Y do husbands dont care abt their wives?Are we only for their work?and bed?

Question

Im ok to get answers from any1 who has a broad mind.....in this topic....

Answer 1

In my case, not even for the sex. Just for whatever money I can bring in to help him raise his bad son, and keep his Corvette running. (and before you ask, yes, I am contemplating ending this farce.)

Answer 2

I learned this from the very beggining, yes we are here to do housework and for sex. Then one day I woke up. I said to myself, self why are you doing things you don't like to do?(I do speak to myself a lot bec I give me the correct answers). Then I got my emancipation from marriage. Yes, Iam married, but that doesn't mean that I have to have dinner on the table or clean at a certain time. I realize that this way is a way of controlling me. I stopped doing all the things that were expected of me. And you know what, my husband started doing them. He knew I had woken up from the nightmare of marriage. If he wanted a maid he should had gotten a maid. I do keep my house clean and do laundry, when I want to, and seriously speaking, when someone ask me in the house this needs cleaning, I say yes it does, clean it. I must be honest with this it did take me a while to realize that I had a life too, but I did it. When I go out, just like my husband, I just take the keys to my car and go. No explanation necessary. I am not equal to my husband, I am me. It could be a little because I am Puerto Rican and I don't allow no one to tell me what to do, it is in my blood. You need to change what you do, even if for a while the house is messy, let it be, just step over it, it really doesnt hurt anyone. But men have to wake up and realize that we are worth a lot, and without us they can not survive. So wake your husband up and let him know that you are an equal not a maid or sex queen. He will get the idea when you stop doing things around the house and for him..It worked for me.
good luck. Sorry I write so much.

Answer 3

the actuality that your husband replace into loving and being concerned exhibits that he likes you and the youngster . If his mum and dad are very possessive and needs their son all to themselves they're to be blamed . Many adult men in such circumstances make their lives very complicated with the aid of no longer taking a stand . they opt to be impartial. This finally ends up with the two spouse and the mum and dad making the existence extra depressing. Your husband has long previous throughout the comparable direction and for desire of a few peace seems to have chosen one area ( his mum and dad` area) . This places you in a clumsy place . you recognize your husband isn't a topic . Please do no longer precipitate any disaster and bypass to a factor of no return. See in case you may motivate him to soak up job someplace else. additionally frivolously have an open communicate including your mum and dad in regulation. completely open communicate . Make your factors sparkling and do this without anger or hatred or crying . try this and notice their reaction afterwards . tell than that the well-liked-day spouse has extra expectancies from their better half than it replace into the case till now . If a lot of those do no longer replace the situation attempt to stay one after the different for a at the same time as . teach which you're sturdy and not susceptible.

Answer 4

My Personal Opinion.
I am A Pretty Trophy.

At this point get pretty sick of it at times.

I think this is how he acts and feels at times :

Hey Look Guys I am mature enough to have a wife and daughter.

See , look their perrty.

Oh She has her own buisness , and can knows how to pay bills.

I keep her so sex starved that everytime I get home after being away a month she attacks me.

Hey look , my perrty wife likes to cook for me.

Ohhh , My wife loves me even though I am a dick....


*sigh*

Oh The Pertty wife sometimes feels like knocking her handsome and sometimes ignorant husband over the head w/ that perrty fryin pan she bought herself.

But I love the darn thug.
At least he works. Not that see anymoney from it , but i can say see my nice husband , he works.

Answer 5

Most husbands do care about their wives and treasure them...
Wives do have their responsibilities and the bedroom is one of them but husbands should and must love, protect and treasure their wives who should also be their best friends...
Wives should provide anything / everything the husband desires in the bedroom without holding back on anything...Meeting all husbands fantasies as long as it does not harm wife and husbands do not harm their treasured best friends...
This may mean that wife may have to learn to enjoy some things that she does not currently enjoy....Swallow / An*l etc...

Answer 6

I feel the same way sometimes, but I really think it is just that men and women show how they love differently. I am sure if you were to sit down with your husband and tell him that you don't feel loved he would be hurt. He would probably say things like "well I go to work, and provide, and I help sometimes etc." Just tell him what you want and need, and maybe things will get better.

Answer 7

There are of course husbands who care deeply for their wives. I take it that your husband has been neglecting you..?

Sometimes husbands have their full attention on their work. In this case, they need their wives to support and understand them. We should attend to their needs and be there for them. But we should also update them on the affairs of the home and ask for their opinion and decision on these things..

They care about their wives and families, ok.. but sometimes they have no idea what is needed and we have to tell them..

Answer 8

If you are asking this question then clearly you are not with someone that respects you. My husband and I have a great relationship - we have been together for 10 years and he supports me emotionally, physically and mentally. Everyone deserves to have a loving partner that they can lean on in the good times and bad.

Answer 9

Let me start by asking,,what is your purpose as wife? Did you discuss roles and responsibilities? What i want a woman for is to complete me, add to me, that which i lack, to comfort me, bring another perspective to light, to inspire, and encourage, to support me and remind me of goals to keep me on track. Sex 1 can always find in the streets.
Maybe he loves you. Maybe you want to be loved in a different manner. Maybe he he hurts you out of ignorance, not knowing. Maybe it is you that needs to change. maybe you should talk to your husband. Maybe you should listen.

Answer 10

Why would you think such a thing. I've been married nearly 47 years and we get along just great.

"She is a winsome wee thing,
She is a handsome wee thing,
She is a bonnie wee thing,
This sweet wee wife o'mine."
Robert Burns: My Wife's a Winsome Wee Thing, 1792.