Marriage & Divorce - 7 October 2006

the men an women on 360 , messenger and myspace who are married an looking? and does anyone ever find someone off of here who isn't a freak? the reason i ask is because i am addicted to the chat. and not out looking for an affair...only the chat!

2006-10-07 16:32:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Before we got married, my husband gave me the impression that he was picky, never was in any serious relationship, just would get to know girls and he just wasnt impressed by any, and i was the only one he ever loved or cared about or even "had a crush on", i never asked him for these things, he just volunteered this information, obviously i was flattered, but it wouldnt have made a difference otherwise. lately iam finding out that these things arent true. he was just saying them to flatter me, which it obviously worked, but i can help but feel that i was duped in a way. Also he has lied about personality traits that he doesnt have..."i dont have a temper", "i dont flirt", "i say what imean and do as i say", "i dont divelge peoples secrets" etc... I know they seem like small things, but i just cant help but feel that alot of what i liked about him isnt true...and also i keep catching him in lies and he keep breaking promises, nothing huge but still....am i over reacting??

2006-10-07 16:31:45 · 8 answers · asked by Pebbles 2

The other day we had a phone call from the ex's daughter (non biological of my husbands) 10 years old asking if we could pay mommy the money we owe her now instead of 2 weeks when its due for the support of his biological child with the ex. She said mommy told her she could not sign up for dance lessons unless she got the support money and to call and ask for it.

2006-10-07 16:28:52 · 11 answers · asked by firefighter 1

I divorced my wife after 17 years of marriage, and 5+ years of counseling. I've remarried and had an incredibly blessed relationship. One church we attended said me and my 2nd wife are going to hell unless we divorce.

Can that possibly be right?

2006-10-07 16:25:13 · 25 answers · asked by JustAGuy 2

2006-10-07 16:15:37 · 4 answers · asked by whos_tat_grl 2

a Chinese girl and a western guy

2006-10-07 16:09:51 · 4 answers · asked by chloe 5

I wonder what people think of me at first opinion. I'm physically attractive, but I'm 36, divorced with a 5 year old and a 1½ year old by two different fathers. I'm living with my parents for financial reasons and I drive an 11 year old car. I've got a college degree, but have a so-so job (no money, no credit). Would I appeal to anyone? Basically all I have going for me is my appearance - not much else to offer, financially speaking... Could someone fall in love with me despite the baggage? Or is it more likely that I'll be alone? I could handle being alone, but being in love is really nice and I would so love to be loved again...

2006-10-07 16:03:01 · 11 answers · asked by gailziggy 1

Dated for many years... 3 months after marriage he is really getting on my nerves? During those years of dating I matured alot, but this man has got me acting like i did when i was 22--off the chain--- I don't want to act like this--it serves no purpose...

2006-10-07 16:00:58 · 14 answers · asked by Tajay 2

My huband is deployed and we just talked ealier today and said how he can't wait to come home and hold me again. Then he sends me and e-mail like a half hour ago and say he not sure if he is in love with me anymore and does not know if our marriage can work. What should I do?

2006-10-07 15:54:13 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-07 15:51:41 · 22 answers · asked by amj48228 1

About 2 years ago something terrible happened in our marriage.

My wife & I used to give each other a night out while the other watched the kids. One night my wife was out with some friends drinking and they all decided to go back to a mutual friend's house. One of my closest friends took advantage of my wife while she was passed out after too much alcohol. We're not kids either she was 29 ahd he was 30. After it happened he left town and nobody has heard from him since.

This eats away at both of us for different reasons - but neither of us EVER talk about it.

How can we approach this?

2006-10-07 15:44:17 · 32 answers · asked by felonius_monkey 3

I found a clip of two women getting it on, on MY computer, I think of watching porn as a form of cheating, although I know he hasnt done anything physical, he still was phantasizing about two other women. Why do you men think watching porn is okay? Or going to strip clubs? When your in a serious relationship, there should be none of that, it should be just you two enjoying each other, am I wrong? I need a guys piont of view please, on why you do what you do.

2006-10-07 15:42:49 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am, of course, looking for someone who agrees with me, wheather I'm right or wrong. But really, you try to help just to find out the asker is just wasting time,until someone finally tells them what they want to hear, rather than an honest answer. Am I wrong? if so, I'll go away and never bother any of you again--'till tomorrow.

2006-10-07 15:38:42 · 6 answers · asked by Raptor 3

i never seen this guy i only talked to him and asked him some normal? he is afraid of me now her best friend his seen someone now my wife thinks thy wont be friend now what to do to make my wife not down and mad at me?

2006-10-07 15:38:36 · 6 answers · asked by james t 1

2006-10-07 15:34:04 · 39 answers · asked by bigboyd65 1

2006-10-07 15:26:05 · 6 answers · asked by super girl 3

i need some nice words to make up for all the bad stuff i did to get back together with my wife
for evey bad thing i did i need to say 5 good things to make it right because she said that she was going to leave me.

2006-10-07 15:24:59 · 9 answers · asked by james t 1

2006-10-07 15:18:19 · 12 answers · asked by ne_patriots2005 4

He was in on it and he felt terrible, and after he told me the details about it, even the double penetration part, I almost passed out, how can I deal with this??

2006-10-07 15:18:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my wife, married for nine years. In bed my wife saids "NOT TONIGHT HONEY" its because of her back, headache, or not in the move to do it. This morning my wife ask why I didn't tried to make a move last night, I told her I have giving up. I DO jack off when I need to- thinking about the past with her,and other ladies I had in the past. SORRY, I'm human.
HELP ME TO FIGURE HER OUT BEFORE WE END UP OLD, OR SPLITTING UP.

2006-10-07 15:15:43 · 13 answers · asked by Darrin S 1

I have been dating my boyfriend for 2years and we are so in love. ..?
We always talk about getting married, and we both agree that we want to in the near future. But everytime i ask when he is actually going to ask me...he says he is waiting till he saves up enough money to buy me a BIG diamond.(just to let you know we are not rich....) Do you think he is just saying that to put it off ..or do you think he really just wants to get me the prefect ring?!?! (I just wanted to add that we have lived together for 1year in our apartment , we have a dog, and a car that is both ours...we have tons of house stuff that is both of ours)

2006-10-07 15:11:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, been married 7 years, been together 10... we have had sex once in the last year. Its not just the physical intimacy I miss, its the emotional intimacy too, prol more so. I am so angry and frustrated, we dont even touch when we lay in bed at night. I dont want a divorce, I'm not in a position to ask for one, and I dont want to sleep around becuase its not about that. what would you do?

2006-10-07 15:10:19 · 29 answers · asked by grapelady911 5

My husband needs his space and to get away and to go for a walk or rest. I never get to rest or get away even when I am sick. It was this way with my 1st husband too. And I work full time on top of being a mother, maid and wife. This isn't fair!

2006-10-07 15:02:39 · 13 answers · asked by rollinonvzdubs 1

My husband took a vacation to visit his lover for four days. He is coming back tonight. I want him back. I am praying to have my family reunited as the good old days. But I am sad and dismay. I cann't welcome him as regular business trip. I hate the situation. But I don't want to mess-up the whole family. I have two kids, 6 & 8. They don't know what's going on. What should I do?

2006-10-07 15:01:06 · 8 answers · asked by wawashay 2

Im ok to get answers from any1 who has a broad mind.....in this topic....

2006-10-07 15:00:56 · 15 answers · asked by Lita fedrick 1

2006-10-07 14:59:38 · 15 answers · asked by ne_patriots2005 4

2006-10-07 14:50:51 · 51 answers · asked by alec c 4

you know some are bitter some are sweet,or they all the same?

2006-10-07 14:42:04 · 12 answers · asked by super girl 3

I am getting married.... to a black guy.... I am white.... my parents, siblings, and friends dont mind it.... my aunt and grandmother however do.... they even went so far as to say that if he was with me I was NOT welcome at their houses... I have always been close to my grandmother because i am her oldest grand daughter... but now she wants nothing to do with me.... what do I do.... I need advice.... Thank you to all of you who really answer this... To those of you who answer this with a stupid remark... your welcome for the whole two points you get from it!!!!!

2006-10-07 14:32:43 · 17 answers · asked by Babygurl 2

im from england and i am a promotions girl fir eg i go to the opening of night clubs and places like that and promote the place. i know it sounds abit slutty but basically i have to dress like a glamour model. ive had the same boyfriend for 6 years and we are engaged to get married.im now 21. during my work i have to go to night clubs were lots of men hang around and some are footballers and millionaires. i met a young man in his twenties whose father owned the nightclub were i was working . he has a lot of power in that industry and everytime i was working at his club he would come on to me.he would feel me up and he had me in tears many a time. i would tell him to back off and he would force himself on me saying if i didint let him do it he would get me sacked. one night he raped me and that day i quit the job as i felt it wasent worth it. i felt so guilty i told my fiance and he dumped me. now im heartbroken and feel my life isint worth living. what shall i do.

2006-10-07 14:32:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous