This girl cheated on me. Well she came back crying and apologized. I still said no because I don't give second chances after cheating. Well like 5 of her damn friends call me up on the phone telling me what an asshole I am for not giving her a second chance. Women act like if a man cheats, he should be executed, but if a girl cheats she should always be forgivin. This pissis me off more than her cheating!!!
2006-10-07 16:54:03 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
from a woman's point of view... women are idiots... and the whole women's rights thing has gone way too far... I'm not being funny. Men are treated like second class citizens now a day and I am embarrassed by it. Equality for PEOPLE should be explored. You are so right ... women want to hang a man for cheating...but how dare YOU be hurt and angry for a woman cheating... she makes a "mistake" ... YOU commit a CRIME... I'm sorry that you are going through this.
2006-10-07 16:59:33 · answer #1 · answered by moejaymom 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Stop answering their calls.And for sure don't tell anyone anything that can get back to the cheater.Because thats the only reason they're calling,is to report back to her.She will die of curiosity.Good for you for not taking her back.I'm sure you've heard the saying"Hurt me once,shame on you.Hurt me twice,shame on me".The EX sounds incredibly immature.I know you're bitter now,but just know that not ALL women are like that.And when the time is right,you'll meet someone that will appreciate the gentleman you are.But I would not talk to the friends.If you feel the need to for some reason,just tell them that what happened is history,that she actually did you a favor by leaving.Say you are getting on with yor life,and it's just not up for discussion,what you do and who you do it with.That will send her over the edge.And maybe she learned something from this,and the next putz she ends up with just might give her a taste of what it feels like to be so mean.KARMA baby! But take care and God bless
2006-10-07 17:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by LEJIANE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely agree!! and I am a girl!!! I was watching the Dr. Keith Adler show the other day, and they had this guy on there, such a sweetheart, and not even so cute woman cheated on him, supposedly cause he was busy at work (which was because she was always asking him to buy all these things)...and they made him look like the bad guy!!! i felt so horrible. what the hell is wrong with people nowadays, there is never a reason for cheating other than you being promiscuous and immoral. its disgusting.
oh and much respect for not taking her back, you deserve someone much better than that, yuck!!
2006-10-07 17:00:32 · answer #3 · answered by Pebbles 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Get 5 of YOUR friends to call her and tell her what a B****H she's been. So you've a right to be whatever you want. But if you're willing to give her a 2nd chance, be prepared to be cheated on again.
2006-10-07 17:03:39 · answer #4 · answered by CM_Blue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You totally did the right thing. She needs to know that sometimes people's actions hurt other people. She needs to know that whatever she does, she has to live with her decisions. She cheated and lost you. Not to be mean or rude, but if she really wanted you, she wouldnt have cheated. Of course sometimes people dont realize what they had until they have lost it. You are standing up for your values and you should be praised. Good luck!
2006-10-07 17:02:38 · answer #5 · answered by val 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are right no second chance on a cheater,and all the friends that call you would cheat on their bf/gf,you know they would.Find you another girl and have fun and have a life.
2006-10-07 16:58:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
this is beacuse the other 5 girls are doing the same thing and do not want to lose their guys
so if word gets out that one of the girl BF breaks up, they will all suffer the same fate
remember.. girls.. like guys.. tend to hang out with the same type of friends who share the same values / outlook in life... so if she cheating... they condone it and all of them are cheaters.. no suprise there..
that's why you ALWAYS look at a girls freinds to see what type of person SHE is.... her freinds ( good or bad ) will reflect what type of person she is
so in that context you be a fool to EVER take her back
you made the right move
she is white trash as are her friends
2006-10-07 17:11:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women feel that way. I agree with you 100%. I feel that if you cheat, no matter what gender you are, you're out. No more second chances, the trust is gone.
2006-10-07 17:01:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd take her back only if she said that she was the cheater in a public apology and make a contract with you that if she ever does it again then you will never take her back. See if she goes thru with she a better girl than most. Sounds fair!
2006-10-07 17:07:07 · answer #9 · answered by John H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as a girl who cheated on her boyfriend maybe u should think about giving her a second chance b/c she might not have realized how much you mean to her and she might turn around... i did
oh and how come if a girl sleeps around shes a hoe but if a guy does it hes some big shot?
my advce don't ponder questions that hahve no answer
2006-10-07 17:00:49 · answer #10 · answered by disiple in training 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋