Marriage & Divorce - 25 October 2006

Been with boyfriend 10 years, for past 2 years there was flirting and minor kisses but post hurricane has evolved into something so much more. boyfriend knows flirting takes place, found emails back and forth, not sure what to do.

2006-10-25 10:20:43 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2

My friend is going through a divorce in san diego ca. He was ordered to pay spousal support, credit cards and attorney fees. Can he be arrested for not paying? He has no income right now.

2006-10-25 10:13:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can I make my mom nice?? Okay, I am good kid and my mom is just so mean.. She hates her mom to death and She shouldn't treat me the way her mom treats her if she hates her mom so much.. MY mom yells at me for no reason.. I get good grades ( A's and sometimes B's!)
How can I make my mom not be so mean to me and know that she is treating me like her mom treats her?? It's annpying how her friends are all like, don't you feel sorry for you mom, that her mom (my grandma) is allways mean to her?? I am like in my head well she treats me the same way.. Here's what she does..
PULLS HAIR!!
DOESN't RESPOND SOMETIMES BECAUSE SHE WANTS TO BE AN IDIOT!!!!!
SLAPS US FOR NO REASON!!
CUSSES AT US FOR NO REASON!
Us = brothers and me!
Pulls my hair and once added this: swing me around.. SHE IS JUST SO MEAN!!!
There has to be awaya to get read of her freaking additude.. Don't be mean to me.. She gave me life.. But she doesn't have to treat me like a pile of freaking poop!! HELP ME PLEASE!!

2006-10-25 10:12:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello,

My husband just started his carreer as a truck driver and will be home every 5 weeks. We will celebrate our 10 yeary anniversary in March and have 2 young boys under 5. Right now we are going through a rough time where our "spark" has been gone for about 5 years but we really love each other and want it to work. Please give me some advice on how to get back our spark and to keep it with the career he has chosen.

2006-10-25 10:05:20 · 14 answers · asked by RPJ 2

he has bad habits and he smokes and drinks he yells alots hes not abusive or anything but he always takes his frustrations out on me and i dont think i can handle it anymore but i really love him what should i do

2006-10-25 10:03:03 · 38 answers · asked by it's HG !! 2

I been married for about 7 years, and my marriage have been very difficult for the last 3 years, all of the sex in the relationship have stop completely, I think that I want to start dating and see other people, I told my wife that I felt this way and that I wanted out of the relationship, she doesn’t want to accepted it and she wants a second chance, I told her not to expect anything from me for now, but I still feel like I want out of the relationship. There is one catch, we have kids together which I love very much and are holding me back from leaving. They are the reason of my life and I don’t want them to go thru a Divorce. I don’t want to go to counseling either, Don’t think I want to work it out.

2006-10-25 10:02:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you think there is such a thing or not and if so why

2006-10-25 10:01:21 · 13 answers · asked by btingle_1 1

His wife left 3 years ago, ending a 28 year marriage... they were hs. sweethearts, and she just got tired of being married. She's a bright lady with a Ph.D, but works managing small businesses, for not much money. She has no health insurance, neither does he. But when asked, he has provided tires for her car. and helped her out of other problems as well -- still her provider and rescuer. She may be facing a surgery, and he is about to pay for it.... He says he would do this for any of his friends. I can't be the type of person to tell someone what to do. But should I tell him how upset I feel? Or should I just shut the hell up. We are a committed couple. I am friends as well with my ex of 20 years, but I am not in the habit of lending anyone money -- in his case, he would be giving to her. Is this out of line, or am I out of line?

Your thoughtful and analytical answers would be much appreciated. Thank you in advance.

2006-10-25 09:59:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son has come back to live with me full time and the clerk office told me there is a form on the internet I can use to get this done without hiring an attorney but i can't find it only ones I find is the ones you pay for and they are for divorce. We are already divorced I just need to modify the custody.

2006-10-25 09:58:32 · 3 answers · asked by ceccec64 1

What do you think? What is the good and bad of an age difference?

2006-10-25 09:53:30 · 15 answers · asked by emmyfair 3

My hubby and another common married woman who we are good friends with and know her and her hubby from years. Well the woman and my hubby made out and kissed 2 years ago. This I found out from a common source. But since several months, the woman always writes emails to my hub..anything from her work, family, moms health, and her plans. My hubby sits there and replies to every single email of hers, sometimes very soon, and sometimes when he has time, but he always responds. He never emails her, just replies to her all the time. She can even send him a 1 liner like what he did was very nice...have fun. He will reply and say. every once in a while I can be nice. But you see what I mean? Just the fact that he always writes back to her, is that good enough to say that he still likes her or is interested in her? My friend told me when she saw those two meet up at a party, they were staring and my hub was observing her constantly when he had the chance. She also told me

2006-10-25 09:45:53 · 16 answers · asked by toralm1 1

My wife chose 2 nights ago.
She says she wants to be with him.
He has a notorious record of bedding single mums then dumping them.She believes he wont do this to her.
I dont want her hurt & i dont want this jerk with her.Both are beyond my control.
Iam in the depths of despair only last week we looked at houses we picked one even allocated rooms to our 5 kids.
I was about to make an offer on the house when this happened.
She flipped at me when down the street this jek who i mention i didnt even know said gday to me and wanted to shake my hand.I told him to leave us alone & stop txting my wife.At this point she flipped.She said i had embarrssed her .I said what about me he is flaunting it in my face.He claimed he didn t know we were attempting to reconcile and would back off.Which acoording to her he had already said but he continued to txt her.
The next day she was some venomous snake who just destroyed me.How do i pick up from here What if he does use her What about our 10yrs ?

2006-10-25 09:44:20 · 14 answers · asked by 69frustrated69 1

How can I make my mom nice?? Okay, I am good kid and my mom is just so mean.. She hates her mom to death and She shouldn't treat me the way her mom treats her if she hates her mom so much.. MY mom yells at me for no reason.. I get good grades ( A's and sometimes B's!)
How can I make my mom not be so mean to me and know that she is treating me like her mom treats her?? It's annpying how her friends are all like, don't you feel sorry for you mom, that her mom (my grandma) is allways mean to her?? I am like in my head well she treats me the same way.. Here's what she does..
PULLS HAIR!!
DOESN't RESPOND SOMETIMES BECAUSE SHE WANTS TO BE AN IDIOT!!!!!
SLAPS US FOR NO REASON!!
CUSSES AT US FOR NO REASON!
Us = brothers and me!
Pulls my hair and once added this: swing me around.. SHE IS JUST SO MEAN!!!
There has to be awaya to get read of her freaking additude.. Don't be mean to me.. She gave me life.. But she doesn't have to treat me like a pile of freaking poop!! HELP ME PLEASE!!

2006-10-25 09:42:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-25 09:38:49 · 25 answers · asked by ? 1

I know that marriage was intended to be religious, but when you get married you get a lot of legal rights and responibilities too. For example, when you get married you change your last name. Also, taxes are different if you get married. Isn't church and state suppose to be seperate?

2006-10-25 09:35:04 · 9 answers · asked by OwNaGeR 3

Found out about my wifes affiar with a family friend.Skipped all parties or gettogethers for few months but now,after regaining some confidence , have started attending parties where he too is invited.it is very difficult for me to handle..what shoud i do.

2006-10-25 09:34:27 · 8 answers · asked by ashish t 1

Why is it that when you get a divorce, people who used to like your ex say things like "I never liked him anyway" or "Good for you" or "He was never right for you anyway"?

When I got divorced that was a kick in the pants. Everyone used to like him but all of a sudden it seemed like they hated him the whole time!

2006-10-25 09:33:43 · 10 answers · asked by chefgrille 7

2006-10-25 09:31:51 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

the partner wants to sell the house,does anybody know how long i can wait for the full asking price? The reason for this is so that it will give me the chance to clear debts. If somebody comes along and offers the full asking price i would sell as this would give me the extra cash to clear the debt but that is in an ideal world.

2006-10-25 09:29:48 · 8 answers · asked by johny 1

This guy friend of mine who I used to date and all and then it ended. Well I am not sure if it ended to be honest because I write him emails every week and Most of the times he writes me back within hours or on the same day when he checks mail. He told me about myspace so now I have an account there. Well when I send him email messages on there, he replies back to me right away or soon, answering all my questions and more actually. Since he replies to every message, that is a good thing. He chooses to publicly comment a few girls and guys on myspace. If I leave him comments on myspace, he never comments me though. I guess he has his moods. But does it sound like he wants to keep me hidden? I mean he saves the comments I post on his page, and he always, always replies back to my emails. Should I be concerned, or happy that the guy replies back even though he does not initiate any emails? What does that mean? Is it worth it for me to stop emailing him and see if he emails 1st?

2006-10-25 09:28:25 · 6 answers · asked by katezambelli 1

My husband and his hockey team plan a big night out in the city which use to be bar hopping (fine) .Recently they have a bus and go to the strip clubs all night (not real crazy about it) . Most of these men are married and have kids and many lie about where they go (strip bars) and what they do . I went the one year and it was a bit uncomfortable (some of the guys disliked my presence) but my husband wanted me to come so I did. The stripping was not the problem it was the lapdancing the married men had did. They claim this was the first time they have been to this type of club (right) and were forced to have a lapdance by their buddy,I was not impressed with this part of the night and really didn't want my husband going next year. Next year he planned to go but had other commitments and heard that they had two strippers on the bus with them wearing only their hockey jersey. Now they are all excited about what could top last years fun. Is this wrong? Should I be concerned? Help

2006-10-25 09:26:16 · 14 answers · asked by trojan 5

Posted earlier but want more ideas/answers.
I have been married for 7 years. I am extremely happy with my wife and we have a very active sex life. I wouldn't even dream of ending our marriage. We barely ever fight and love each other to death.
However
I have never been with another woman before my wife and the urge to do so is killing me. It is getting to the point where it is consuming my thoughts and making it hard for me to even do my job. All I can think about it getting busy with another girl. I won't do it because I love my wife and I know how badly it would hurt her, and the guilt would be horrible. I am afraid though that one day this urge might overwhelm my good senses and I will do something stupid. I wouldn't dare even bring this up with my wife because it would freak her out for sure no matter what I promised. I realize this urge is normal with everyone but it is definitely at an unhealthy level and it needs to back off.
Any help? My marriage means the world to me.

2006-10-25 09:22:29 · 26 answers · asked by fucose_man 5

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years. I found out a little over a month ago that he cheated on me last year. Since I found out, he's told me that he regrets everything that he's done. He tells me that he's sorry everyday. And he's told me that this is the worst mistake he's ever made in his life.
I was just wondering if there's anyone out there that has been cheated on, and stayed with the person, that might be able to help me. I've never been cheated on before, and my boyfriend is someone I NEVER would have even THOUGHT would do anything like this to me!!
We've been talking about it pretty much everyday. I want to know EVERYTHING that happend(which I kinda don't cuz then I think about it more!?). He told me that he doesn't want to lose me and that he'll do anything to help us get through this. I really love him and this just ******* SUCKS!!! I would just like someone to talk to that has been cheated on and stayed together. Is there any hope at all!!?

2006-10-25 09:19:33 · 11 answers · asked by Kristin K 2

I am planning to go to a nar anon meeting tonite and I am kind of nervous. You see my now ex boyfriend has been struggling for the 3 years with a cocaine addiction. we have been together 4 years I did not know he had addiction until a year later of being together. I am going to this meeting because my ex has put me through hell with this addiction. I mean I can honestly say that I am worn down from him. I mean had done everything I could do to be supportive of him but he claimed it wasn't enough 4 him. So he called me yesterday and told me he had decided to go to 3month recovery program which is good and then he went on to say I know you always have been cheating on me because I have an addiction. I never ever cheated on him. So hence our break up. So right now I am going to nar anon to get some counseling for myself.

2006-10-25 09:17:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

spouse for better or worse and until death. A lot of questions people ask on here that I see in the marriage/divorce category say things like they want out of their marriage or that thier spouse is cheating and they want a divorce or something crazy like that. Where did the love go? Where did honor go? Do people forget these things or what? When things get rough in their marriage they want to give up and get a divorce. Marriage is work its not a vacation! When people decide to get engaged do they realize that it is a LIFE COMMITMENT!

2006-10-25 09:12:17 · 28 answers · asked by . 6

After 17 years and 2 great kids 14 and 17. It took this MACK trucking me to realize I still love her with all my heart. Do I just give up? I no she has strong feelings for him. Should I just be a friend or fight and no give up. I understand that what she did was wrong but I all understand that I in someway my have lead her down that path. Help!!!

2006-10-25 09:05:44 · 20 answers · asked by skipper 1

how do i find a married girl for "dating" w/o commitment? i was curious to try this simply for the fact i never did this before.i am picky however...young,slim,short,hollywood looks.

2006-10-25 08:58:13 · 19 answers · asked by alterego4maddawg 1

no kids, no properties, non- contested

2006-10-25 08:55:59 · 6 answers · asked by elitania t 1

my dad moved out and my mom would like to change the locks. they are currently still married - how long does she legally have to wait to do so.

2006-10-25 08:54:57 · 25 answers · asked by Rachel M 1

my husband's sex drive is gone...and I would like to know if anyone knows the secret of getting it back...no rude answers please, the man just ain't interested, and I am confussed?

2006-10-25 08:53:44 · 19 answers · asked by southernwondergirl 1