i need some nice words to make up for all the bad stuff i did to get back together with my wife
for evey bad thing i did i need to say 5 good things to make it right because she said that she was going to leave me.
2006-10-07 15:24:59 · 9 answers · asked by james t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just be honest...no one else should have to give you the words to say. If you love her then you know how your heart feels that's all she needs to hear. That you love her and you are willing to work on your relationship.
2006-10-07 16:15:08 · answer #1 · answered by Chas-n-Kasey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't think words can make up for actions. You need to prove that you're sincere, which it sounds like you're NOT. Why did you do bad things in the first place? And what's to say you won't do them again?
2006-10-07 22:35:22 · answer #2 · answered by gailziggy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since I don't know what you did, I can't give you the words to make everything better. What I can do is this: since you know what you did, look inside your heart and say what you would want to hear if she had done what you did. Whatever you say, you'd better mean it before it comes out of your mouth. You keep saying whatever it is until............. You watch her body language, and you'll know when she's reacting favorably towards you.
Whatever you did, DON'T DO IT AGAIN!!!!!
2006-10-07 22:34:17 · answer #3 · answered by kellygirlaj 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to a marriage councelor and pray to God that she doesnt mean it
if it really a very bad thing you did, no words can make it right, stop saying things and do something right
2006-10-07 22:33:08 · answer #4 · answered by meeeeeeeee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak a lot louder than words.
Maybe you could ask her for 6 months to show her you can get your act together.
Don't try to smooth talk her....that's cheap and easy....you need to sit down and ask her what she needs to see happen in your marriage to make her happy.
2006-10-07 22:31:44 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how can we give you those words? you need to look deep and say what is in your heart. and for starters you can say you have re-thought the hole thing an feel totaly different about it all.
2006-10-07 22:29:07 · answer #6 · answered by kierstead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you thought of counseling. Marriage counseling will work wonders and bring you both alot closer. It will teach you both to have a wonderful marriage.
2006-10-07 22:33:29 · answer #7 · answered by Kathy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm.. if you are coming on here to get that information, then you don't deserve her. come up with your own list.
2006-10-07 22:28:38 · answer #8 · answered by Aubrey's mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can't do this yourself.. then you don't deserve her
2006-10-07 22:27:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋