i really like this guy & he likes me too; the attraction is great but I think his heart belongs to someone else. so i guess, my question is; if he likes me so much (which I know he does), how come he doesn't fall in love...
when i like someone this much (which doesn't happen very often, i fall for them immeadiat.)
thanks
2006-10-07 10:26:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he likes you , but he loves somebody else ... you cant really figure this out yourself ?
2006-10-07 10:28:43 · answer #1 · answered by Milos K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Falling in love isn't soemthing anyone decides it just happens. Some people it is a gradual understanding that they just cannot live or be themselves without the other and for some its an instant smash into the brick wall of love.
And "falling for" someone again doesn't mean you love them just that they are the highlight of your day for this week and maybe next. Love isn't something you say to one another its a deep feeling that is almost unexplainable given the limited realm of our modern english language.
When he feels it he will tell you thats the whole point of all this rambling. It may not be the right time, he may not be sure, he may not want to say it to early and the list goes on for reasons why he hasn't already. Give it time young one.. ..
2006-10-07 17:33:49 · answer #2 · answered by se7en 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, honey, it depends. You really can have feelings for more than one person, but I'm of the mind that you can only be IN love with one person at a time. If he's still IN love with someone else, well, that's your answer. But if yours is a very new relationship, then maybe he just hasn't had time to heal yet and get over her. Not everybody falls head over heels right away, especially if they've been hurt before or are still healing. I'm like you, I tend to jump right in, b/c I also have very good instincts about things, I tend to be able to see the direction a potential relationship will take. But not everybody is like that.
IOW... give him time.
2006-10-07 17:41:03 · answer #3 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can like milk chocolate.... but REALLY love White Chocolate.
And if you look, you answered your own question, when you said... when you really like someone this much... you fall... maybe your just not that white chocolate for him.
But instead of Yahoo Answers... Yahoo-ask-him! You could still be that white chocolate, and he could just be shy! â¥
2006-10-07 17:30:23 · answer #4 · answered by * Deep Thought * 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens. one fall for other but the otherone fall for another otherone.
to like is not love all the time.
and falling for him immideate , i will consider as the first mistake. why don't we think about rising for someone. being equal, u know waht i mean.
2006-10-07 17:30:28 · answer #5 · answered by coldfish85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love afffects everyone differently. girls get emotionally invovled very quickly in most cases, while boys attraction tends to be physical first and then move into an emotional love...
2006-10-07 17:29:11 · answer #6 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its tough to say but maybe he is still not over that person ......or you are thinking too much
2006-10-07 17:28:11 · answer #7 · answered by confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋