Marriage & Divorce - 7 October 2006

Because of the fear of divorce many men have set up things called "Nest Egg accounts." A nest egg account is a bank account men put most of their money into and keep it secret from their wifes. In the event of a divorce, men will then empty this secret account and keep the money hidden so the wife cannot steal half his stuff. What are your thoughts on this??? Do you think this is caused by greedy men or is it a result of so many golddiggers?????

2006-10-07 09:44:00 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 34 years old, divorced, and have 2 small children. I would love to meet a wonderfull man and have tried some online dating services but the men I talk to on these sites only seem to be looking for sex. I am trying to get out to places with my children, like sporting events, school functions, the library, the park, but the men I see at these places all are married. Any suggestions as to places to talk to "good" men?

2006-10-07 09:41:40 · 12 answers · asked by Christy 2

2006-10-07 09:36:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was thinking 10 percent of his paycheck or 100 dollars a week, whichever is less.

2006-10-07 09:36:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

as in sexual. like wanting to be "inside you". even though they knew you were married.

2006-10-07 09:17:19 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have 2 kids,and married to a man who confuses me,sometimes he shows methat he cares,but mostly he ignores me,and abuses me and even hits me badly,and loves hanging around with his friends and lies to me about 90% of things...i know i should get out of this realationship,but i belong to a poor family,and i have no backup,moreso my husband never lets me have financial independence,i am totally dependent on him financially,and if i leave him i dont want to be seperated with my kids,and if i take them with me,how will i fullfill their needs,i am very depressed and over the years have lost all confidence in myself....is suicide the only option...

2006-10-07 09:00:35 · 8 answers · asked by pjm 1

Please, please help me get my mother in law out of OUR house!!!
My wife and I are going through a divorce, that is pretty bad. But my mother in law is making our divorce a lot worse than it has to be. My wife "hired" her mother (my mother in law) to watch our child. Mother in law doesn't have to be in house because my wife works mon-fri, 9am-5pm, and I work wed-sun, 5pm-3am (opposite shifts). My wife and I only see each other a couple of hours/week, but mother in law lives in our house mon-fri. We only need a babysitter for a few hours/week, and I prefer a babysitter, than my mother in law. I am capable of caring for our child (feeding, putting to sleep, etc,) and I want to watch our child, and I have been doing that for several months.
I know if my wife "hired" her mother to watch our child, I can't tell her "no" when my wife is there. That is ok. But when I am there, 9am-4pm daily, do I have the right NOT TO HAVE MOTHER IN LAW IN THE HOUSE? Please help with specific legal advice.

2006-10-07 08:53:51 · 14 answers · asked by Sylvester L 1

I've been married for almost 13 years. We live seperate lives, don't share money, he doesn't support me emotionally, and seems to not be interested at all at working to make it better. There is someone who wants to meet me. Should I do it?

2006-10-07 08:52:15 · 38 answers · asked by stateofconfusion 1

My husband lies to me all the time about everything,we have 2 small kids ,i sense him flirting withother young girls but am not sure whether he actually cheats on me...but since he mostly lies to me about his where abouts,and comes home late,abuses me and ignores me andkids all the time,i feel that this could not be due to his being with his friends or his drinking,could it be that he is cheating on me with other women,could it be that he has gone beyond flirting and sleeping with other women...are there any tell tale signs i should look for ,any advice?

2006-10-07 08:38:22 · 13 answers · asked by pjm 1

Ok am looking for sites that have all of the different cuts for diamonds WITHOUT additional links to sites of dealers or jewelers. Anyone help me please!!!!

2006-10-07 08:34:41 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

state where you have always wanted to live, which state and why?

2006-10-07 08:32:23 · 8 answers · asked by lifescircle 5

My husband went out of town a few months back and I found out that he had a one night stand. I did some reseach (cell phone records etc...) and found that she is a married womand herself. Now I want to call and confront her. I also want her husband to know what she has done. Am I wrong. My husband has not spoken to her since it happened a few months ago but I am still angry. Yes I am giving him 1 chance.

2006-10-07 08:30:02 · 22 answers · asked by Missmaithai 1

if things really arnt working out in your marrage and you decide to leave are you a quiter for not staying longer and hoping that they will chang even if you feel in your heart that he wont ever change? What about for better or worse? Who bad do you let things get?

2006-10-07 08:24:16 · 12 answers · asked by kristal930 k 1

do you like another person to wrap around you and shower you with attention at other times
or just your man to hold you close and keep you safe

2006-10-07 08:21:19 · 9 answers · asked by Sami 2

Im very much in love with my wife and we have had alot of problems and I want to save my marriage. What do you want from a man when it comes to friendship prior to sex. Need commets please.

2006-10-07 08:18:18 · 8 answers · asked by ACE 1

2006-10-07 08:18:05 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband did something terrible to me and i changed the locks on yhe door to stop him getting back in i went to the lawyers to get a divorce he has been bugging me to get back with him i told him i dont love him and dont trust him atall but he keeps on do i get back with him i dont know how i fell as he keeps saying sorry what do i do

2006-10-07 08:17:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

married on sept.16 th. in Reno Nev.but we live in Cal.been separeted for about two weeks now..i think both partys agree on the annulment ,,do i have to go back to Nev. to get it?

2006-10-07 08:03:28 · 8 answers · asked by Mark B 1

2006-10-07 08:01:17 · 20 answers · asked by stooky 1

2006-10-07 08:00:49 · 7 answers · asked by hot nica 1

2006-10-07 07:57:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

not only when her parents are around but just other people too. like when i am talking to her just me and her she is just this loving sweet caring woman but when she is around other people she doesnt want me to touch her or tell her i love her and when i do she just responds with a "me too." it gets kinda frustrating, i mean i try to understand where she is coming from on this one but i just dont get it maybe someone else can help me understand.

2006-10-07 07:57:06 · 3 answers · asked by Johnathan R 1

not only when her parents are around but just other people too. like when i am talking to her just me and her she is just this loving sweet caring woman but when she is around other people she doesnt want me to touch her or tell her i love her and when i do she just responds with a "me too." it gets kinda frustrating, i mean i try to understand where she is coming from on this one but i just dont get it maybe someone else can help me understand.

2006-10-07 07:56:42 · 11 answers · asked by Johnathan R 1

2006-10-07 07:53:12 · 14 answers · asked by petite 1

I work with a gal who is drop dead gorgeouse. I like her alot and think she likes me too. The problem is that I am in the middle of a divorce. My x-wife is already talking to another guy but I have waited out of respect for her. Do you think I should go for it or continue to wait? If I wait too long I might miss my oppurtunity.

2006-10-07 07:47:48 · 3 answers · asked by teenypurplebinky 3

Isn't marraige just for this life time - just for a convience to help us through this life? If marraige is no longer valid in heaven? If someone has a horrible marraige with no love in it and it is physically and/or emotionally abusive - Would God really want them to stay in that situation? - Why stay if the afterlife does not even acknowledge the union?

2006-10-07 07:46:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been toghether for two year and we love each other alot he has been there for me in my worst and we have so many plans for the future and we want to get married and make it official, and start are plans for the future. The problem is he is not legal here, hes from brazil,and im from puerto rico and a citizen in the united states.Im worried that when we go to obtain are license and get married they will turn us down and state that are relationship is not an official one, which would really hurt us both cause thats not the case at all, but if anyone has gone thru this I need some edvice, thanks , sincerly sassy06

2006-10-07 07:43:01 · 5 answers · asked by sassy06 1

Together 4 years, 2 kids. One of my own previously. He is a police officer who is overbearing and I feel he does everything. He makes all the dicisions, gets the groceries even. The only thing I feel like is a maid. I am lost somewhere cause this isn't me.

2006-10-07 07:30:33 · 9 answers · asked by shadow 1

Someone always gets hurt.

2006-10-07 07:11:33 · 15 answers · asked by smiley 2

My Husband thinks he owns me, when I am mad at him and tell him that we are not going to be making love that night... he says "I don't have to ask you for it, I'll just do it when and how I want to". He thinks he can have me anyway he pleases even when I am not interested.

2006-10-07 07:08:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous