if you found a text message on your Wife's...Husband's or significant other's Cell phone to a co-worker of the opposite sex "can use a hug later" what would you think is going on?
2006-10-07 10:57:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it could mean something, and it could mean nothing. maybe they're just friend, but this should make you think and try to find out if something is wrong. try to talk more to her and ask her about work, see if she mentions this coworker, and the way she mentions him.
2006-10-07 11:12:37 · answer #1 · answered by whatever 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm.....I would do Most of the answers already given lol...Personally I would think something is wrong...but that's cause I am a paranoid old fart....however I would want to know...so the text messaging co worker back has a nice ring to it....but she will find out so then she will lay the old " You don't trust me" line on ya....I REALLY like the Gun idea that's a goodlier lol....well hell man I guess all you can do is ask her...not sure how far that will get ya but good luck
2006-10-07 19:11:13 · answer #2 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if I somehow accidentally found that message, I would kind of be mad and suspicious at first, but then I would probably just think that the other person is just down and needs a hug. Or then I might in a twisted way think they she is after my man.
2006-10-07 18:20:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would send a text message from her phone to the co worker in question stating:
"Hubby just bought 9 more automatic weapons to add to his collection do you think thats too many?"
2006-10-07 18:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by se7en 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely think something was up, but I wouldn't confront them just yet... wait until some HARD evidence or a few more suspicious things come up first. Then they can't deny it and you'll be totally sure and can't get persuaded otherwise and feel foolish afterwards.
2006-10-07 20:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by Jessette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would think if i had a husband that the chances of him fooling around would definitely be in my head....and i am sorry if this happened to you....but i do not have a husband or a cell phone....i think i would do some asking though if this happened to you...
2006-10-07 18:00:55 · answer #6 · answered by sanangel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The sh*t would hit the fan!Her hugs are meant for you and family only!If I was you I would do some spying on her.Trust me a woman will never confess to cheating.Trust your instincts on this one!
2006-10-07 18:32:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good day to you too. Um if I found a message on my hubby's phone, I would be somewhat suspicious, and then ask him about it.
2006-10-07 18:10:28 · answer #8 · answered by Katherine S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Send a message from her phone to his pretending to be her. See what he says, then you will know whats going on.
2006-10-07 18:20:15 · answer #9 · answered by shellygirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Something is going on. Hire a PI and get to the bottom of things.
2006-10-08 11:48:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋