Marriage & Divorce - 29 March 2007

2007-03-29 23:48:55 · 35 answers · asked by Charlene 6

2007-03-29 23:44:54 · 8 answers · asked by R L 1

My husband works very close to home, and every day he comes home for lunch. Sometimes it's just him, and other times he brings his friend with him. It's a part of the day I always look forward to. But last night he told me he doesn't want to come home for lunch anymore and that he just wants to hang out with his friends from now on. Sure enough, today he didn't come home. My feelings are really hurt. Am I just being too sensitive, and what made him suddenly not want to come home for lunch?

2007-03-29 23:11:10 · 19 answers · asked by mama of two 2

2007-03-29 23:05:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

The guy I'm seeing is separated and have 2 kids. He is married and can't annul the marriage due to financial reasons (divorce is not allowed in our country ---wish it was!!!). He married her because she got pregnant and got pressured to marrying her because of their religion, which frowns upon pre-marital sex and pressures them to get married.

They have never really gotten along. The girl refuses to get a job. My guy is not paid that much in his job as he is an undergraduate and makes it difficult for him to move up the corporate ladder.

We are living together (but this is frowned upon as thought of as immoral in our country). My parents know him but doesn't know he has kids and still married.

We want to get married (so much!) but it takes around 5-10 yrs to get an annulment in our country. He is a good man, and more than what I hoped for. But I want to get married, I'm already 27 and I want to have kids with a man I'm married to.

2007-03-29 22:38:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-29 22:11:56 · 23 answers · asked by Catherine H 1

2007-03-29 22:05:15 · 6 answers · asked by Rurouni Kenshin 1

.....as he said.....his"punishment of me for leaving him"
My health mental and physical is shot. I can't get away from him. My kids hate him and now they are letting the grandkids see him. To me it is like sending the little ones over to the dark side. One of my son's killed himself because of his dad. That is how sociopathic my X is. I can't trust again , I can't love again. I can't work because I am so distraught. I fear he is capable of killing me. I see things on TV about murder and I think geesh he could and maybe would do that to me.
Help?

2007-03-29 21:53:02 · 4 answers · asked by sugarsweetsweetiepie 2

My wife of 17 years left me for a coworker and tonight I learned how he was bragging on how he was able to pull a married women away from her husband. My friends told me that he got a huge ego boost from it. Is this common because I would feel mostly guilt especially with children involved. Whats your opinion ego boost or guilt?

2007-03-29 19:38:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife works for a software MNC in hyderabad (40 km from our home),her office invariably keeps parties in the night in the pretext of meetings, training etc and she has to attend compulsorily ,sometimes,she returns home at midnight.Why should the software Bosses have to keep parties in the night,i get disturbed,when my comes home alone in the night in the cab,she cant complain,since the boss is always right,i am stressed out due to this,and suffer insomnia and other disorders.can anyone help me out

2007-03-29 19:15:26 · 12 answers · asked by destiny 2

My husband who I love dearly has decided he want to make a stone oven so he can make real Chicago style pizza!
He started a week ago and finished it last night with planes he got from internet!
I will say it is really built well , and my husband has built it with a broad 2 openings one on either side of oven!
Now he's started to invited people over for Saturday 7 April for real brick oven Chicago pizza, and he's from Monterey Ca.!
This man has never ever started the fire kelm for oven yet and he's inviting people over in two weeks!
My father who came over said he did a fantastic job on the oven part and thinks it first class, husband gave him a SAMUAL ADAMS beer and invited him over as well aaahhhh!
Whats a newly wed to do? All I a really want him to do is have sex with me everywhere and maybe over their! but he's want Chicago pizza!
I am really proud of I'm though, but I like Brooklyn style being from N.Y. !
Am I CRAZY OR IS HE?
Should I keep Father away from husband?

2007-03-29 19:03:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband left me just after our 5th yr weding anvsry..for his own reason giving to me all the blame in this marriage w/out listening to my side.his a man in uniform & we have no children.

2007-03-29 18:29:04 · 8 answers · asked by hurtful aries 1

My now husband.When we began seeing each other, he led me to believe that he had been seperated for almost a year and lived back at home with his parents, and that the reason why he wasn't divorced was because his ex (who was supposidly evil) had cancer and needed to stay on his insurance. Later he led me to believe that he was in the process of divorcing and we got engaged. I never had any reason to doubt anything he said because he spent everyday with me and we would even vacation together for over a week at a time. Suddenly 1 day he really wanted to try for a baby. I eventually gave in. Three days after I confirmed that we had concieved, I found out the truth. The whole time we had been dating, he was married and living with his wife. now I can't seem to trust him & it is causing us problems, what can I do. I want to make things work, but I never feel at ease I always think that he is going to do the same to me. I don't want to continue having these feelings. Any advice?

2007-03-29 18:23:06 · 10 answers · asked by Me 4

it all started getting to me after i had a dream that right before the wedding after everything was payed for an just waiting to be put on that he leaves me an this dream has become reoccurring nightly each time more detailed i dont know if this is my bodies way of showing cold feet or what the deal is with it but whatever it is its freaking me out and both his friends and mine have said that will never happen but i cant help but wonder... i know this is what i want more then anything but as of right now im wondering whats going on any advice?

2007-03-29 18:10:48 · 10 answers · asked by navygrl 2

I'm dating a man that was married for 4 years. He seems like a wonderful guy. For people that have been divorced, or have dated or been in relationships with someone that's divorced, is it any different then dating someone that's never been married? This is a first for me.

Is there anything I should be aware of, or sensitive to?

I really like this guy, and I would like to do all I can to make whatever may happen as good as possible.

2007-03-29 18:09:58 · 9 answers · asked by FlyingNutSquirrel 2

2007-03-29 17:52:54 · 5 answers · asked by han83b 2

I pay the bills, make certain that all documents, insurance, car titles etc. etc are taking care of. I clean the house, I make certain that the cars get serviced on time, It seems that I control everything. I wanted to be taken care of by my husband not the other way around. Are there any wives who feel disappointed like this?

2007-03-29 17:31:33 · 6 answers · asked by R G 1

my brother's ex-wife lives in my mother's house in India. My mother lives abroad and has not been able to go back since she got sick and cannot travel. We want to kick this woman out of the house. How can we does this legally? we are in the UK.

2007-03-29 17:17:34 · 11 answers · asked by Bobby 1

Nothing I do makes me feel any better. And how am I supposed to have confidence?

2007-03-29 16:31:55 · 12 answers · asked by Dustin B 5

me and my ex have been done for 4 months. she broke up with me and got pregnant. now her man left her and it seems like she is coming back on to me. that weekend he ended it she txted me sunday and was asking me how i was. i told her if she ever needed anything i am a call away. She txt me the next day saying we need to talk. so later that night we talked and she said i was right about everything on how her man was dawg and how he was going to use for everything. and indeed he did . i love this girl with all my heart but im confused. is she coming bak on to me? Is she realizing i was the real one for her? i mean i want her back and we can work threw this whole pregnancy situation. Or shud i say the hell wid her?
everyday i think about her. U know when the say when you love something let it go? and IF it comes back it your real love? I feel like this is it . someone please give me advice

2007-03-29 16:29:38 · 20 answers · asked by Xavier(*X*) 1

I'm separated. I'm trying to reconcile w/ my wife. I want to buy my son a book. My wife doesn't like the book. The book is a Star Wars kid's novel (he's 11 and loves Star Wars). I like buying things for our children. My wife fights everything I try to do for our children. What I wouldn't do to have someone agree w/me for a change. I've been labeled as the "controlling one" by her. I'm controlling? She thinks Star Wars is a bad influence (she doesn't like fantasy). Remember I'm the controlling one right. I think I'm going insane. What do I do, agree (Yes Dear..)? It seems more and more each day that I am going to have to agree w/ everything the woman says in order to reconcile. I feel my life being slowly sucked away. Am I crazy
? Does it sound like I'm the controlling one?

2007-03-29 16:16:35 · 25 answers · asked by bigdaddy 2

i told my husband he has to stop talking to this girl b/c she is always hitting on him and she is well she has 3 babies none with the same daddy, get me? he got mad and said they were only friends and that he never hides talking to her and does not see what my problem is. am i in the wrong?

2007-03-29 16:06:57 · 28 answers · asked by kchase 2

My girlfriend is 43 and I'm 34. Also I've never been married and she has twice (one divorse other passed away). She has 3 kids. I'm I crazy to be with her. Clearly we like each other but will I regreat this? Please help!!

2007-03-29 15:27:49 · 23 answers · asked by figo 1

My fiances ex wifeputs things in the kids head to hate me and say bad words and hateful things to me and there dad when they are out there and she has already turned 2 of them against me and the other is out here more now because he doesnt want to be around her because she is doing these things he is 2 years younger but loves his daddy and me very much what can I do?????????????

2007-03-29 14:33:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My big sister has had this boyfriend for a year, and they're both 18 going on 19, and ever since she's been going with him I kind of don't matter anymore. And now something hurt me a lot. They decided to get married! I can't decide if I should hate this or like it, I mean, my sister's boyfriend is really nice, and his little brother is also a good friend of mine (it's a small town) but I'm the youngest, and it hurts to know that once they get married, she'll be gone out of my life except for thanksgiving and christmas and stuff! And she might spend those with the boyfriend's family! :( I'm so confused. This is a lot for a twelve year old to take!

2007-03-29 14:09:52 · 12 answers · asked by emysandefeet 2

My wife lost her father not very close back in November of last year and well I'm not being selfish or anything but I'm wondering how long is it going to be without a sex life? Once since then?

2007-03-29 14:08:45 · 16 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7

My hubby of 6 yrs and i are divorcing.Not a good relationship we stayed together for finiancial reasons.He cheated on me and i cheated on him in retalation. He has already taken more than half of our material things.The paper work for the divorce has not even been filed out yet.What are the chances that hubby gets his wish and we have to sell the house we bought together?

2007-03-29 14:04:34 · 16 answers · asked by Bella C 1

coz i'm a hotelier and after my marriage i moved out and then out of country. now she is having trouble with my parents and my parents no more wants her to stay with them and at the begining i cleared my self i'll be concentrating on my career, i got so up set with their cold war, that i told her i'm looking for divorce coz right now i can't come back to sort out the problem and in future too i don't know when i'll be back. So their's no means to draging this relation and when we both r apart not happy. Was that right what i did?

2007-03-29 13:45:33 · 19 answers · asked by nitish t 1

I need a practical answer that's going to work. Obviously when the kids are asleep, but other than that.

2007-03-29 13:41:37 · 30 answers · asked by some dude 1

marrying them. Nothing wrong with interracial , but if they are truly love seeking why not pick up the average black man, who is decent but not a millionaire?

2007-03-29 13:38:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous