Would getting divorced put you off getting married again?

Answer 1

Getting divorced is not nice especially if its a bad one!
If that does happen it means maybe they should not have married in the first place,or basically they tried it and made a mistake. However maybe a second marriage(or3rd) maybe that is where you find your true love.

You marry someone you want to spend the rest of your life with,as you are in love with them but most people love more than one in their life.

Answer 2

Yes, at least for a long while after. Divorce is almost like a death. It is very strange to be living with this person and sharing everything one day and then that's it and it's almost like that part of your life never happened. Dealing with divorce is a tough emotional time and it does put you off from even dating for a while. I have been divorced before and am now happily married. Boy, what a difference the right woman makes!

Answer 3

Yes. Been married once, divorced once and am now living with a man going on 6 years-lasting better this way than the marriage did. So I don't want to get married again and become some mans property.

Answer 4

It didn't put me of getting married again, But, he also knows why I got divorced in the first place. No-One messes around with me, and IF he ever did the same things as my EX, I will be off like a shot. NO MESSING.

Answer 5

Just because you get a divorce, doest mean marriage is a bad thing. The concept of marriage is a good one,2 people wanting to spend the rest of their life together, in a monogamous relationship, and build a family.
It's the person you divorced, not the whole concept of marriage. So yes I would do it again.

Answer 6

I really thought it would and it did when I first got divorced, not because of the trust thing more because of my new found independance, but when I met the right guy it just felt right , so I married him and we are still very happy. So my answer would have to be yes and no.

Answer 7

been maried 3 times and would consider a 4th if the right one came along.dont see it happening in the immediate future,, have had to admit to myself that there are some things wrong with myself.. it wasnt all their fault.been in therapy for a while and realized that many of the problems were with me and not with them. but am much better now.of course most women wont give their time to a man thats been divorced 3 times...so will have to see what comes next..am not a bad person.. was confused for a few years..

Answer 8

There must be a reason for the divorce. one can still marry after divorcing but that is fornication. marriage is 4 better or worse, if there is any problem in Ur marriage, talk to each other and settle it or seek for marriage counsel. Stick to Ur love good or bad, that's the promise u made b/4 man and GOD.

Answer 9

After my divorce I always swore I would neve 'legally' marry again.

My partner and I planned a handfasting ceremony to show our commitment to each other. But then because we own property it started to make more sense to be legally wed so we did. It hasn't made much difference to us at all and we did it all very quietly, its just a little bit of extra security should the worst ever happen.

Answer 10

Yes it did with me. But have lived with second partner for ten years now, so really am doing him a diservice as this relationship is much better. We have two kids and I never had any with hubby. He got married straight away though, and I thought that was a bit sad. Dont know if they are still together.