it all started getting to me after i had a dream that right before the wedding after everything was payed for an just waiting to be put on that he leaves me an this dream has become reoccurring nightly each time more detailed i dont know if this is my bodies way of showing cold feet or what the deal is with it but whatever it is its freaking me out and both his friends and mine have said that will never happen but i cant help but wonder... i know this is what i want more then anything but as of right now im wondering whats going on any advice?
2007-03-29 18:10:48 · 10 answers · asked by navygrl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Heavenly Father I ask that you would reveal to her these dreams she is having, please let her know if this man is right for her to marry.....in Jesus mighty name...amen....Jesus loves you
2007-03-29 18:21:29 · answer #1 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a case of wedding jitters. Weddings are big things and there are things that can go wrong (at least one thing will go wrong, even if it is something like running out of a certain item at the bar or some flowers not being the color you thought you ordered!)
Your dream was not about you leaving him at the altar - which I would think would be a more worrisome dream - it's about him leaving you at the altar. That's like dreaming about the high school where you come to school and it is exam day and you haven't prepared and you flunk all your exams and can't graduate - a classic dream. But it doesn't mean anything and you will find that other people have had the same dream (coincidence? No.)
You love him. He loves you. Have a wonderful wedding. My remedy for bad dreams: read fairy tales before you go to sleep.
2007-03-30 01:19:37 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry you feel that way, I think you need to talk now then later, Please don't wait on this. Don't rush if you don't have to. You never know. It has happened a lot of time on wedding days and you don't need this. A straight talk with the answer whether to get married or not should be from both of you. Make this simple with YES or NOT. Sometimes things happens for a good reason. wish you good luck.
2007-03-30 01:21:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is common for both prospective brides and grooms to have doubts. But as someone said, it is better to be sure before getting married than do so and have serious regrets after. So that brings us back to why you want to get married in the first place? Do you really know? Are you getting married because all your friends are married, because you want to get away form someone (parents, roommates, etc.), because it is expected of you, because you feel you should? Or are you getting married because you feel your partner is a companion who will honor you by the way he lives and because you honor him by your life? Do you feel comfortable with yourself? If you can say you truly love yourself and accept yourself, then you will find comfort in your relationships...because you don't need the relationships to feel complete. You will feel complete within yourself when you can love yourself. So look deep inside and ask how you feel about yourself. You will find within the answer to whether you should get married.
2007-03-30 01:22:04 · answer #4 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cold feet, you finally got the fairytale but cinderalla is afraid that she is going to drop her slipper and wake up dreaming. love is a beautiful thing and to be able to have that unionship especially when it feels right is a blessing !!!! My advice if he is everything you dreamed then run with it love him until the end of time its natural to question if this is real cause you probably didnt think it would he would happen . so your looking for the negative which is normally but if he has your heart beating and you know/feel his is then its meant to be.. so good luck and congrats!! even cinderalla got the prince at the end shoot they have been selling that damn movie for the last 25 years its a classic for a reason !!!! lol.....
2007-03-30 01:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by primet21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it jsut sound like you getting cold feet, which is normal. but
it might not mean any thing, if you are truly ready to marry
this man.then as the day come near it will fad. but if you have
any things that you need to talk about it a good time to get
what ever on your mind out in the open.
2007-03-30 01:17:14 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, depending on your geographic location and your religious affilition, you are more then likely going to get a divorce...either that or be trapped in a loveless marriage for the REST OF YOUR LIFE when a more suitable partner would have been very much available to you after you had a few more years of ME time enjoying your youth and traveling...but hey, most people just settle and thats why statistics dont lie (50% US divorce, 67% in orange county Ca)...have fun with that one, see ya wouldn't wanna be ya!
2007-03-30 01:19:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
One thinks about meeting Mr.right then when you have him you think about marrying him and now that you are going to do that your next vision is how do I hang on to him...Be the person he fell in love with and you will live happily ever after...become the paranoid wife and it will end before it ever gets started...you choose who your going to be.
2007-03-30 01:16:41 · answer #8 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have doubts, do not get married. It is easier said than done. But if you are not 100% ready to get married, don't!
2007-03-30 01:17:22 · answer #9 · answered by His Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay attention to your INTUITION.... posting a wedding is better than a divorce
2007-03-30 01:15:51 · answer #10 · answered by Lupita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋