It is an easy word to say (forgive).
2006-10-07 04:41:19 · 24 answers · asked by ACE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That is a call you have to make, you know your wife better than we do, obviously something was missing in the relationship that you two have, did she come to you and confess or did you find out in other ways. If she confessed she obviosuly regrets it and wants to make ammends, You have to search in your soul for the answer, Women have been cheated on for years and somehow we have always forgiven but every case is different. I wish you both the best of luck, marriage is hard and there is no right and wrong, What is good for one couple may not be good for another.
2006-10-07 04:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by confusedpatricia 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In general, probably not, but with the limited information in your question, only a generalized answer can be given. Other factors would influence my sincere response, such as:
Age of you, of her?
Communication with your spouse:
How did you learn that she cheated?
Can the two of you communication without arguing?
Has she asked for your forgiveness?
Do you love your wife enough to forgive?
Do you personally know the person that she cheated with?
How often did your spouse cheat? Was it a one time happening?
Have the two of you talked, not argued, about what created the situation where cheating was a plyable outlet for your spouse to consider, then act on?
Would the two of agree to be counselled, that is if both of you want to save your marriage?
Knowing answers to these questions, I or another responder, could give a more helpful answer.
Good luck in your decision,
Peace and Love,
Penguin44240
2006-10-07 05:13:33 · answer #2 · answered by penquin44240 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there and done it. Yes, I have forgiven, and sometime I wish she would do it again because her and I have not done anything 4+ years. I have cheated on her, so how could I not forgive.
No it is not an easy word to say (forgive) but that is up the person that is happening to. I know alot of people that say I would never ever forgive my spouse, but then I find out that they are still together after he or she did cheat.
Never say never, because you do not know until it happens to you.
2006-10-07 04:50:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no way I could ever get over being cheated on. I can forgive because it is healthier for me in the long run, but I will never give someone the chance to hurt me a second time.
2006-10-07 04:44:33 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If my husband cheated, I would find it painful to go on with the marriage. I'd probably end up punishing him in destructive ways. Before I had children, I wouldn't even try to forgive him. I'd just go back to my family.
Now, I'd probably push for counseling. I would try to find out why it happened. But honestly, I think the marriage would be over. If you can forgive your spouse, you probably would want to try, because a broken relationship haunts you. I know people do get over these things and move on.
Me, if my husband cheated on me and I stayed with him, it would be for my babies, so no true forgiveness. I suspect it's the same for a man and his wife.
2006-10-07 04:52:14 · answer #5 · answered by Laura D 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Forgiveness is a huge component to Christian existence. Forgive. there became a mascre in Amish u . s . a .. The funeral has not yet taken place. however the mummy and dad of the masacred have forgiven the killer of their toddlers. Why such rush to forgive? Take time and picture approximately if it is going to deliver approximately a heart brake in case you do not. If it does not deliver approximately a heart brake why rush to forgive?
2016-11-26 22:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly are looking for a way to forgive her,try to spend more time with her and be more attentive with her,yes, more attentive,statistics has shown that infidelities stem from where women are not given enough attention by their spouse ,blame it on work, too much stress or whatever.you are in control of your relationship and can only know what is the key parts to play in mending your
2006-10-07 04:57:29 · answer #7 · answered by delmy d 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
very difficult question... but the answer is yes... probably because I have already cheated on her... and would love her to forgive me
2006-10-10 08:24:34 · answer #8 · answered by MarriedMan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that from your own heart ...are you of a forgiving nature and will you trust her response? if the answer is no to either, then, for you, the answer would be NO ... each relationship and person is different, there is no "pat" answer
2006-10-07 04:49:08 · answer #9 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No need 2 say.This kind of problem no need to forgive.She obey u n she didn't know how 2 remaind the relation she was the one who done wrong.No need to keep her in your family anymore.
2006-10-07 04:46:56 · answer #10 · answered by gen2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋