drinking can be a problem but when some one you love is doing it it hurts in the moring thier ine person and at night thier someone else its driving me crazy she says she loves me but at night its different she yells fuss cuss and the whole nine yards even leaves out no where to be found even when she says she wont any more well tonigh made her a liar move on we have a child but loveing her is tearing me a part ive tried but i never know what im coming home to is it worth staying love is one thing but im getting abused when ever she wants the next day blames it on drinking i have a place to go but its not in this state my cousin told me im a fool but he also said he can not make the descison for me i have no family here just her trying to make it work and feeling like a jerk..
2007-03-30 16:33:04 · 9 answers · asked by CJ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to give her an ultimatum, you and your family or the booze. She needs to grow up and start being a mother and a wife to you and your child. You're not a jerk, you're a pushover for putting up with this crap. Put your foot down now before it gets worse!
2007-03-30 16:38:00 · answer #1 · answered by SillierKimmie! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can only be abused if we allow it. Stand up and tell her it is over unless she stops drinking. Also make sure you take your child with you as the child should be raised in a stable home. Your cousin is right, you are the only one who can make that decision.
2007-03-30 16:41:54 · answer #2 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drinking is a major problem for any realtionship, she has some
'issues that she need to deal with, and you need to let her'
know that this behavior is not good for you and your child
your cousin is right it time to put your foot down, she need to
get help or you andthe child need to leave it along. your chid
should come befor anything. she does not see that. time FOR
HER TO WAKE UP AND SMELL THE COFFIE.
2007-03-30 16:53:10 · answer #3 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is there a photo inclusive of his female friend? coz some human beings put in a courting status merely because a) they're in love (in austin's case, it really is available that he's concerning you) b) they prefer to educate some thing c) merely because more advantageous perfect confront him with this
2016-12-03 01:36:16 · answer #4 · answered by younan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help her unless she wants help. In the meantime, you need to remove your child from this situation. Get out. For your child's sake and your sake.
2007-03-30 17:21:52 · answer #5 · answered by Maya P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you already have your answer, so anything your heart is telling you to do , Do it! just follow the signs from your heart, he knows better then you, good luck on your decision!
2007-03-30 16:42:54 · answer #6 · answered by kellynhill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to leave and take your child with you
2007-03-30 17:13:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slap her down
2007-03-30 16:38:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there did that it sucks
2007-03-30 16:38:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋