How can I make my mom nice?? Okay, I am good kid and my mom is just so mean.. She hates her mom to death and She shouldn't treat me the way her mom treats her if she hates her mom so much.. MY mom yells at me for no reason.. I get good grades ( A's and sometimes B's!)
How can I make my mom not be so mean to me and know that she is treating me like her mom treats her?? It's annpying how her friends are all like, don't you feel sorry for you mom, that her mom (my grandma) is allways mean to her?? I am like in my head well she treats me the same way.. Here's what she does..
PULLS HAIR!!
DOESN't RESPOND SOMETIMES BECAUSE SHE WANTS TO BE AN IDIOT!!!!!
SLAPS US FOR NO REASON!!
CUSSES AT US FOR NO REASON!
Us = brothers and me!
Pulls my hair and once added this: swing me around.. SHE IS JUST SO MEAN!!!
There has to be awaya to get read of her freaking additude.. Don't be mean to me.. She gave me life.. But she doesn't have to treat me like a pile of freaking poop!! HELP ME PLEASE!!
2006-10-25 09:42:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
See... I ♥ my dad with all my heart but he doesn't yell at me for no reason.. My mom.. I just love her in the oppisite way of how I love my dad.. every heard of Hate with all your heart??? well I am sercious she is liek this for no reason.. I PROMISE!!
2006-10-25 09:43:44 · update #1
For your info I don't ned help.. and there is nto allways a reason.. there is allways no reason for my freaking stupid loserish freaking mom.. i hate her hate her hate her and I have a great reason!!
2006-10-25 10:05:39 · update #2
You can call the cops and tell them that your mom is abusing you and they can talk to your mom and she can get a warning and if she still does it call the police the police again and they will take her to jail and you can live with your dad believe me i had to do that 3 years ago and it worked my mom is nice to me now
2006-10-25 10:04:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.. i feel for u.. maybe you can write her a letter and see if she'll understand you and maybe she will talk to you about it. I can understand your pain.. and I'll pray for u and ur mom. Her heart is very hard, and she was hurt REALLY bad before and thats probably y she is the way she is. but thats no reason to treat u the way she does. if anything she should learn from her past and capitalize off of it. Ask if she's been hurt b4 and see if she starts talking. Communication is the key to any bonding.
Good luck and I hope she really has an understanding and respect for u and ur brothers..
2006-10-25 10:24:19 · answer #2 · answered by Sicilian Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 06:26:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always a reason. You should see if your mom want to get counseling together and you can discuss how her behavior makes you feel. My mom was mean and she got counseling and got better. We found out she had a mental illiness and had to have medication and even worse it was hereditary and it was passed down to us, so we ran for help so we wouldn't do that to our kids. Even if your mom don't want to get help you should get help for yourself and maybe she will join eventually.
2006-10-25 10:02:16 · answer #4 · answered by barbie2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's abuse!!! Tell your dad and see if you can live with him. Your mother sounds heartless. I'd never treat my daughter that way. If she slaps you, pulls your hair, whatever, she is abusing you and that is illegal. Tell the cops, a teacher, your dad....tell someone. That is wrong how she is treating you and you don't have to live like that. TELL YOUR DAD.
2006-10-25 09:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude chill just take some drugs...... just kidding lol i think u have a bad mom and wat u should do is like sit down with your mom and talk to her and ask her about these things she is doing or simply stay out of her way and how old are u and shes doing this
2006-10-25 09:47:32 · answer #6 · answered by nazanin m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that you feel taht way
have u tried talking to her??
I think that can help you
2006-10-25 10:16:33 · answer #7 · answered by JAZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show her your question here..... maybe that'll help. IF it doesn't and she continues to hurt you and your brothers, you need to tell someone like a teacher or your doctor...
2006-10-25 09:46:05 · answer #8 · answered by The ReDesign Diva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunatly short of screaming to her freacking face that she is doing to you what was once done to her, there isn't much you can do.
2006-10-25 09:46:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋