my wife takes very good care of my needs...even when she isn't turned on all i have to do is ask. but i don't like saying can i have some. it feels disresptful. what is the best way to ask for sex?
2006-10-07 05:10:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When I ask my husband or if I want to drop him a hint I ask him if he wants to "play." That way it has a fun spin to it and it doesn't sound like a chore to do. I found that I get a better response that way.
2006-10-07 07:11:16 · answer #1 · answered by Charissa D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to give her attention like you want to be with her and not only for sex. At times it may be just give her things for nice things she does for you, you know thanks for dinner, cleaning, for everything she does. Just talking to her and giving her hugs, and cuddle with her at night may help make it a less disrespectful way to get her to have sex. Some other things you can start early is in the morning, do some nice things for her without her asking you to do it or if its something she does, do it for her; or when its close to the time she wakes , up gently kiss her and that would be a good way to show her affection and she may return the favor in the evening.
2006-10-07 05:22:34 · answer #2 · answered by kevin T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her exactly the way you said it here - you are afraid of being disrespectful but you have a need for sex. I think any other way will probably end up being manipulative, which is a lot more disrespectful than asking upfront. And don't forget to ask what her needs are too.
2006-10-07 05:14:40 · answer #3 · answered by Trin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot can be said for Actions, not words....
Romancing someone is a lot of work, but a great conversation about HER is a great way to start.
Then a foot massage. Of course you want to vary it...she may know what's coming after every time...
Do some research on ways to enhance a woman's libido. There are many natural alternatives out there.....
2006-10-07 05:16:12 · answer #4 · answered by TexasKitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself the question...is it everytime you want it, you feel she should give you regardless of her own feelings...i mean what is one day she is not in the mood would you mind...i know a woman supposed to take care of her man, and his needs, otherwise they start feeling all insecure, and neglected, but really there is no other way to ask, but to ask, or you could start off by telling her how much you love her, and need her, and show her how much you want her, but dont push it if she really is'nt up to it...let it slide...and remember dont take her for granted.
2006-10-07 05:19:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start playing with her..
Start taking her clothes off..
Reach up under her skirt...
Don't ask for anything..
Just start playing with the goodies...
2006-10-07 05:14:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how much you enjoyed making love to her, and ask her nicely... if she would like to do it again or not.
2006-10-07 07:02:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seduce her, women like romance send flowers etc, take her out dancing, court her like when you first met
2006-10-07 06:11:38 · answer #8 · answered by paulisfree2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you love her and she takes such good care of you that now you want to "take care" of her. and tell her you can't resist her. she'll melt like butter.
2006-10-07 05:14:58 · answer #9 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up to her and start nibbling on her ear and whispering sweet-nothings to her, that'll get her wet n ready.
2006-10-07 05:44:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋