sense of humor is really important, crap happens all the time, if you can both laugh about most of it, you can get through anything.
Where can you find her? Find her by being the man you aspire to be, she'll see you.
2007-04-03 17:53:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, You Are Right To Think That This Person Will Be Hard To Find. But, Do Keep Looking. There Is Nothing Worse Than Being Married To The Wrong Person, But Nothing Better Than Being Married To The Right Person. Find Someone Who Likes Themself & Is Not Self Absorbed. Love Is About Putting The Person You Love First. Also, The Stuff We All Hear About Opposites Attracting----Stay Away From Someone That Is Really Different Than You, Because As The Years Go By, You Really Become Irritating To One Another ! There Are Alot Of People That Say---" I'm Not Marrying My In-Laws , I'm Marrying My Fiance ". Well, Those In-Laws Can Make Or Break A Marriage. I Tell All My Neices & Nepews That They Should Check Out The Relationship That Their Significant Other Has With Their Parents & Their Siblings. How Does This Family Treat One Another. Then There Is The Thing Of Having Children. I Wanted Two Or Three Children & I Talked To My Future Husband About This & He Said ,"Yes I Like Kids." Well, We Only Had One Child ,Because He Told Me After The Birth Of Our Son That He Did Not Like Kids. Sometimes You Have To Listen With More than your Ears---You Have To Listen With Your Heart. Last, But Not Least, Sex. There Was A Fella That Answered This Question You Have Asked ,With This Answer"Sex, Lots Of Sex & Often. I'm A Bit Older & I Have Seen Many A Marriage Fall Apart Because The Couple Didn't Have Sex Anymore. Sex Is Communication. Communication In a Marriage Is Very Important ! All Kinds Of Communication! Hope You Find Someone To Share A Happy Life With.
2007-04-03 18:15:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It will take time but we are still out there you just have to look really good. I have been with my husband for 11 years I know that isn't long but I think you have to be fully committed to love that person and work on your relationship without wanting to leave as soon as things get a little rough. Always put the other person's feelings in consideration when ever you think about doing something that may hurt them. Most of all love each every day like it will be your last day together. I hope this helped you.
2007-04-03 17:37:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have been married a little over 5 years. Our situation is different than most people who are our age. When we got married we didn't know that he was getting very ill. After about 3 years of marriage we were able to come to terms with it and our communication has opened up tremendously. One thing that we have learned through his illness is that we don't have the luxury of fighting because we don't know what time we have together. In reality no one does, but health is one thing that is so very easily taken for granted. While it would be fun to be planning vacations and doing things together that we are unable to at this point. I wouldn't trade a thing about our marriage, because it is so strong. Never complain about the other person, especially if it's something that they can't or are unwilling to change, because you married the person the way they are. Stand by them in sickness and health, for richer and poorer. Sacrifice for someone else, and it will come back to you, even if though you may not reap the rewards right away. Lastly, and this is the most important marry someone you like more than you love. Love gets you married, but like keeps you there.
2016-05-17 03:36:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question was rather a mixture of things, but I'll answer the first part, anyway.
Some of the key elements of a successful relationship - married or otherwise - are:
1) A long list of common interests; things you both enjoy doing TOGETHER as opposed to separate interests and separate groups of friends.
2) A lot of tolerance for each other's differences. As much as you share in common, you're still going to rub one another wrong from time to time. Be mature and deal with it. Separate the small $h!t from the serious stuff.
3) A sense of compromise; so that you can work out your problems with a minimum of emotional trauma. It's marital negotiation.
4) A sense of sympathy and forgiveness. You're both going to screw up on occasion. You need to be able to forgive, forget, and move on with the relationship.
2007-04-04 00:40:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Trust. Commitment. Love. Loyalty. Communication.
2007-04-03 17:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by K S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many necessary ingredients for a long lasting relationship: love, trust, honesty, fidelity, communication, sex, laughter, and a commitment. There are women who believe in these things and want a relationship like this. Keep your eyes open, you can meet her just about anywhere.
2007-04-07 01:10:40 · answer #7 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the key is
"face bad times together"
cause in good times two bodies come together and in bad times two souls come together
2007-04-03 20:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication & honesty, and working as a team,it help to have the same intrests and keeping the romance alive.
2007-04-03 17:43:21 · answer #9 · answered by Angela W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex. Lots and lots of sex.
You'd be amazed how trivial everything else is when you're geting laid on a regular basis.
2007-04-03 17:38:57 · answer #10 · answered by TheOnlyBeldin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋