they come from work with kisses hugs go to the store and comes back 4hrs. later with nothing in his hand. We go out to eat he drinks so that we have to leave because he's druck
2006-10-07 12:34:48 · 11 answers · asked by smitty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He does this because while you were dating he did the same thing and got away with it. He will not change, he does not deserve you as his wife. He is probably getting poontang from someone else and is just playing you. Girlfriend? sure either that or he's visiting some guy. Leave him and find a MAN to love and respect you.
2006-10-07 12:38:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take offense at this statement. "They" lumps us all in one catagory. I for one, never conducted myself in this manner.
The answer is simple. He is a worthless and selfish bum who apparently loves the cocktail lounges more than his family. Your statement does not support your accusation of "cheating" as you say. I assume that you mean "infidelity". As there is no mention or evidence of another woman, your accusation is groundless.
As for you....You like this sort of behavior? Aren't there kids present? If you've talked to him about this and he refuses to respond properly and civilly...maybe you should consider taking the kids and going. Do not return. Go and stay away. Get divorced. If not, you're doomed and so are your kids. Then it's too late.
2006-10-07 19:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You teach people how to treat you.....have you heard this saying? He does this, simply because he can get away with it with you. If you dont like this behavior, then stop it.Simply stop letting him treat you this way.Sit down with him and talk about it.After that, leave if it doesnt change. Dont feel sorry for yourself, fix the situation.
2006-10-07 19:41:11 · answer #3 · answered by cherokee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the want to have their cake and eat it too. They want the wife for the affection and the mistress for the sex.
2006-10-07 19:49:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they tell you they love "you" after they cheat to remove all doubt in your mind that they might be cheating.
for someone not thinking clearly, this expression of "love" would cause one to deduce that one's significant other would never cheat because they "love" you and that you're over-reacting.
2006-10-07 22:51:59 · answer #5 · answered by CH30 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plain and simple selfishness
2006-10-07 19:37:50 · answer #6 · answered by aprilandroland 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because men are dogs, and secondly, because you let him. this kind of attitude should be stop and you gotta be in control or else your relationship will go downhill!!
2006-10-07 19:41:19 · answer #7 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just saying that he loves u but he just doesnt wanna hurt or he just wants u both, u and her....whoever she is. he is an as**ole. just forget about him, u probably deserves more
2006-10-07 21:11:01 · answer #8 · answered by Ashlee_Hbiba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, a woman would never do that to her man?
2006-10-07 19:53:37 · answer #9 · answered by J.J. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because some of them are greedy
2006-10-07 19:39:02 · answer #10 · answered by phattybiggums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋