Marriage & Divorce - 11 August 2006

We are both married to respective partners. I love her (I think) and spend a lot of time with her at work, and the odd night away in a travelodge when we can. She doesn;t love her husband but is financially tied to him and won't leave. I love my wife but want a future with my mistress

2006-08-11 07:31:56 · 88 answers · asked by alan t 1

I will be marrying a guy who got his citizenship from his ex wife .Now someone was telling me that he is not eligible to sponsor me for the next 10 yrs or so .I want to know about the rules of immigration in this case .

2006-08-11 07:27:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-11 07:25:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

get a devorce in jail and then get married

2006-08-11 07:14:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

the person doesn't want to pay child support.

2006-08-11 07:14:28 · 10 answers · asked by ludacris 1

and he particularly the sites where he can meet people with like minded fetishes. I have asked him to stop and he promises me every time that he will but after the last time (where I nearly told him to leave and he promised me he would get help) I have now discovered he has a new email address (which he has lied about) and still seems to be continuing. Does anyone out there have any advice on what I can do or help he can get?

2006-08-11 07:07:53 · 69 answers · asked by Anonymous

Generally my company only erects steels structures that go up 2 or 3 stories. This one is 10. My wife really loves what I do. She says it's very masculine? Do you or your significant other do a job that is "classified" as manly or girly?

2006-08-11 07:03:03 · 18 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

lately i just don't fell like having intercourse with my hubby. i'm not cheating . ( i don't have time for that). but ever since i started using the birth ctrl patch continuously,i have just felt "off". could that be a factor in how i feel?? it's really affecting my marriage.

2006-08-11 06:58:53 · 26 answers · asked by MamiMe 2

My wife's mother died before I met my wife. At times I wonder if not having a mother to go to about marital conflicts makes it harder on my wife.

2006-08-11 06:58:18 · 11 answers · asked by butnozzle 2

he will be cheating on his girlfriend with his wife, isn't that an oxymoron. Should I say forget it or go for it, we always had awesome sex. never a disappointment.

2006-08-11 06:52:12 · 60 answers · asked by GOOCHER13 1

Sorry, one important thing I left out when I posted this before, and may effect the answers given... these people are Jehovah's Witnesses...
If you suspected your husband of cheating, and are highly religious, and finally pressured him to admit he had an affair and he did a few days ago (what would you do)... he tells you about three women going back several years, the third he is still seeing for over a year. You both have one child together and have been married 16 years. Neither one of you have been getting along for a long time, and seem to not have much in common. The wife still loves the husband.... would you stay, what do you think most people would do? (a good friend of mine is dealig with this, and I don't know what to tell her...)

2006-08-11 06:52:09 · 10 answers · asked by Leigh 3

have u ever done it ? y some poeple do that?

2006-08-11 06:46:26 · 6 answers · asked by h_hooryar82 1

it bothers my hubby cause i take things that are said to heart. i want to be free. our love is secure. its me when i stop and really think about it. words on cpu are just that. so any advise would be welcomed.

2006-08-11 06:43:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

If so what would this person have to do and does the parent have to sign or can they sign for themselves.

2006-08-11 06:42:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

He likes fishing and he works at a bank doing loans other than that he's a pretty normal guy. I want to wow him without spending too much. Where should I take him or what should I buy a man thats hard to shop for?????????

2006-08-11 06:40:49 · 14 answers · asked by sandia 1

I was in a very abusive marriage for over a decade. What has helped you, what wisdom, what books or what people have helped you recover? How has this affected you and your current day to day life?

2006-08-11 06:38:52 · 14 answers · asked by schnikey 4

She says I don't do anything around the house. This is not true. She says I don't anticipate things or see what needs to be done. This is probably true. Sometimes I think her perception is skewed and I don't know what to do about it. She says she wants a true partner, not someone to whom she has to give orders and assignments and then have them carried out. I don't want to live like this either. I am prepared to believe that I'm depressed, but this has been going on for years. She has a lot of anger. I'm at my wits end. Right now she says she's only staying for the kids.

2006-08-11 06:29:46 · 21 answers · asked by geno6719 1

or should I just admit that I had a small food fight with the guys and acted like a child again?

2006-08-11 06:27:45 · 18 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

thus i m not able to enjoy my life a lot...we both love each other a lot but our sexual life is very boring...with no excitement...ho should i make it full of life...plz help

2006-08-11 06:27:09 · 26 answers · asked by nkdrathi 1

Im new at it and finding it to be very uncomfortable. Thank You

2006-08-11 06:25:01 · 11 answers · asked by Big Chris 1

Be specific.....Do you not want to date anyone else? Do you put the relationship before everything? what?

2006-08-11 06:22:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

and my husband date of birth is 26.10.1976 and his time of birth is 11:55am and now we are separate with each other and we are filed a case for divorce please tell me is there any chance for reconcile our relationship because i''ll still love him.

2006-08-11 06:21:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

when I got married me and my family in law did not get a long and we had fight right after the wedding because my husband is their elder son they were dependent on him in every thing and because of that i had a fight with them and i cut all the ties between me and them and i dont go to their house and they dont come to my house and we dont talk to each others for six years and because the bad things that they say and did about me I told my husband to cut his relationship with them but I know that he talks to them and he dont care about me and he does not stop them from saying bad things about me especially his dad i hate him so much a year a go i heard that he said alot bad things about me I called him and asked him to stop talking about me and cursed me and said alot bad words and I did the same thing too but my husband love them and he is still talking to them can u give me your opinion about my proplem and the future of my marriage i have 2 little kids and I am christian.

2006-08-11 06:15:45 · 17 answers · asked by Yahoo User 1

that there is such thing as postpartum depression after the wedding is over? like the baby blues? but sad that the day came n went to quick? or now that the planning and excitement of it all is gone and now you're left with just life.... day in and day out life???

2006-08-11 06:15:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

We always say that its not the size of a tool, but how you use it. Women, doesn't it take longer if the tool is too small? Men, don't you have to work harder and longer when it isn't a good fit? Be honest. Sex is a large part of a marriage. I know people who are not happily married, and this is a big deal for them.

2006-08-11 06:12:52 · 27 answers · asked by A C 1

its all good b-4 ur married then its over... why?

2006-08-11 06:11:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married going on two years but been with him on and off 9 years. We have two babies together, a two year old and a one year old. About three weeks ago my husband cheated on me with a ex of his (to top it off she is his 4th cousin). He left and did not come home for three days. During that time he said everything mean thing possible to me (he didn't want to be with me, he is not in love with me etc..) . Sunday night he finally returned with a mark on his neck. We then made a decision to split. After he saw me looking for places and actually making a attempt to leave his whole mind changed and now I was hearing nothing but I love you's I need you's etc... After I gave it some thought I decided we would try to make it work. I feel I am struggling alot. I always think he is up to something. I have dreams that this is going to happen again. I dream about what has happened. I love him so much, but how do i move on with him without making myself and him miserable?

2006-08-11 06:08:57 · 17 answers · asked by sad/confused 1

this is a long history of my husbands family interfering, and wantng answers all the time as to why we cant go somewhere etc etc. basically today we were told about a family barbacue thats happening tommorow (late notice as always), our 2 children arn't well so we argreed that we shouldn't go as we dont want to make other kids sick. so he rings up his mother to tell her that we wont be coming, i could hear the conversation, she tells him it's just an excuse, she doesnt believe us and basically we are lying. i got very offended by this and spoke up in the backround as he wouldn't give me the phone, said that if she didn't believe us to come round and see the kids and i'm not irrisponsible and wont let them make other kids sick. coversation ended with her saying she would ring later as she was busy. after which my husband turns to me and say's i didn't help by speaking up and i shouldn't have said anything. i have put up with his family giving us so much hassle over the years and i have

2006-08-11 06:08:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

my parents have been fighting with eachother (not like hurting eachother or hitting) for a long time now and its tearing me apart. a long time ago something really bad happend to my family,(has to do with cheating) that i'm not allowed to discuss, but it still haunts me to this day! i'm scared my mom and dad r going to fall apart and they mean the world to me! i don't know what to do...is it normal for parents to argue...A LOT!!??

2006-08-11 05:58:22 · 18 answers · asked by *JJtrue♥* 2

300.00 for a star for a friend and an ornament its a female am i wrong for being suspicious?

2006-08-11 05:56:55 · 16 answers · asked by chef spicey 5