and the wife left him and been seperated for six months
2006-10-07 16:34:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO!!!
All psychologists, support groups, etc., say a min. of one full year before any dating, relationships, etc.!!!
2006-10-07 16:37:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I was separated from my husband for 10 months and wasn't planning on going back and then I did right before final divorce papers were signed. Don't Do it. Just wait and if it's meant to happen it will
2006-10-07 17:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by tina*21 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, that depends on how you feel about him. If you are serious about him, then what he probably needs most is a friend. If you want to be involved with this person more deeply, he may not be emotionally available to you quite so soon. But being there for him and letting him know how you feel, your intentions, your concerns, may help build a real and strong relationship when the time is right.
If you are just interested in casual dating, go for it. But be aware that this may lead to deeper feelings. Unresolved issues with his marriage may make things sticky.
You could save yourself pain and preserve your self respect by biding your time.
2006-10-07 16:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by JustTalking 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What's holding up the divorce? Is he intending on getting the divorce or is he hoping to work things out? I think I would just point blank ask him. He may not want to ever get a divorce as a way of avoiding child support or alimony.
2006-10-07 16:37:03 · answer #4 · answered by ?? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No!!! even though he separated he legally is still married that's a sin you know
2006-10-07 16:36:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you really want more problems in your life? Then wait until he is legally divorced. Then he can truly concentrate on you, and you're worth waiting for, remember that.
2006-10-07 16:43:01 · answer #6 · answered by loretta_dulce_melos 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its your heart. you just have to be sure that you are not the rebound girl. i mean, if he's still hooked on her, you're going to have a hard time of it. if not, let him moan ,whine, *****, trash her, whatever. he's going through a break up and needs to get it out. be there for him. you could get a marriage out of it. i did.
2006-10-07 16:36:13 · answer #7 · answered by kajunprincezz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
romantically no - friends yes. But be careful that you do not get pulled into the 'divorce'.
2006-10-07 16:48:11 · answer #8 · answered by cmps 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What are you waiting for. Divorces can last up to a year. He, nor anyone should have to wait that long before dating again.
2006-10-07 16:40:21 · answer #9 · answered by lifescircle 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok , why would you not date him? why do you want to date him? what is he like? we don't know all the story here
2006-10-07 16:38:07 · answer #10 · answered by kierstead 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋