Been with boyfriend 10 years, for past 2 years there was flirting and minor kisses but post hurricane has evolved into something so much more. boyfriend knows flirting takes place, found emails back and forth, not sure what to do.
2006-10-25 10:20:43 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to make a choice. It isn't fair to anyone of you especially your bf.
2006-10-25 10:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anna F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would say you need to find some way to let go of your current boyfriend to move on to what is waiting for you. I would also think that the longer you wait the worse it is going to be with your current boyfriend. I cannot imagine that you all will be able to be friends. I say put yourself in his shoes before you do it, so you can have a better feeling of how he is going to feel. This situation sounds like a cold one. I cannot even imagine how you could be with someone for so long and then do them so wrong for the last 2 years. I am certainly not judging you nor do I know any of your circumstances, but I cannot imagine that it has been easy on you & it is going to tear him apart. Look at it like this he has been trusting you 2 most of all & you 2 are about to change his life & feelings forever. Gurl I would hate to be in either of your shoes. I certainly wish you good luck with your future endevers, but get it going you are only causing more damage the longer you wait.
I hope you can find a way to get into action with this and end what is clearly over & start what you have been waiting for.
good luck to all involved.
2006-10-25 10:28:11 · answer #2 · answered by PURE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't love your boyfriend anymore, maybe you shouldn't be with him. And if you really love his best friend, are you really willing to hurt him by ruining his relationship with your boyfriend by being with him? Girl, it sounds like you might have to move on, there may be nothing you can do that leaves you in a good relationship. I think things have gone to far to turn out fine. The decision is yours, who's the most important to you?
2006-10-25 10:28:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your boyfriend think? Is he jealous? And this best friend? Is he serious about you? I know that you have been in this relationship for 10 yrs, is it worth giving it up for the bestfriend? Love only comes once in a lifetime. If you are truly not committed to your boyfriend, then move on. But please be careful.
2006-10-25 10:26:13 · answer #4 · answered by looloo1122 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in love with another man, consider yourself lucky that you never got married. You will have to explain it to your boyfriend and move on. You cannot deny yourself a lifetime of possible love just because you have been with him for a long tim.
2006-10-25 11:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by Bill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend the truth! It might hurt him but trust me a man respects you more if you don't do things behind his back because it makes him fell less than a man and his best friend might not like him after he beats him down!
2006-10-25 10:23:18 · answer #6 · answered by Cortney DaFashioness Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its your chose girl kiss them both and see which one of them make that kiss more special, or just go with what your heart says.
so which one you have a good time with and also if your boyfriend didnt prepose when will he.i would dump him he ovesially doesnt want comminute. if i was you i would dump him.good luck
2006-10-25 11:56:28 · answer #7 · answered by divachick95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with your boyfriend.. Stop playing games and grow up... A real women knows what she wants......
2006-10-25 10:24:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move to Colorado and change both your names!
GOD!!!! He is so going to kill you both. The two people in the world he trusted. He is going to need lots and lots of Jack Daniels to swallow this one!
2006-10-25 10:23:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, you owe it to your boyfriend to tell him the truth.
2006-10-25 11:16:03 · answer #10 · answered by shellygirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋