Lately my wife and I have started sharing fantasies, and her favorite fantasy was her being with me and another guy at the same time. Although, the thought of that is kind of a turn on for me too, should I be worried that she desires another guy. I am not very well endowed, so could it be because I'm not satisfying her?
2006-10-07 02:51:52 · 20 answers · asked by Steve J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
total madness
2006-10-07 02:53:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don’t believe you should be worried about your wife’s fantasy.
Perhaps you both need to stop sharing each other’s fantasies, and just concentrate on making a better reality.
You don’t need to be ‘well endowed’ to satisfy your wife…
There are other things you can use to make up for what you may be lacking.
Give her better things to fantasise about…
Make the ‘foreplay’ really interesting, and she won’t need to fantasise about a third person. She’ll have a hard enough time keeping up with just you !!!
This is the tenth question in which you have mentioned ‘fantasy’…
I’m beginning to wonder whether the fact you are actually ‘married’ is also a fantasy !!!
2006-10-07 02:53:57 · answer #2 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trusting couples can share fantasies. You don't have to live them out in exact detail; find ways to satisfy some of those urges that are comfortable for both of you. Maybe the solution is just some "hot talk," maybe it's "toys or accessories." Tell your wife she's a turn on!
2006-10-07 02:59:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are both being completely honest about your fantasies then you have nothing to worry about since she wants you there there are several reasons why a woman would have this fantasy
1- it's a type of domination having two men doing what they wish with you as the single female you have little to no control about whats going on
2- she has a dark side where she wants to feel like a sex toy or a slut to feel used as nothing more then a pleasure puppet
3- it is a common fantasy among society and the thought of it just simply appeals to her to see if she can actually handle it
but honestly if she told you about the fantasy I doubt you have anything to worry about I have found that when love is involved the sex seems better no matter the size of the guys penis ...
2006-10-07 02:56:48 · answer #4 · answered by vicolstravnos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though the thought of a threesome tends to be a turn on to a lot of people, when you get married you are vowing to be faithful and true to the one and only person you just married. That means that when it comes to your sex life there should be only two people, husband and wife. If you really think about it, do you want another man touching your wife? Would she want another woman touching you? Don't let something like that creap into your marriage. It could be destructive.
2006-10-07 02:57:29 · answer #5 · answered by eileen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a fantasy. And she wouldn't be with you if you weren't satisfying her. Unless she tries to make the fantasy a reality... you shouldn't worry.
2006-10-07 02:54:55 · answer #6 · answered by Kbailey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you have a fantasy of being with two women? if so why is it ok for you and not her? i am also a male that is not endowed like a mule, but i am smart enough to know that is not what most women looking for
2006-10-07 04:48:37 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_candy792003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should be a little concerned! U know but mothers do have some odd dreams. My mom told me right before weh went to the grand canyon that she had a dream that I jumped off the cliff of it so it might be normal
2006-10-07 02:55:22 · answer #8 · answered by jclyons95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same fantasy as your wife. It's not because my husband isn't satisfying me, it's just hat I'm curious to try it. I wouldn't do it without him there...
2006-10-07 02:57:08 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a fantasy... we all have them, they are perfectly natural and it doesn't mean she'll follow through on it. She is your wife and she trusts you enough to share her most intimate feelings with you. Don't stress it. remember there is a huge difference between fantasy and reality.
2006-10-07 02:55:36 · answer #10 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be worried dude.
first, your wife desires other than man? it means she does not love you that much 'cause she wants to do it with other man.
second, this is a sin. having sex with someone other than you. peopl should only have sex with their spouse.
third, you like having 3 way? you also like guys? totally suck!
2006-10-07 02:58:23 · answer #11 · answered by N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋