Should I cheat on my husband?

Question

I've been married for almost 13 years. We live seperate lives, don't share money, he doesn't support me emotionally, and seems to not be interested at all at working to make it better. There is someone who wants to meet me. Should I do it?

Answer 1

Should he cheat on you?

Answer 2

Cheating is wrong, no matter the circumstances...I am sorry, if you are interested in this other man, then tell your husband not only are we going to have seperate lives, we are going to have seperate homes and get a divorce. Then you will be free to see whomever you want to.

What kind of man would want a married woman either? He might be thinking that you are a player. Does he just want a quicky relationship with you....no strings attached because your strings are all ready attached to someone else. I would think long and hard about this first. What happens if this someone is the "one", how is he going to trust you? If you cheated on your husband with him, who's to say that you wouldn't cheat on him.

Please think about this, and if your marriage is one of seperate everything, share one last thing together before moving on....a divorce....

God bless us all.................

Answer 3

My God you sound like a little ask girl asking such a dumb question.

Should he cheat on you? Or would you prefer he get the motivation from someone/thing ( that someone/thing being you) to seek his Heavenly Father for forgiveness of his sins, and ask God to help him to be a better husband/Friend/and Father if that's the case in this marriage.

Or how bought you seek your Heavenly Father, repent for your sins ( oh yes Dear your sinning just by having lustful thoughts of this other person who ain't worth crap if there trying to lure a married woman out of her marriage), ask God for the strength it takes to mend a marriage, especially when the people in the marriage have already built a wall around themselves, and have gotten use to sharing a common roof, but not sharing life together.

Answer 4

Is this other person really worth cheating on your husband,are u sure that this other person who wants to meet you will keep on paying attention to you once you have taken the step...you really need to be sure of that before you cheat on your husband because once you cheat there would always be fear and chances of being caught,so be sure you want to take this step for this person by asking yourself of what is the gaurantee that this person would be better...and if you are sure then instead of cheating on anyone and thus creating a tension for yourself ,first end the first relation and then freely and happily commit to another!

Answer 5

sounds like your Husband is your roomate you should file for legal seperation and eventually start the divorce proceedings before you bring another man in your already screwed up situation because he may not understand that you are still married and not to mention he may feel cheated because maybe he's interested in a long term relationship with you and he can't have that with you if you still have your Husband to deal with.

Answer 6

Marriage is a legal and binding contract. If you cheat on your marriage you are breaking that contract, not to mention committing adultery. If you have children you wold be doing them no good by cheating. If you want to be in the company of another man I suggest you file for a legal separation and then a divorce. Otherwise your husband could have grounds to file for divorce against you and if you have children, gain custody of them.

Answer 7

You did not say if you still lived with your husband. If so then why don't you just go your separate ways. that way you will not have your lives tangled up. Have you and your husband talked about departing? It may be in your best interest to have a friend, but be honest with him, you know how some man are, it may be okay for them to go outside, but not their wife. (smile) You do need to be happy also!

Answer 8

Absolutely not! I have been down the path of having affairs in my path, and the way to solve an unhappy marriage is not by turning to another man. You need to decide if your marriage if worth saving to try get counseling. If not, get out of the marriage first before and give yourself a chance to heal before moving into a new relationship. Trust me, you will be taking a lot of baggage into your new relationship if you don't.

Answer 9

I think there is a bigger issue here than cheating. It is whether or not you should stay married. I think you know the answer to that question. Just get divorced, and then you are free to pursue a more satisfying relationship.

Answer 10

There isnt much that I have learned, in alll my foolish years...except never give advise.In the end people will do whatever they want to do. You know better than anyone else what you really want to do. The only thing I can say is you should do what makes you happy,always weigh the pros and cons, and never give up your honour and self respect.

Answer 11

Cheating is always wrong. Just because ur husban don't do wat a husban does.. pamper .. or support emotionaly.. etc.. doesnt mean you can cheat on him. is unfair to him. Can he cheat on you? think about that. If you really don't have feelings for your husband and you have talked to him about the problems in your relationship with him than divorice him. If he doesnt show anything to improve than it should be a good bye. Sumtyme saying good bye is not a bad thing.