when do you think you r being cheated in a committed relationship?

Question

1.when ur partner is thinking abt smone else while with u?
2.when ur partner is a criticizer?
3.when ur partner hides things from u?
4.when there is minimal needy conversations happ?
and wat shld one do to rectify?no talking over matters solution plz!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

well, for No. 1, I don't think you could tell that your partner is thinking about someone else, unless he tells you, which I don't think that would happen. No.2, criticizing is one clue but not the only one. No. 3 yes he will hide things like his cellphone, credit cards bill, etc., and No. 4 well....I don't know about that one because sometimes when the relationship has dried out there is nothing to talk about..but that doesn't mean that he is cheating. Now the big question, what should someone do? well...what I did was cried my heart out, after that I told him how betrayed I felt, but then I took the decision to stayed and try to save the relationship, is hard but if you are in love and the other person is really sorry about doing it and he apologize I think we all deserve a second chance, is your decision, but if you do that make sure you FORGIVE and move on from that moment on.

Answer 2

All the above, usually the minute you start suspecting it is when you should realize it is happening. Listen to you "gut" feeling. Get out before you get hurt even more. You are not a toy to be put down-He doesn't own you. You shouldn't need any man to make you happy. Happiness is a choice, and there are far too many other men deserving of your affection....Stay Strong!

Answer 3

One of the oldest tails to see if someone is cheating, is they start to accuse you of cheating. The guilt gets to them, and it's the closest way to tell you without actually doing so. Hiding stuff, lying, all of the things that don't feel right are things they do to actually do to conseal any kind of wrong doing. They can't stop themselves from any of this cause they don't realize what they are doing. They couldn't control it if they tried. It is a subconscious reaction in the brain and would be as hard to control, as tring to fool a lie detector test. If you feel it, your probly right on the money. I hope this has helped.

Answer 4

I think all of the above. Not so much the criticizer one though. If your other half isnt treating you like you want and is doing all of the above to you then you should not be with them. Obviously you are asking this question for a reason and i think you are suspicious. Obviously he wont tell you, but if these things keep applying then i would assume it. Take it easy!!

Answer 5

I think you know the answer to your question, there seems to be no solution other than leaving. Sorry, but this guy's mind is with someone else not you. Move on and say good bye and don't look back.

Answer 6

All of the above plus more. What u should do is back it up by solid evidence and throw them at his face. Then u decide if the relationship is even worth saving.

Answer 7

If your instincts are telling you something is going on with your partner, YOU need to listen to them. Who better than you knows him/her? Don't stand by and let this happen to you take action and control of your life. NO one deserves to be treated badly.

Answer 8

None of the above. All of the listeded may be part of a normal relationship

Answer 9

There's no "specific" way of knowing that your partner is cheating, unless you caught him/her in the act.

Answer 10

Sounds like that relationship isn't worth fixing honestly.
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