glamour babe dont know what to do?

Question

im from england and i am a promotions girl fir eg i go to the opening of night clubs and places like that and promote the place. i know it sounds abit slutty but basically i have to dress like a glamour model. ive had the same boyfriend for 6 years and we are engaged to get married.im now 21. during my work i have to go to night clubs were lots of men hang around and some are footballers and millionaires. i met a young man in his twenties whose father owned the nightclub were i was working . he has a lot of power in that industry and everytime i was working at his club he would come on to me.he would feel me up and he had me in tears many a time. i would tell him to back off and he would force himself on me saying if i didint let him do it he would get me sacked. one night he raped me and that day i quit the job as i felt it wasent worth it. i felt so guilty i told my fiance and he dumped me. now im heartbroken and feel my life isint worth living. what shall i do.

Answer 1

First of all, you should go to the police and report the rape. (If it was really against your will). Second, once you take that action, contact your boyfriend and tell him what action you took. Maybe he'll understand how serious it was for you. His indifference to your rape tells me he heard something in your story that you're not explaining. It sounds like he thought you were a part of it.

Answer 2

If your boyfriend dumped you cuz some pervert raped you, deserve better, seems to me when you needed him most he ran, I think you have been blessed to find this out now, what I would worry about is not letting the rape ruin the rest of your life, bitterness and fear can ruin a bright future for you let alone the relationship problems you could have over sumthing that is not your fault, find a way to let this make you a very strong and very compassinate woman and then you will attract a man that has the same virtues, that way you can turn this tragedy around to sumthing great and mite be able to help others do the same, we cannot control many things that happen to us in life but we surely can control how we respond to what happens to us and what we do with what happens to us good or bad

Answer 3

be glad you are rid of your fiance', better to find out now that he doesn't have the backbone to stand beside you than after you pop out a couple kids. He lacks compassion and trust

you are not at fault, you are a victim and should have reported the rapist to the police. many states are enacting mandatory sentences for rape and other sexual predator crimes .. rich boys that coerce women belong in jail.

get some counselling and look for a man who values you for you and not for your appearance alone

Answer 4

oh im' so srry sweetie.... i hope you notified the authorities...if your having trouble with that in any way PLEASE let me know.... I honeslty can't say anythign that will make it bettr....i lost my son this year and this is another one of those things where words cannot fix your heart...but i am ALWAYS here for you to listen and talk...and if u'd like to im me my user name is harmonieclark....please let me know what and if theres anything i can do for you...go to your obgyn and the authorities...there is also hotlines and thigns you can look into if you'd like...he deserves the consequences that need to come his way...he doesn't deserve you hiding from him and what he has done so that he may prey upon another girl....plesase write to me so we can discuss more of what you can do. I am praying for you

Answer 5

Should have gotten out sooner. No job is worth that much crap. And I would report the rape.

Answer 6

If you were raped you should have gone to the police.