my husband did something terrible to me and i changed the locks on yhe door to stop him getting back in i went to the lawyers to get a divorce he has been bugging me to get back with him i told him i dont love him and dont trust him atall but he keeps on do i get back with him i dont know how i fell as he keeps saying sorry what do i do
2006-10-07 08:17:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would not let him back in the house so soon. If he agreed to marriage counseling, that's what I would do.Then when you feel or if you feel comfortable with him then let him back in the home. This is a extremely hard decision to make and you have to be the one to make it.If you still love him and want to make things work this would be my advice to you.
2006-10-07 09:58:50 · answer #1 · answered by ~♥~ *CHEEKY* ~♥~ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you may need a back up plan on a place to live that he doesn't know about , and keep track of anything that he does , if he does anything f***ed up it will go against him in divorce court . have your lawyer talk to him or his lawyer about it and i hope it works out for the best for you
2006-10-07 15:27:26 · answer #2 · answered by crazy_ol_hippie_radical 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Counseling
2006-10-07 15:27:29 · answer #3 · answered by pcgirl2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're mad right now, but in time if you both work through this ,you can get over it. You know what's bad it's when you divorce someone you love. Ask Jesus for guidance, and let love heal your heart.
2006-10-07 17:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by sharon j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your attorney your hubby is bothering you and won't leave you alone and you want it stopped right now! Let your attorney handle it.
2006-10-07 15:21:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember the reason you divorced him........ would you want to relive that same experience over and over for the rest of your life??? I wouldnt either.. Now is your chance to find something better!! tell him to piss off!!
2006-10-07 15:29:43 · answer #6 · answered by ApRiL 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to a marriage counselor. Then decide.
2006-10-07 15:20:41 · answer #7 · answered by yuffie39 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!
2006-10-07 15:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by Crosscheck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋