It is pretty Probable!
2006-10-07 15:53:54
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answered by Anonymous
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it's not just the length of time, the quality of the relationship is more important. do you feel "time standing still" everytime you're with him/her, or do you count every second and every minute, wondering what's going to happen next? if it's the latter, don't kid yourself anymore. just enjoy the moment and if you're after marriage, perhaps start looking for other options.
you marry somebody because you can imagine yourself being with that person "forever" without feeling suffocated, nauseated, disgusted, bored, useless, like a rag, or what have you. you marry somebody because that person makes you feel most alive and happy about yourself. from a practical point of you, when you start liking a lot what you are when you are with the person, that could be a good indicator that you have a good "catch."
another thing, studies show that the chances of success is much higher in marriages where the decision to get hitched was made after around two years of knowing each other. hasty decision made lead to a lot of undiscovered problem areas that later cause the breakup of the marriage.
so, don't rush. but as a practical suggestion, don't rush into having kids before marriage. having a kid and having no job is not a nice proposition.
2006-10-07 16:16:00
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answered by Yeye Vonnel 2
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I am also in a similar situation after seven months, except my guy just walked away. I had no clue. I still don't, it hurts but I decided to go on with my life and maybe help someone else, like you. I learned, we all have free will. you can't make him love you, or marry you, just be yourself, who you really are, and if he wants you in all that you are a special gift from God: to be with him through life,,,,,then he'll marry you.
2006-10-07 16:24:58
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answered by loretta_dulce_melos 2
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How could any of us know? Seven months is not long enough to get to know a person, you should have 18 to 24 months to really get to know them in order to make a lifetime commitment
2006-10-07 15:55:12
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answered by OleMarbleEyes 5
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I would wait a yesr, 7 months is still a ,"I just met her" sort of thing. ya know? I would wait a year and I would make sure I knew this person well enough and that I was truely in love before I took a big decision like that. I think you should wait a year, sweetie.
2006-10-07 15:55:22
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answered by dotbrie 4
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Time doesn't determine if you're going to get married.
You could be with him for 7 years and still not get married.
You only get married if both of you want to share your lives with each other.......you've worked out some of the major stuff....you respect each other.....you love each other.
Time spent together means nothing.
2006-10-07 15:55:40
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answered by daljack -a girl 7
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honey i was with someone for 9 years and we didn't married and then my next relationship for 1 year and we got married been married for 12 years now so you just never know,do you want to be married if you do then get married
2006-10-07 15:55:26
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answered by Anonymous
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wait at least a year. 4 for optimal results.
It takes longer than 7 Mo's for a baby to grow into a feasable human , much less a relationship.
2006-10-07 16:14:46
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answered by Anonymous
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Not necessarily, but maybe the start of a good friendship...and those usually end up as the best possibilities.
2006-10-07 15:55:09
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answered by Anonymous
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first how old are you? 7 months and your talking marriage.did you give in (sex) give it a year and if you are still together then discuss marriage as for now get the thought out of your head
2006-10-07 15:56:04
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answered by captredeye@sbcglobal.net 2
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7 months or 7 years is no guarantee. Be patient and let nature take it's course, if it is meant to be it will be.
2006-10-07 15:53:43
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answered by sweetie 3
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