my wife and I have not had sex in 3 months. She says I am to big. and she refuses to go to the doctor help?

Answer 1

she didnt have a problem before you were married why does she have a proble now. she might be having an affair if she isnt sleeping with you where she gettin it from

Answer 2

Well that sucks. I'm sorry you are going through this. This could cause a very serious problem in your marriage if both of you aren't able to agree on a solution. Maybe you could call or schedule an appointment with a doctor and ask him/her for any ideas that may help. good luck!

Answer 3

first i feel sorry for you and her , i think she is not in to you that much like before, and that doesn't mean that she is having an affair or anything, you might be the problem. how do u treat her? do u go out with her like before? do u tell her she looks cute ? do u care about her feelings, even during sex?. and if you are doing all that then she might have something in her mind, a problem at work may be, talk to her and by the way how is your relationship with her during the last 3 months? i mean during the day, do give her a huge or do shear a laugh? do u do anything together? tray to fix your Margie. and one last thing may be she doesn't like to do it as before.

Answer 4

Tell her to go to the doctor, she could have a ton of problems or just a minor infection causing pain. If you are not having sex often, that can cause pain for a while, but it should subside when you have it more often. I think womens body's are adaptable to adjust to whatever size it is, and sometimes if men are a little larger, then it's up to him to realize that, and not cause undo pain.

Answer 5

Well were you too big before this three months? Did she complain of pain etc before? If not she is just making excuses and either is over you or has someone else. Unless you plan on going through problems and arguments for the rest of your married life, I would cut my losses and ditch this woman.

Answer 6

That sound strange what were you doing b4 the 3 months. everything okay then what happen you poppeye and grew over night. Seems to be more to it than meets the eye with her and that is just an excuse she's giving you .. I 'd sit her down and get to the root cause here. cause you can't expect to live in a marriage where she won't go near you in that manner. and she can't expect you to just lie down and take it.

Answer 7

What have you been doing for the last 3 months? Have you been jacking off.Sounds likes you are brageing to me.What about the months before or your weding night.Any way what can the doctor do take a knife to it and make it bigger.

Answer 8

Question, have you taken the time to please her without actual intercourse. Give her a lot of attention, foreplay, and remind her often how sexy and attrative she is. Instead of concentrating on the physical aspect, try just being intimate and having fun with her in a playfull manner. Concentrate on what pleases her sexually, and on giving her a good time. If she finds pleasure from this, she will eventually come around and desire you as much as you desire her. In fact, it will make your love making even better. The longer the sexual teasing and foreplay last, the more rewarding of a payoff you'll get! Good Luck!

Answer 9

Go to counseling or a medical doctor her choice. You need sex to have a good marriage.

Answer 10

i agree with beautyoft
don't just try an jump on board , wine an dine her . dance a little , a movie . make a night that is just for her . once a week maybe , hell every day for that matter , she is your wife . try the erotic side , if that doesn't work maybe good ole fashion " open comunication " will work .

Answer 11

Been there.......she has issues concerning sex unless you are hung like a horse, then you have issues and probably pass out due to blood loss. Both should seek counseling together.