How can I make my mom nice?? Okay, I am good kid and my mom is just so mean.. She hates her mom to death and She shouldn't treat me the way her mom treats her if she hates her mom so much.. MY mom yells at me for no reason.. I get good grades ( A's and sometimes B's!)
How can I make my mom not be so mean to me and know that she is treating me like her mom treats her?? It's annpying how her friends are all like, don't you feel sorry for you mom, that her mom (my grandma) is allways mean to her?? I am like in my head well she treats me the same way.. Here's what she does..
PULLS HAIR!!
DOESN't RESPOND SOMETIMES BECAUSE SHE WANTS TO BE AN IDIOT!!!!!
SLAPS US FOR NO REASON!!
CUSSES AT US FOR NO REASON!
Us = brothers and me!
Pulls my hair and once added this: swing me around.. SHE IS JUST SO MEAN!!!
There has to be awaya to get read of her freaking additude.. Don't be mean to me.. She gave me life.. But she doesn't have to treat me like a pile of freaking poop!! HELP ME PLEASE!!
2006-10-25 10:12:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I promsie she yells and saps for no reason.. if u ask her a simple question she yells with a respond.. I lovem y dad with all my heart and hate my mom iwth all my heart.. the y are nto divorced.. if you tell me to call 911 for child abuse.. wont i geti n trouble?? by my dad?? when my mom dies she will haunt me she says and she says her grandma will haunt me and stuff and when she ides she will haunt me and stuff like that.. if u tlel me to call the cop.. hiw?? i might get in troubele by my hwole family and thye wil hate me..I dont know?? I just hate my mom.,.
2006-10-25 10:13:49 · update #1
This is child abuse. You sound like a very nice person who doesn't deserve to be treated this way especially by your own mother. Actually, no one deserves to be treated this way. I'm sorry that you are going through these problems at home. You should talk to your father and see if he can talk to your mother about what is happening to you and your brothers. If you aren't able to talk to your Dad about this, I would talk to an adult that you can trust. Perhaps a school counselor, teacher, Aunt or Uncle or anyone else that you feel comfortable talking to about this problem.
2006-10-25 10:45:58 · answer #1 · answered by cee cee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so very sorry that you are having to go through this because it is NOT fair to you, nor is it right. It is against the law what your mother is doing to you. She cannot pull your hair, swing you around by your hair or slap you. And yes, she is acting just like her own mother. Your mother needs professional help to deal with the anger she has for her mother. If she does not get help, she will continue to treat you the way she is treating you. I know your afraid to call the cops. I can understand that. Especially because there is a good chance that you and your brother would be taken away from your mom for child abuse. But you cannot continue to live this way. She has NO right to treat you and your brother like this. But honey, you have to call the cops. You do not deserve to be hurt this way. NO CHILD deserves this. Your mom is the adult and she knows better. My mother was extremely mean as well. She was an alcoholic. And my father was an alcoholic as well. He beat her all the time. There were six of us kids and we lived through hell each and everyday we were there. It caused a lot of emotional unbalance in our life. Even as adults. We were whipped with a belt, slapped, called terrible terrible names. We all grew up with no self estemm, no self love. There was no help for us during this time. Not like there is today. One call and someone is going to be there to help you. Honey, this is not your fault. Please get that into your head. Your mothers problems are HER problems, but she is taking it out on you and your brother. Can you go and live with your dad? I don't know if your parents are divorced or not, but I would go live with your dad if they are. If they aren't divorced, how does your dad allow this behavior to continue? That is my concern. You said you love your dad, so he must treat you well. But in doing so, he has to protect you as well, even if it is from his wife. He cannot allow this behavior from her to continue. Honey, if you don't feel comfortable calling the cops, go and talk to a counselor at school. Tell her what you have said here. Ok sweety. I feel for you and my heart goes out to you. I know, I have been there. I'm 52 now, but I'll never forget the terrible childhood I had. It never leaves you, you just learn to deal with it and move on. Again, just know that you DO NOT deserve to be abused by ANY adult. Not even your mom. It's wrong. Bless you sweety.
2006-10-25 11:30:53 · answer #2 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot change your mom. The only solution for you is to speak up. Talk to your dad. If that doesnt work, talk to a counselor at school. Your mom needs HELP. When you are grown, you can do what I did and move 1500 miles away. Until then, steer clear of mom and keep out of trouble, if you dont want to tell another adult!
2006-10-25 10:29:29 · answer #3 · answered by lee911 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It feel either one of them want extra awareness, animal abuse, and baby abuse. In my opinion they're each as unhealthy a every different. No residing creature will have to cross by way of the abuse a few cross by way of.
2016-09-01 02:37:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should find a teacher at school that you trust and let them know what is going on. There is no reason you should have to be treated the way that you are. With their help, you should be able to get in touch with someone who can help you.
2006-10-25 10:24:17 · answer #5 · answered by A.Mercer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, call 9-1-1. You mother is abusing you. She does not sound mentally stable and obviously needs help.
You and your brothers and sisters need to get out of there to a good home and get some counseling before it not only ruins your present life but your entire future and that of your children.
God bless you child. I hope you and your siblings can get some help. If your Dad can't/won't help you he is enabling her at your expense and it just isn't fair.
2006-10-25 10:57:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a trusted adult about this. A teacher, a counselor, a minister, a friend's parent. Someone you can trust. It doesn't sound like you can make this better by yourself.
2006-10-25 10:28:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
put it all in writting to your mom in a letter. tell her just what you have told us an how it makes you feel . put her on a guilt trip...tell her that you want to be close an best friends. like one of your friends an her mom. how can anyone smack a child that says , i want to be your best friend. tell her there is something missing in your life an you need a mother not a dictator...good luck honey!
2006-10-25 10:24:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well let her know like "mom do you hate me?" or something if she yells again start crying. if she tries to touch you yell "STOP IT YOU CHILD ABBUSER!" well not that dramatic just let her know how you feel
2006-10-25 10:19:58 · answer #9 · answered by mischa m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋