Marriage & Divorce - 7 October 2006

she has only been with me for 11yr we have 3 boys were shes 27 and im 29. now she dresses in sexy cloths goes out with lady friend says she wonts to stay married and be sepertaed and still be in the same bed with me what to do?

2006-10-07 05:35:37 · 28 answers · asked by james t 1

me and my ex husband have been seeing each other , but dont want no one to know , he told me he still loves me and i still love him but we both are scared of getting hurt all over again.

2006-10-07 05:34:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are you picky about who your children are around? Meaning, if you are dating someone, do you take your kids around them if you don't really see it going anywhere? Do you let your kids be around your friends?

2006-10-07 05:16:36 · 9 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4

my wife takes very good care of my needs...even when she isn't turned on all i have to do is ask. but i don't like saying can i have some. it feels disresptful. what is the best way to ask for sex?

2006-10-07 05:10:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Donkey punched. I'm not sure what that is so could you tell me and where do you think she had it done before. she want this done in her front of her family ?

2006-10-07 05:06:05 · 14 answers · asked by Wondering If ? 1

Wife and I have Been married for 10yr with two kids. She says I'm a great dad, wounderfull person, good husband but lack in the romance and commuication area.She's 30 but recently meet a 21 yr o' guy that works in the same field of work shes in. Shes allready spent the night but clams not to have sex But wants get back on the pill so she can. Everyday that goes by she seems more cold harted and has said she has nothing left to give to our marriage. I'm not ready to lose her. This is not the 1st time she cheated 2 yr back she had sex with a 18yr guy. Any suggestions or ideas to help. PLEASE

2006-10-07 05:03:27 · 13 answers · asked by Ram330 1

It is an easy word to say (forgive).

2006-10-07 04:53:26 · 21 answers · asked by ACE 1

2006-10-07 04:47:41 · 8 answers · asked by Unknown 3

It is an easy word to say (forgive).

2006-10-07 04:41:19 · 24 answers · asked by ACE 1

2006-10-07 04:38:57 · 9 answers · asked by emily 3

since i was single up to now im married... my relatives always asking me money everytime they have emerygency needs and of course i always help them as long as i can, but this time i feel tired of thier bullshit behaviour and stoped listening to them if they have financially problem,most of them are married.. i realized that they must be learn how to be a responsible of thier own problem not to running to me and ask everytime they have problem...i have my own family too,i have own problem too,i have my own life too....
but i think its over they have no shame to themselves they take advanges of my goodness..so i think i should limit my kindness to them????

2006-10-07 04:31:25 · 15 answers · asked by confusegirl 1

2006-10-07 04:28:27 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live in orlando fl, my husband and I have been separated for almost a month because he feels that he can't take the marriage life. there is no other person for neither of us. and even thought he says he does not want to be with me( we have two kids 9 and 7) he does not know what he wants with his life he acts like he is still here he has all of his stuff except work clothes here, he eats breakfast before taking the kids to school, he sometimes shower here the only thing he does not do in my house is sleep here or with me including no sex. I feel he is very confused, yes life has been very hard for both of us the last 3 months. I think that if I plan a nice evening just the two of us we might have a chance. By the way we have been married for 12 years now in november.

2006-10-07 04:19:16 · 8 answers · asked by Zuny 1

I have not had reason for suspicion. But I feel uncomfortable with this call he had. Your valued suggestion please.

2006-10-07 04:17:53 · 11 answers · asked by enigma 3

On last Monday my boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me. We have a daughter who just turned 3 on Thursday and our anniversary was on the Sunday before he broke it off. On that last Saturday he was out with his friends for all night and his lips smelled like u know what... so, anyways, yesturday I dropped my daughter off at his grandmas house and he wasn't there to watch her while I was at work and she was actin crazy so I went to the bar I know he goes to (mind you this is 7:50 in the am) He was there and I was goin to ask him to get her but I walked in and saw him kissing this blonde icky girl! My heart broke, but not before I punch him several times... my question is... what should I do now? I have a beautiful daughter, but that turns guys away... I'm only 23... I feel like no one is ever going to love me. How could he dump 4 years of our lives and treat me like a dog~ I feel like I have been traded in for a better model.

2006-10-07 04:11:14 · 24 answers · asked by Prettyeyez 2

we have a great marriage. ineed inexpensive ways to make her know i lover her. we spend lots of time together and i feel we both are happy.just want her to feel like my queen.

2006-10-07 04:09:13 · 23 answers · asked by sweet_candy792003 1

could you leave your husband and children for a guy 17yrs your junior..if you have already what motivated you to do this..my mum's ran of with a 23yr old and is divorcing my father and does not want us...is she having a mid life crisis or is this normal? she has just brought a new sports car aswell and she is a secretary and he is a builder

2006-10-07 03:49:13 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-07 03:44:14 · 36 answers · asked by twinkle 1

About once a month my husband will tell me that he'll be home right after work which is usually anywhere from 10PM to Midnight depending on the day. Instead he goes to the bar get totally plastered and walks home leaving our truck in town. He'll get home and make a ton of noise getting into the house that wakes me up. When I ask if he just got home he says no I've been here. I a very light sleeper so I know when he gets home. He usually does this when I have to be up early to go to work. I don't mind that he goes to the bar and I'm very glad that he doesn't drive home, but why does he feel the need to lie about it?

2006-10-07 03:43:26 · 7 answers · asked by LJ 4

I found a email he had wrote to a woman & the made plans to see each other & did but the e-mail didn't say that had sex. I called the woman & also saw her she was not what I pictured her as. We had a fight about it & after I saw her he had to ask me what happen & after that night we have not talked about it. I love him but i'm scared of loosing him.

2006-10-07 03:26:39 · 25 answers · asked by kimmy 1

Communicate with my husband? I am 18 years old he is 21 and we got married after 2 months of knowing dating each other in vegas as a joke. And due to a lot of drinking that same day have a baby on the way. We have been married for month s told our parents both feel we should move in and stay married and we had our first big fight recently. I have to keep fighting the urge not to throw a fit and cry?Also sometimes my husband speaks to me as if i were a child? i really hate it! My husband wants to stay married and i feel out numbered.

2006-10-07 03:15:46 · 17 answers · asked by Keri O 1

I've known my girlfriend for five years, but we've only been dating a short time. We've talked about how we feel about one another quite often, and we have both admitted to being in love with each other for a long time, even before we began dating. I am more than ready to spend the rest of my life with her, but how do I know when to pop THE question? Things are complicated by the fact that we no longer live in the same state. I am in the military, and I'm stationed halfway across the country from her.

2006-10-07 02:58:02 · 6 answers · asked by Justin 1

I have a court ordered withholding decree, He has changed jobs, won't tell me where.. Says his pay went to $8.00 (from a $25.00 hr job) He is sending child support directly to me instead of thru the court as is ordered. He is paying for only 1 child.(I understand that part, as my daughter is now out of the house) but I'm concerned that he isn't going thru the court to make everything legal. What are my options when he is not obeying court orders?

2006-10-07 02:57:58 · 9 answers · asked by robinnbama 1

I have just left my husband and it has been realy hard. He dosent seem to understand why I left. Every time I take my daughter over to visit him he always wants to talk to me about when im commin back. Its really hard to tell him that it is over and Im not commin back. I feel really bad because he dosent make me happy and I just want to move on. How do I move on when I want him to be ok

2006-10-07 02:57:27 · 15 answers · asked by kristal930 k 1

Lately my wife and I have started sharing fantasies, and her favorite fantasy was her being with me and another guy at the same time. Although, the thought of that is kind of a turn on for me too, should I be worried that she desires another guy. I am not very well endowed, so could it be because I'm not satisfying her?

2006-10-07 02:51:52 · 20 answers · asked by Steve J 1

Me and my husband have been together for almost 6 years. I look at him and I still think he is soooo HOT, but when it comes down to having sex with him it grosses me out. He's really good at it, but I've lost that connection with him.

2006-10-07 02:46:57 · 27 answers · asked by jessica s 2

I just found out yesterday for sure that my fiance had a three month relationship with a girl at work. He got both of us pregnant at the same time...that's why he wanted me to get an abortion...both of us got an abortion...our kids would have been two weeks apart from each other.

Anyways, me and the other woman met up and we talked and we confronted my fiance/her boyfriend yesterday (he was shocked)...he could not lie once we confronted him face to face...He tried to get back with both of us and told both of us that he loved us and wanted a family with us...We both realized that he is a complete liar and will never change...

How have you gotten over someone who cheated on you? I mean I loved him so much...so did she...he was telling me that we were to be married in 6 months and move in together and he was telling her that he was going to move in with her in 6 months....

I can't eat, or sleep, I feel sick....both me and the other woman have to get tested....

2006-10-07 02:43:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-07 02:40:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

And if the marraige is dead - is persueing a divorce a good idea?

2006-10-07 02:39:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a 38 Year old M and married to a 33f we have been married for almost 7 months and have been together a year. We have really had a rocky relationship. Yes I love her. She says she loves me, but sometimes I really wonder. We have had our fights in which she has involved her family. I was mentally abusive. I am not anymore with thanks to my shrink and some work. I was never physical. I am ashamed and not proud of the names and she knows that. I guess when I am hurt it turns into anger and I say things I dont mean. She was lying a lot to me and It hurt. She also turned to her family whenever we had a problem or anything of importance came up. I feel left out. Anyways our sex life was great in the begining, well atleast for me it was, there are things I am limited to, because I am having back surgery tuesday, but anyways. For the last 4 months there has been no sex, none what so ever. What do I do and what would you think. Help please need some advice and some guidance.

2006-10-07 02:02:37 · 8 answers · asked by buddabear38 1