Marriage & Divorce - 7 October 2006

I am 25 and am from inida. abt 8 months ago i married dis gal in court decieving my parents. dis gal is 6 yrs elder dan me was previously divorced and has lotta health problems like asthma, blood pressure, hyperthroid and cholestrol. she is 92 kgs big. i come from a well to do family. after my parents came 2 know dey were heart broken and dejected. my parents refused to accept de marriage so did my church. she started physically abusing me and den one day she called my mother a whore ane me a son of a whore. since then she has continously abused me n my parents. we never stayed together, even after so much trauma i wanted to stay wid her (may be becoz of low self esteem). i felt like i was bewitched. now its been 5 months she has moved off to a different city but still torments me. i am a simple guy and am in need of expert advice. please help all of you out there. if u wanna mail me, mail me at raving_metal@yahoo.com

2006-10-07 18:45:44 · 12 answers · asked by raving_metal 1

Ok here's the deal. I married a Romanian in 2002, met over the internet, I went there, we married... After that we never hardly have had contact with each other and I have now moved on with my life and am in love with another. I have attempted contact on several occasions without success. What do I do? Im not sure if that marriage would be considered annulled or what. I would like to marry again but am unsure where I stand legally. Is there anyone out there that knows? Please help.

2006-10-07 18:36:40 · 3 answers · asked by nremtmom 2

2006-10-07 18:29:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guy marriages should be banned because it's an abomination to God and it is so wrong like divorce is. Stop guy marriages happening , it is time to make a strong stand for what is right. Divorce should be banned also to save the ordained marriage. Marriage should not be entered into lightly because the marriage commitment is a covenant that must not be broken while both spouses lives , even if they think they may have made a mistake. No one fells out from love , they fell out from commitment.You make a commitment than you honor that commitment. Marriage is a LIFETIME commitment until death. People who does not keep their lifetime commitment should be banned from ever getting remarry and go to jail for a long time to learn not to be a quiter. Well you can't take the heat than get out from the kitchen.

2006-10-07 18:28:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

some are adult breast feeding...teasing other men..etc...

2006-10-07 18:28:18 · 13 answers · asked by Lita fedrick 1

2006-10-07 18:02:55 · 29 answers · asked by kingofbutaka 1

for the last two years ive been pursuing a career in modelling and finally got a break when my agent phoned me to tell me the great news i was flying to america for a year to promote myself to the big modelling labels. my boyfriend of 4 years and now fiance tells me that if i go he will not wait for me when i get back. i cant understand i thought he would be happy for me but he was the total oppisite. im due to go in 2 weeks i have told him that he can come with me but he said no way and i should stop thinking about myself. i can see he is deadly serious and i know in my heart if i go that is the end of our relationship. he is now acting cold towards me. what should i do. this means alot to me but so does my fiance.

2006-10-07 17:58:19 · 10 answers · asked by ruby l 1

hubby is giving me hell and it hurts I can not help the fact that I have seizures he told me he wished he had married some one else . He treats me like **** he acts as if i am not arouns what can I say or do to help fix this

2006-10-07 17:58:08 · 18 answers · asked by melissa g 1

and it hurts so bad.we both hurt but we cant do nothing about it.we are both single, but he is in the navy and he got stationed somewhere else.and he keeps asking me to go, and marry him,but he is leaving next week to bagdad and im so devastated with the thought of that i may never see him again.i am just devastated.

2006-10-07 17:57:01 · 3 answers · asked by super girl 3

Think about your ex partners? After years of marraige, do you still think about them?

2006-10-07 17:52:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

if the parents are not willin for the match due to difference in community, wat is the best way to convince them?

2006-10-07 17:46:37 · 7 answers · asked by vicky999 1

In a divorce and custody hearing a father signs a settlement agreement saying he agrees to pay tuition for child to stay in private school,(he enrolled child in private school from kindergarden on) does he have the right to stop paying tuition on his own without consulting the court because child does not excell in her grades. Child has not fallen below a D on any report cards, and not many of those. And if he does stop paying and the mother has to resume paying should the court order that she be reimbursed by father?

2006-10-07 17:45:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my b/f have been together 2 weeks and i know im in love with him he treats me like im the best thing in the world, and loves my 2 yr old to death. im ready to make that next commitment, is it too soon? in my last relationship we were engaged for 3 yrs had a child and ended it very bitterly to the point he wont even see his daughter but harrasses me. i was young and stupid then am i doomed to make the same mistake this time? even though this guy treats me a lot better? hes quite a bit older than me but i feel like we are both very mature and responsible adults.

2006-10-07 17:42:01 · 17 answers · asked by coffeebug_04 2

My husband was emotionally cold to me & had been for about 4 or 5 yrs of our 15 years tog, & so one day he was allowing our son to disrespect me & I left. He had gotten to where he didn't respect or really even "want" me anymore.

I finally took what self respect I had & walked out. He wants to come back to where I am (several hundred mi away now) but he wants to BLAME me (so bad!) for leaving. I have told him & told him that it is HIM that left (emotionally) years ago...told him that he could've kept me if he had wanted...(I really tried to help him "see" that our relationship was going south for a lonngggg time & he would even get nasty with me to get me to quit talking about things..grrrr. Pent up feelings get so old, esp when it feels like you're the only one that cares about a relationship!)

Anyway, now he calls & acts like nothing's wrong (of course!) & wants to move back in. I really want my family back together, but I don't know exactly what to do w/this character!

2006-10-07 17:30:56 · 10 answers · asked by John V 1

Here is a list: Mental illness, narcissim, addiction(s), retarded, psychologically messed up, religion.....

Are there any more reasons why a person would NOT get married?

2006-10-07 17:30:14 · 26 answers · asked by DREENA 2

ok, so i am 15 and my parents are divorced and i live with my dad. how old do i have to be to go before a judge and tell them i want to live with my mom? what is the legal age i can choose who i want to live with?

2006-10-07 17:27:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Wouldn't it be better to raise a child with one happy parent than two parents who fight all the time?

2006-10-07 17:24:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my husband to death and I know he loves me too. But ever since this guy at his job started dating a striper he goes to the strip club a whole lot. and all of the sudden he says that he has no freedom, which he does. So tonite we had a cuddle/sitting a home watching a movie date and next thing I know his buddy calls and he runs. I don't know if i should be worried he barley talks to me anymore and is annoyed by me all the time.
the only thing that has been good latley is sex.
i even told him that every time that he chose not to go to the strip club he could have anal sex with me wich I hate but he still chooses to go what should i do. I love my husband and I want to save my marriage.

2006-10-07 17:16:14 · 33 answers · asked by rebecca28_85 2

i need feed back u kno sweetest day is comming. its for my husband (31, i'm 24) i want to look very sexy (irrisistable)u kno. any ideas are ok.

2006-10-07 17:10:36 · 16 answers · asked by tinkerbell mommie 1

I am a 40 year old married proffessional man with 3 kids and a small buisiness. I do love my wife, but I have not been in love with her for a very long time. We think differently about many issues and do not seem to share the same interests or goals..!! I have dreamt for a long time about a life partner that loves to talk about, plan and work together at stuff and laugh along the way. Now I have hired ( 3 Mo. ago) this beautiful person who seems to be just the one I have dreamt about. I can't sto thinking about her. It's getting increasingly hard to keep my mind on work. She is an amazing person, ten yrs younger and single (never married). Am I thinking like an an idiot? what can I do?

2006-10-07 17:02:10 · 14 answers · asked by Steve K 1

you are having an affair with someone that you met online. would you have guts to talk to your wife/husband about the person you are having affair with or crush on. thereafter if you did tell your life partner about that online person...would you leave your life partner for that person? tricky question???

2006-10-07 16:57:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a single father of a twelve year old and an eleven year one; both girls. I never wanted a boy, because I was raised around more woman that men, but it seems I always have to find them some thing to do where as boys can find themselves something to do. Do you have this problem with your girls?

2006-10-07 16:56:42 · 16 answers · asked by lifescircle 5

My bf and I have been together for over two years. In July I had a baby who was full term and died at birth. Ever since it happened my bf has turned into a total jerk. I can tell that it is depression and he is being very self-destructive. He holds everything in and I think that is why he is being such an ****** towards everyone because he has so much anger and pain inside of him. To make a long story short he did something terrible while out on one of his drinking binges. (He didn't cheat but I don't want to get into what he did) What he did really really hurt me but he swears that he will start talking about his feelings and that he is done drinking and doesn't want to lose me. He sounds so sincere but it's going to be very hard for him to change. I don't want to let him go because we have been through so much together good and bad but I don't want to get hurt. Am I being a pushover by giving him another chance?

2006-10-07 16:55:09 · 31 answers · asked by Amaya 3

This girl cheated on me. Well she came back crying and apologized. I still said no because I don't give second chances after cheating. Well like 5 of her damn friends call me up on the phone telling me what an asshole I am for not giving her a second chance. Women act like if a man cheats, he should be executed, but if a girl cheats she should always be forgivin. This pissis me off more than her cheating!!!

2006-10-07 16:54:03 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you were married and your spouse disappears for years and you think that he died and comes back and in the meantime got remarried to someone else who would you legally be married to? Your first husband or your second? I say first husband cuz he never really died and you never got divorced.

2006-10-07 16:51:46 · 25 answers · asked by Monica B 2

2006-10-07 16:50:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-07 16:46:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is so mean, he didn't even want me to go out with him and the other couples, they went bowling and i'm at home right now. Don't you think he should have stayed home with me too? It's not fair, i never get to do anything. I hate him so much, because he doesn't care about me, he just does whatever he wants.

2006-10-07 16:42:03 · 25 answers · asked by Girlish 3

All the money from banning divorce should put into proggrams saving the ORDAINED marriage and saving the ordained family. Marriage is what it is until death. It is time to step up to the bat to fight for values & morals and lifetime commitment. Our children are suffering for the could care less attitude from us the adults. It is time to stop thinking of " me , myself & I " and get off our selffulness buns to care enough to be someone for somebody. Hey Jesus care enough for all of us , he die on the cross for all of us. Life has no limitations , except the oness you make.

2006-10-07 16:38:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

and the wife left him and been seperated for six months

2006-10-07 16:34:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous