coz i'm a hotelier and after my marriage i moved out and then out of country. now she is having trouble with my parents and my parents no more wants her to stay with them and at the begining i cleared my self i'll be concentrating on my career, i got so up set with their cold war, that i told her i'm looking for divorce coz right now i can't come back to sort out the problem and in future too i don't know when i'll be back. So their's no means to draging this relation and when we both r apart not happy. Was that right what i did?
2007-03-29 13:45:33 · 19 answers · asked by nitish t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The main thing about this is do you think what you did is right, if you can say it was then no problem. Now, you married her and left her with your parents and now your unhappy because it isn't working for her to continue to live there, I think she is brave to have even tried the arrangement of living with them. She should be real angry at you for doing this to her. Grow up and learn to take care of your wife.
2007-03-29 15:47:41 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you did is selfish and pathetic why did your wife come with you? Why did you leave your wife alone when you left the country? Why in any reason at all did you marry since
you are a young inmature jack a ss. Really you have a women declare her love for you then you just leave and rip her heart out. Personally I hope something happens to you that shows you how much of a butt head you really are. You are why women look at men badly giving the whole male race a sour taste in womens mouth's. I'm sorry but what you did is just wrong and being far apart is not a reason for divorce move your butt back or have her join you and stop being so selfish!
You don't really deserve it but God Bless and WakeUP
2007-03-29 20:55:55 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you even marry when you had no intension of being a man? Only a weak individual would live off of their parents and then leave with the wife still there, to further their career. You sound like a selfish & discusting individual. Give her the best gift of her life.... divorce her and let her find a real man that is willing to love her, accept responsibilities, one that has more self-respect than to live off of his parents! Grow up and please, do get an education! You need it! Just look at your spelling and grammar. Ugh!
2007-03-29 20:53:11 · answer #3 · answered by daffodil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are anything but a grown up. Grown ups usual make the most of their mistakes. You want to run from it. You made a mistake of getting married and now that things are tough you want to run. Grow up and face the fact you can only have those dreams if you and your wife work together on them.
They might come late but when they come they will be stronger because two people worked to keep a marriage together and two people worked together to help each others dreams come true. Grow up
2007-03-29 20:55:31 · answer #4 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt have left caus eu broke her heart u need to go back win her heart and dont let ur parents rule ur life......u have courage...be a man. If u sit down with ur poarents and tell them how u feel hopfully they will listen if not then just move really fasr away...WITH UR WIFE. win her heart back have a noice dinner buy her a gift and have sex. haha!!
have a life u want fore u not for others :p
2007-03-29 20:53:24 · answer #5 · answered by bubles*pop* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a cop out!!!! You are a looser, and you will always be a looser until you grow up and accept responsibility for your actions. Talk with your parents and tel them to like it or lump it. She is your wife,,, You chose her. They have to be made to understand it. Quit copping out, and get off your horse and lay the law down.
2007-03-29 20:50:58 · answer #6 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to get your priorities straight and you shouldn't have gotten married in the first place if she wasn't going to be #1 on your list of everything...
2007-03-29 20:49:48 · answer #7 · answered by Love Me or Hate Me... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are so out of order---you should have thought about this before you said I do---you make me sick---so you got married and thought it would be an eternal Garden of Eden?What kind of a person are you to make those vows (you DID make vows at the altar didn't you) and not honor them...do you even remember those vows?what do you mean you cleared yourself?you and your wife are now one...of course she is probable miserable...she didn't marry your parents ---you and her should be together...your career?hey, my friend, your marriage is at stake!
2007-03-29 20:56:25 · answer #8 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right thing would of not to marry her in the first place.
2007-03-29 20:50:45 · answer #9 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it wasn't. You should have been honest about how little she really meant to you and paid a dollar for a condom instead of getting married.
2007-03-29 20:57:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋