Marriage & Divorce - 7 October 2006

i never dated anyone, like 12 years older, but of all the guys I know, my professor is the hottest. guys my age are great but there's something so appealing about my prof. Maybe just that he's unavailable and it makes him a little more mysterious that way.

what do you think

2006-10-07 11:46:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband Ashton Jay Nickels,
just divorced me on the 2nd of this
month.The 8th of this month would
have been our 9th month 2gether.
I'm having to wait for my 2nd child
and 1st boy along with having to
care for my 9 month old daughter.
What should I do about this?
Should I see Dr.Phil or someone else
about this depressing moment of love?
-Ms.Sarah Nickels

2006-10-07 11:45:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Don't ask...

2006-10-07 11:41:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife has been on myspace for over a year now. She has wanted me to get on it for a while now, so I finally did. We have a "no talking to the opposite sex" rule in our relationship, but she said that it was alright to disregard this rule as long as the conversations don't get out of hand. She has been talking to guys on here for a while. However, when she noticed that I started getting a lot of attention from females on there, she became insanely jealous and demanded that I remove all of the females and stop talking to them. I've constantly told her that I make sure that my conversations are what they should be by me being a married man and have offered to allow her to read all of my messages. I have nothing to hide. It's pretty selfish of her to want me to change.

2006-10-07 11:31:03 · 10 answers · asked by wtf24 1

I'm a guy and I have never understood this. When I was a kid, if my dad caught me looking at pretty women, he would slap the **** out of me. It's so disrespectful too stare even if your not in a relationship. Then these dumbshits wonder why they get dumped. Doesn't anyone have self-control anymore? Can't people ignore temptation??????????

2006-10-07 11:28:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

10/13 will be our 6 year anniversary. We have together two beautiful children, 20 month old son and a two month old daughter plus a house we bought two years ago. I still have not been asked..he tells me in a couple years but when will that be? Am I asking to much? I am scared that he doesn't want to get married. I do. I am thinking he may not want to, just yet...incase he meets someone else? I am not sure....what else would it be? Just recenlty his best friend got married and then his wife cheated on him. Is he scared? Does he think this will happen to him? A question I ask myself...or is it me? Does he really love me?
Please help me define my ?? I will be 25 and he is 26.....

2006-10-07 11:26:07 · 11 answers · asked by butterflyangel1013 2

I thought I would be married forever. I love this man no matter how selfish he is. He recently quit drinking and thinks he doesn't want me anymore. We have two daughters that we adore. He says he still loves me but has no romantic feelings for me anymore. Should I be patient re: the sober situation? Is he able to make such a harsh choice? He's been sober for a short month..he used to drink 15 beers a day.

2006-10-07 11:15:20 · 10 answers · asked by Juls 1

why do young men make it so tempting on us women. To be unfaithful and just go get some of that young stud? especially my car mechanic , flexing his muscles as he so steadly wipes the grease from his hands. like the hansome construction workers on the side of the road , looking at you as you drive by. why do young sexy men make it so hard on us ladies?

2006-10-07 11:06:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

7 years ago I got married. I am 40 my wife is 42, she has been married beofre but it was my first marriage. She seems to use me. 4 years ago she went on a cruise with her parents for 10 days leaving me at home then did it again last year.

Now her dog has died and so she has gone to stay with her parents for two nights. In times or trouble I turn to her but when she is troubled she turns to her parents.

She is using me. She lies to me and has stolen from a shop she wored at and had an official police warning but still I love her. My Aunt died and today I went to help my mum clear her house, on the way back from my Aunts today she calls me to say she is staying with her parents because she hates our house.

I don't know what to do, Are are women like this? I am losing faith in myself, what I have done and my trust in other people - I feel I should walk away but it is hard but she seems to abouse my trust and love. The easiest thing is to stay, the hardest thing is to leave.

2006-10-07 11:04:39 · 48 answers · asked by Rob 1

If you were engaged to someone, and ended up getting locked up for 9 months. How mad would you be if 3.5 months in the the sentences your fience made out with another guy. But she felt really bad about it and wished she would have never done it.

2006-10-07 10:58:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you found a text message on your Wife's...Husband's or significant other's Cell phone to a co-worker of the opposite sex "can use a hug later" what would you think is going on?

2006-10-07 10:57:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean real answers and not smart a$$ answers please. My husband and I have been married for 10 years and he doesn't say I love you regularly, he is not really affectionate, and because of my weight, I am afraid that has become an issue in the marital bed. I am doing something about it, but I am wondering if he really still loves me? Thanks

2006-10-07 10:54:58 · 9 answers · asked by Madonna1 2

What would you do if a man offered you 1million$ to spend one night with your wife? You would have to set up the "date" such as a business dinner that you suddenly got called away from... leaving your wife and a very handsome business man. The catch is you only get the money if your wife does NOT have sexually contact with this man. Do you trust her enough? One of the guidelines is that you are not allowed to say anything to her about the money....or the set up. The other twist, if she does have sexual contact with him, she gets the money. And in either circumstance is able to tell her the whole story as to how you bet on her trust. If she gets the money, could you ever trust her again... could she ever trust you again for betting on her? I would enjoy both sides to this... men and woman welcome... Thanks..

2006-10-07 10:54:42 · 4 answers · asked by oracle 3

Me and my husband have had an arguement today and haven't been talking, but I'm feeling horny. Should I make the peace with him to get some action, or should I stick to my guns as the arguement wasn't my fault?

2006-10-07 10:51:46 · 22 answers · asked by ♥ Nicola ♥ 3

should i use a leather strap?

2006-10-07 10:50:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

place to find a job and raise two girls. All I have is an Associate degree in General Education. I want to move out of Oklahoma to a more suitable place to raise them, and for me, a better job.

2006-10-07 10:49:10 · 6 answers · asked by lifescircle 5

It was not expensive at all. So yesterday he called to tell me he was going to the store, I told him to pick me up because he spends alot of money and I don't want it if it is expensive. So he came home and we went to two stores, but it was expensive and I got turned off at the vendors, so I said forget it.
Now I am pissed off the more I think about it. He should have gotten the gift a few days ago and not running around on my birthday to find it. I told him a few days ago where to go and even gave him a picture of it.
So another birthday has gone by and nothing. Every year it seems to be the same thing. Today I figured he would go to the store before he got home and pick it up, but nothing.

Am I right for being pissed off? I know I suggested going with him, but the more I think about it, that was dumb on my part.

2006-10-07 10:47:35 · 12 answers · asked by GQ69 2

2006-10-07 10:41:30 · 12 answers · asked by MadDog21 1

Me and my husband has been together for 6 years and we have children together. But the relationship is not the same all we do is argue, we dont do things together and we dont have a friendship, were just two people in the same house. when i ask him to do something he says ok but it never gets done. when i give him advise, he does the oppisite, but someone else can say the same thing a hour later and he thinks thats the best idea he ever heard. We have no romance, no friendship, no understanding nothing but sex and thats not even good

2006-10-07 10:38:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

to keep besides the kids and why i want to keep the dog what about yall

2006-10-07 10:31:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i really like this guy & he likes me too; the attraction is great but I think his heart belongs to someone else. so i guess, my question is; if he likes me so much (which I know he does), how come he doesn't fall in love...

when i like someone this much (which doesn't happen very often, i fall for them immeadiat.)

thanks

2006-10-07 10:26:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

and why

2006-10-07 10:25:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

thier husbands watching porn?

2006-10-07 10:25:25 · 6 answers · asked by Simply Me 5

2006-10-07 10:24:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been married for a year. Our marriage has been rocky from verbal to physical abuse. He has cheated on me once and been on a date once.(In my heart he still continues but doesn't admit it) We have a child together. His family hates me and my family hates him, but with time I know they can love him again. My husband is white and I am black. We have no problem with this but his family does. I feel as though I am holding on to something that is not meant to be hold on to but I know I love him. Could I be confusing my love for him instead of me being in love? I filed for divorce but am hesitant on going through with it.

2006-10-07 10:22:51 · 3 answers · asked by mseulonda 1

Ladies, how many times would you forgive your husband/partner for viewing porn secretly (which you then find out about) and is it more upsetting and degrading if they are paying for 'pay per view' web cams as opposed to just viewing what ever appears on the web site they are watching.

2006-10-07 10:21:07 · 20 answers · asked by babycakes mummy 3

...like you are resonsible for the housekeeping, cooking, shopping, paying bills, child care, EVERYTHING, and your husband does nothing but watch tv or play video games. Just want to see if this is a common occurrence or if it's rare.

2006-10-07 10:19:33 · 9 answers · asked by Jennifer L 6

she wants 2 divorce me i told her i love her so much she wont listen
i also have 2 kids

2006-10-07 10:09:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

you later discover he has been unfaithful more than once you have no financial backup as he told you not to work and he would take care of you. what would you do?

2006-10-07 09:49:46 · 17 answers · asked by Journey 1

i was very hurt...some family problem and i thought that may b i shud share it with my husband and then he can make me feel better and give some advices.so i msged him tellin him that im hurt and upset.he called me and told me that i shudnt b talkin about any1 and that i shud keep all my feelings to myself.i should not back bite.i wasnt back biting.infact i hadnt even started tellin me problem.i just wanted to tell him what has happened with me.b4 we got married all his female friends use to call him and tell him all of their personale problem (includin their probs with their fiances) if he can understand them and listen to them y cant he listen to my problem.i dun like sharing my family probs with any1 and my hubby was the only1 i felt i cud b open with....y do u think he is sayin this?what does it means.if he can listen to his female friends y cant he listen to me too?

2006-10-07 09:49:19 · 6 answers · asked by afriend 2