It is an easy word to say (forgive).
2006-10-07 04:53:26 · 21 answers · asked by ACE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
first is the word "wife" meant to be together forever till death do you part. I used to think, if my girlfriend cheated on me, thats the end, absolutely no explanations nothing. but i grew older and wiser, to err is human to forgiveis divine, i looked in Gods word and forgivenes takes away the hurt. easier said for a girlfriend but for a wife, you have to do thesame, if yu love her, yu'd forgive her, it might take time to trust again but you will. and if it does happen again, cut it short. yu know what they say bout a finger that causes you to sin??
2006-10-07 05:10:47 · answer #1 · answered by ChuK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiveness is a big part of Christian Life. Forgive. There was a mascre in Amish Country. The funeral has not yet taken Place. But the parents of the masacred have forgiven the killer of their Children. Why such rush to forgive? Take time and think about if it will lead to a heart brake if you do not. If it would not lead to a heart brake why rush to forgive?
2006-10-07 04:58:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No unless I feel she is sorry from the bottom of her heart and I feel that she would never do it again.
I know it is easy to say than do and if I am in a situation like that I probably will be so pissed off that I will chase her. I mean I am not god to forgive but just a human being
2006-10-07 04:57:45 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to give you my personal experience about the words "I forgive you" the truth is you probably won't. I cheated on my husband and I confessed it to him because I wanted to make things right and I thought he needed to know we were going thru a rough time and I opted the easy way out and even though he told me that he forgave me he has not when he gets mad he throws it in face all the time and he has called me names and to be honest with you I sometimes wish I would not have said anyhting to him are YOU really prepared to forgive and let go cause if you are not things are not going to work out eventually either you are going to walk or she is cause she will get tired of your regrets.
2006-10-07 05:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can truly forgive her, but i don't think you can truly forget what happened. once infidelity creeps into a marriage, it never leaves the heart and mind of the one who was cheated on. some people can get past it and sometimes it works out for them. that trust is damaged permanently to an extent if people try to make things work out.
2006-10-07 05:00:38 · answer #5 · answered by lon d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not, if you feel that your wife has really repented that incident and she doesn't want to continue that, forgiving her is a thing a nice husband can do. If one has decided to forgive, then he has to forget that. Forget it for ever. Its very difficult for normal guys to do that but still can give a try.
2006-10-07 05:16:41 · answer #6 · answered by JP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,you can't keep a grudge for a long time.U need to forgive her findout what she was missing or couldnt get on you that she even thought of cheating.Talk you feelings and senses on her and mostly if you have kids it will be difficult coz no body enjoys living without both parents.you can also ground her for along time.Make sure she doesn't get it till she can come asking for sex from you coz people are likely to cheat to have sex with other partners.Not like she doen'st love you anymore.GOOD LUCK BRA.
2006-10-07 05:03:39 · answer #7 · answered by Maleb's 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a long time and it is always in the back of your mind...
I guess that means true & complete forgiveness is somewhat rare....
2006-10-07 05:09:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-13 03:50:49 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Once A Cheater always a cheater" u can try and forgive that person but it stays in the back of ur head always.
2006-10-07 04:56:40 · answer #10 · answered by bambii_27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋