What do you think about being married and playing on the side?

Answer 1

It's a real $hitty thing to do.

Answer 2

There is absolutely nothing wrong with two mature adults being married and playing on the side. I think communication in a relationship is the first and foremost important thing. If this has been discussed and some ground rules layed down. I really see no harm in it.
It can be fun, adventurous and a fantastic way to keep the spice of life alive.
That is if you both agree and everything is out in the open and agree upon first.

Answer 3

I personally believe that playing on the side is a horrible thing to do. Betrayal of your vows, as well as total disregard for the one you have claimed to Honor and Cherish...or even LOVE?

Imagine, the shoe is on the other foot. How would you feel? Lost, rejected, hurt, confused, BETRAYED? Would you leave your spouse for Playing around?

If you can truly look into your heart and say something like that would have no effect on you at all...then maybe you should have never married in the first place!! Marriage is a sacred bond shared among two people...by allowing anyone else to disrupt that bond, you are betraying the trust and dignity of the relationship.


But, if you feel a twinge of alarm, a possible lump in your throat, at the thought of your "love" playing around on you, than you have answered your own question, and know that in all reality it would hurt them, as much as it would hurt you...So don't do it!!!!

Answer 4

I think it depends on the marriage. Couples get married for different reasons. If you're married because you wanted to vow yourself to someone and that someone wanted to vow themselves to you, than I wonder what kind of marriage you have not caring enough to keep your vows. Maybe the question shouldn't be playing around, but whether or not you want to continue being married. What would it do to your spouse to know that you don't think of them when you think of getting intimate? Would it devistate them to know that they mean so little to you that they don't even enter into your consideration? What kind of marriage do you have? And is it one you both feel is worth keeping?

Answer 5

It is wrong, if your married you made a commitment to one person. Playing on the side is cheating and that is going to hurt one or both parties.

Answer 6

I would not do it. that is why u get married to stop lying and playing on the side

Answer 7

NOT A GOOD IDEA. WHY GET MARRIED IF YOU ARE GOING TO PLAY GAMES. SAVE THE GAMES FOR KIDS. BEING MARRIED IS AN ADULT THING, AND NOT TO BE PLAYED WITH

Answer 8

The excitement is great, the aftermath is like cancer.........lasts a lifetime and eats away from the inside........

Its likely that most people would be judgemental with their answers but dont take it to heart.

Its the hardest thing to give up midway but let it go love.........it will come back and haunt you at some point.

Been there and done that......trust me..........wont do it again....too much hassle for some physical pleasure

Answer 9

Depends on what mood i'm to what answer i would have given here.

One day could be a good idea another day a very bad idea ...or is that just when the partner finds out and gets their bits cut off?

Answer 10

I see nothing bad w/ it. most of the things people do is because they are brain washed since child-hood and not given the true meaning of life.

So for you to come and think on your own terms, is great ! mostlylike the day your partner finds out, hell throw a fit and will make your life difficult.

Answer 11

I think its the worst thing you could possibly do in a marriage! Why even be married if thats what you want to do?