2006-10-07 02:40:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i wish my parents thought of us when they were married and ended all the fighting sooner. sometimes staying together for the children isn't the best thing to do.
2006-10-07 02:44:36 · answer #1 · answered by and now you know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew that the courts are bias towards fathers and I stayed in a dysfunctional relationship far to long because of the my daughter. I finally came to the conclusion that it was better to have my daughter see me happier and provide a safe haven for her. I have a very positive GAL report and I am still trying to spend more time with her. My ex is very vindictive and would allow anyone else to watch my daughter even though I am available and close by but heaven forbid that I get one extra minute of parenting time. I know my daughter sees the differences hopefully she sees the positive things I do with her. I would hope that the courts will see that shared parenting plan would be the best thing for her and take the control away from the ex.
2006-10-07 19:50:17 · answer #2 · answered by chancesare45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course I thought of my children, but I divorced to save my life. If the children had no mother, how much better off would they b? Now, I'm away from the abuse, my kids are doing well and my ex and I have a very cordial relationship for their sake.
2006-10-07 09:52:51 · answer #3 · answered by Lioness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I did. When I divorced the kids were better off than staying with the two of us fighting all the time.
2006-10-07 10:07:14 · answer #4 · answered by tushpush1966 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course!!We think about our children.So u want 2 divorce n u so worry about your children future right.So b4 u divorce u have 2 make up a planning who gonna 2 take care about your children.Why u want 2 divorce?
2006-10-07 09:49:00 · answer #5 · answered by gen2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. The welfare of my children was the most important aspect of my divorce.
2006-10-07 09:42:29 · answer #6 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, I thought about my children. It was the best thing I ever did for them and for myself. My oldest is a COMPLETELY different kid now, even though she still has some lasting effects; my youngest was too young to remember what we went through, thank God.
2006-10-07 10:14:27 · answer #7 · answered by whatever2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES.they should be included.do you think they will be ok with the divorce? If not will you take them to therapy? You HAVE to do that!
2006-10-07 09:42:53 · answer #8 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents didn't.
And maybe that is why neither me or my brother speak to either parent now.
2006-10-07 09:42:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-10-07 09:45:39 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋