Marriage & Divorce - 7 October 2006

I knew gong into my marriage that my wife could not have intercourse due to endometriosis. So, I have not had sex at all since 1997. I'm 42. My wife offers and it not receptive to any type of sexual contact. I really hadn't planned on that. We did have plenty of "fun" whle dating, but since 97....nothing. I love my wife but have to admit to myself that I want sex. If not with her, which I would prefer, than with someone else. I haven't acted on this urge but doubt I would resist if the opportinity presented itself. I am feeling VERY FRUSTRATED!

2006-10-07 14:30:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

1.when ur partner is thinking abt smone else while with u?
2.when ur partner is a criticizer?
3.when ur partner hides things from u?
4.when there is minimal needy conversations happ?
and wat shld one do to rectify?no talking over matters solution plz!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-07 14:28:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

After getting cheated on and robbed by my last girlfriend, I have been so bitter and angry, telling myself all women are scum, that I have refused to date anyone for the last 5 years. After being a loner for 5 years, I've cooled down a bit, but I have no clue were to go to find someone. Seems like there are no places to find singles anywere (Except bars and clubs were only losers hang out). Am I just doomed to be alone cause I have no clue were to start over.

2006-10-07 14:18:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why in the hell do we women gravitate towards these low life, rediculous, good for nothing, childish men who that treat us like crap when we know there is way better men out there that will treat us right?

I married this clown several years ago that did nothing but treat me like dirt and cheat on me all the way through dating and our marriage until I finally had enough a left him. I knew he was garbage before we got married but like a fool I was so blinded by love I thought he would change once we got married, but to my dismay things just got worse. Now here I am, not to be besides myself, but a very nice looking woman and he made me feel like the ugliest thing in the world most of the time. I look back now and can't believe how I let this idiot destroy me mentally and I see a lot of my girlfriends going through the same crap. I keep trying to give them advice from my experience and damn if they don't listen. I just don't understand why we women put ourselves through this!

2006-10-07 14:12:29 · 20 answers · asked by Simmy 3

I have been with this guy for 2 and a half years...we are both 19, we got an apartment together about a year ago. We have had a few break ups but none that lasted over 2 months. I am 8 and a half months pregnant and he broke up with me for good like 3 weeks ago, because i kept comlaining about him always partying and not being home with me , and just him hanging out with his friends in general. So now i am back home at my moms, i love him so much he is my first love, and i dont know how to live with out him, and be a good mom. I dont wanna be alone, and hes the only one i think i will ever love. What can i do to stop calling him and thinking about him, and going crazy over him. someone please help me, i am so hurt and i just want to be in his arms again, but he says thats not possible and he doesnt love me as much anymore, and we will never be together, i just dont know what to do with myself, or how to get over this, or if i will EVER get over th

2006-10-07 13:28:42 · 35 answers · asked by Alyssa 1

It seems like it is ok for them to forget and be ok with it, What is the deal? Answers from men would help also,give me some insight.

2006-10-07 13:26:22 · 18 answers · asked by aprilrain 2

Especially when the husband is always trying to make love with her and wants to make her feel loved, wanted, respected?

2006-10-07 13:24:03 · 30 answers · asked by shlomogon 4

I know husbands do. There are wives that deny they masturbate.

2006-10-07 13:14:44 · 15 answers · asked by shlomogon 4

I know this girl who wants to do something stupid. She wants to do 2 things which I have told her not to do. The first thing she wants to do is get piercings down there just like this picture she showed me(the link is below). She then wants to do something called "female circumcision" where they remove the clitoral hood so the clit is always exposed(she says sex will feel better). Im hoping some responces on here will convince her not too. She doesnt have any tattoos or piercings so i cant understand why she wants something this extreme.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/labia_pierc...

2006-10-07 13:09:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-07 13:06:32 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous

...or is it limited to a few countries? Which ones? What is the process?

2006-10-07 13:01:21 · 5 answers · asked by shlomogon 4

2006-10-07 12:59:34 · 13 answers · asked by therames 1

You try and try and the relationship is unsatisfying. No kids are involved.

2006-10-07 12:58:42 · 5 answers · asked by shlomogon 4

Feel free to express your opinions!!!

A best friend, sex ,and a child can be obtain from a relationship .And Isn't a relationship a commitment too???

With the divorde rate being more than 50% .It's not guaranteed.Its more of a gamble.

2006-10-07 12:49:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

If the vote were on the ballot, would you vote yes or no for gay marriage?

2006-10-07 12:48:18 · 24 answers · asked by angels02_2006 2

,my husband never think that what is he doing to our relationship he fights and he never even think i have been with through his thik and thin.We is a addict and was into brown and i sood by him in his useing days. But life does not seem to in his clean days also he still does not care about me insults me hits me what am i suppose to do as i have a daughter and i can not spoil this relation

2006-10-07 12:46:52 · 13 answers · asked by pooja o 1

Our children are at the same school. Every morning we see each other. The chemistry is frightening. I've been married for 11 years and I'm a complete mess. I can't sleep or get him out of my head. I'm tearful one day then over the moon. As time goes on the feelings are so strong - I'm dreaming of going off with him for ever! I wish I was single with no kids.

2006-10-07 12:41:10 · 23 answers · asked by Isabelle 3

About six months ago I found out my husband was having an affair. We were having problems - not communicating, not spending enough quality time together. Problems I thought were pretty normal for a couple married for ten years. That changed when I found out about the other woman. Even though I have known they are together I saw them together for the first time last night. It hurt like he$$. Why is that?

2006-10-07 12:36:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

thus keeping other men from wanting to look at their wife? (if that made any sense) housewife with kids I mean

2006-10-07 12:34:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

they come from work with kisses hugs go to the store and comes back 4hrs. later with nothing in his hand. We go out to eat he drinks so that we have to leave because he's druck

2006-10-07 12:34:48 · 11 answers · asked by smitty 1

my boyfriend went to prison.he wont be out until may 2008.he insist we get married so he can come back home and not his mothers .he said that since we are not married when he is out on parole,they wont let him come home but to a family members house instead.i dont want to marry anyone in prison.but how can i asure him that i love him,but want to wait.he insist that we get married there and re marry when he gets out.but i just dont want to do that,and dont know how to put him down without sounding all harsh.how can i make a no,sound nice?advice please

2006-10-07 12:34:17 · 12 answers · asked by super girl 3

if you were married to a man that only came home on the weekend only what wolud you do or say

2006-10-07 12:33:56 · 8 answers · asked by bmtaylo 2

they come from work with kisses hugs go to the store and comes back 4hrs. later with nothing in his hand. We go out to eat he drinks so that we have to leave because he's druck

2006-10-07 12:33:01 · 5 answers · asked by smitty 1

My wife is extremely jealous of any and every other woman that shows me any attention whatsoever. I love her with all of my heart and I make sure that I tell her and show her everyday, but it still isn't enough. I go to work and come home to her everyday,same time five days a week. I spend every weekend with her and I enjoy being with her, but her jealousy has been a major problem throughout our relationship. She believes that jealousy equals love. She thinks that since I'm not as jealous as she is, then I don't care about her as much as she cares about me. Does that even make sense? I don't think so! I don't know what else to do to show her that I love and want her. I've told her that her jealousy is pushing me away and she needs to do something about it. Is it my fault?

2006-10-07 12:21:34 · 12 answers · asked by wtf24 1

2006-10-07 12:18:04 · 2 answers · asked by needanswers 3

I just caught my man making love to my pair of $700 Gucci heels!!! His unit was in one shoe, while the other, he was smelling. I knew he a shoe fetish, but is this a normal thing? Should I dump him?? He told me that it is normal, and all his friends do it to their girls' shoes...there is a site that discuss this weird fetish?? www.abusedshoes.com...is it common, and what should I do? I mean he was masterbating with my shoe...he told me he likes the feel and look of the high heels,...help

2006-10-07 12:16:24 · 20 answers · asked by Vanessa 2

2006-10-07 12:05:56 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have an controlling and emotionally abusive husband. He has been harassing me and threatining to take my baby. what do I do?

2006-10-07 11:59:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would you do if your Girlfriend Didn't want to take your last name when you got married? If your girlfriend said that she wanted to either keep hers or get ur last names hypenated..and even to a different extent...what if your girlfriend wanted you to take her last name...My Friend Mike said that his Girlfriend wants him to take her last name...and I find that insane..what do you think?

2006-10-07 11:54:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

insists i go out of town for work . work is slow at home . should i make anything of this.

2006-10-07 11:48:03 · 13 answers · asked by pickledaddy 3