I just caught my man making love to my pair of $700 Gucci heels!!! His unit was in one shoe, while the other, he was smelling. I knew he a shoe fetish, but is this a normal thing? Should I dump him?? He told me that it is normal, and all his friends do it to their girls' shoes...there is a site that discuss this weird fetish?? www.abusedshoes.com...is it common, and what should I do? I mean he was masterbating with my shoe...he told me he likes the feel and look of the high heels,...help
2006-10-07 12:16:24 · 20 answers · asked by Vanessa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe he has always wanted to come into money??? Seriously, everyone has a fetish. Some people have a fetish for shoes and / or feet. It is normal. It may seem odd, but at least he doesn't go around sniffing asses, right?
2006-10-07 12:19:31 · answer #1 · answered by tko43078 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
as weird as it seems it maight be a normal thing. You never know maybe the more expensive your shoes are the more he is going to do it. Maybe he should seek for help if you really don't feel comfortable with this situation. Good luck and i don't think you should dump but it is all up to you... Gucci is expensive and you really have to take care of those shoes.
2006-10-07 19:21:24 · answer #2 · answered by Karolina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a normal fetish. Be glad it's a shoe he sticks his member into and not another woman.
Although, he may want to wear a condom....I was surprised you weren't upet about him getting love juice all over your seven hundred dollar shoes!!
Next time, tell him YOUR fantasy and allow each other to experiment...it will help stop sneaking around on you and will stop him from finding a woman who likes to watch him do it...be imaginative.
2006-10-07 19:36:08 · answer #3 · answered by TexasKitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO! I am sorry for laughing but it is kinda funny.. Well those shoes gotta go. And I would suggest that you have him buy you a New Pair and tell him that you plan on wearing them the next time you make love and that if he wants to make love.. buy you a new pair of shoes each time! hehehe ... that way.. YOU KNOW which ones have been... violated.
2006-10-07 19:58:08 · answer #4 · answered by Jessette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First question....Did he buy you $700.00 shoes if so, who cares where he masturbates, he pays $700.00 for a pair of shoes for you! if you bought them yourself, tell him to buy his own shoes to "PLAY WITH" But to answer your question about this being"normal" My sister 's Ex (who is a Psychiatrist) had a patient that used to literally steal womans High Heel shoes in public,OFF of their FEET! take them home to Masturbate in them? In therapy it came out that when he was a little boy, his Mom used to walk around the house in nothing but her High Heels in front of him, Well.......Sonny Boy developed a "fetish" I guess there are worse things he could be doing...So I would just keep MY shoes locked up? Good Luck!
2006-10-07 19:24:37 · answer #5 · answered by conniechung 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not right at all. It's not right for the shoe and not right for you. I would be afraid. Naw, I would kind of be upset at the fact that he would do anything with your shoe without asking you, especially since your the one walking in them. And he's your Lover not the shoes .lol.... Anyway at least he's not cheating on you with your friend or anything like that. Take care.
2006-10-07 19:22:54 · answer #6 · answered by Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should be smelling your feet, sucking your toes while he's making love to you not your shoes. I enjoy seeing a lady in heels, I enjoy the scent of her feet while I'm making love to her, but she needs to be in the shoes. His fetish is gone beyond, your shoes should NOT replace you or your feet.
2006-10-07 19:31:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would say its a fetish yes....is it normal....well its normal for him. Did you not know about this before....or did he just start doing this? If its not a Major factor in your relationship.....then why worry about it. We all have our little quirks his is just shoes...maybe just buy some cheaper ones...wear them for a while and NICELY...tell him "honey you can use these ones all you want" Really I would not make a big deal of this.
Best of luck
2006-10-07 19:21:41 · answer #8 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOhhhh hell no!!!!!!!!!!! thats not normal! I'm a scorpio & scorpio's are considered freaks, & I think that $H!T is wierd!
Listen right now,his crank in a shoe but later it'll be something even more wierd like a cat or a sheep or someting! Get out while you still are sane! kick him to the curb now!
It's one thing if he sat down & explained it to you before you caught him & eased you into it first.....but you had to catch him in order to find-out. you never know what else he is hidding like a facsination with midgets & circus animals at the sametime,or even S.C.A.T. (if you dont know what SCAT is.....be thankful you dont! I heard it once & I'm sorry that I found out).
Waht if your kids or future kids accidentlly walked in on dad with his slong stuck in a pump? how do you explain that? I mean if your with another woman you can talk that out........but with a shoe!!!!????? Get out before you find yourself on the Jerry springer show!!!!!
2006-10-07 19:45:37 · answer #9 · answered by Scorpio Rising 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just get some cheep K-mart high heels and let him go at it. You might consider some Payless Shoe Source print panties also...
2006-10-07 19:32:44 · answer #10 · answered by donronsen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋