300.00 for a star for a friend and an ornament its a female am i wrong for being suspicious?
2006-08-11 05:56:55 · 16 answers · asked by chef spicey 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
this was in may, we arent back yet but have been talking for months about it.
2006-08-11 06:01:17 · update #1
Obviously you're the dummy .. and I may not be smarter than the President or a rock but I know when someone's cheating on me ... genius.
2006-08-11 14:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Nope, your not wrong. Three years is a long time to be separated and I'm sure both of you have had relationships with other people. The key is to figure out if there are still relationships going on, potential relationships, etc before you two decide to get back together. Now is a good time for each of you to be honest about what has been going on for the last three years. If you can't be honest with each other about that then there is no way you two will stay together for long.
2006-08-11 06:00:44 · answer #2 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. first of all, don't get back w/ him if u are too scared to talk to him. about ANYTHING. i know u think, u don't want to ruin the progress u've made... but u know what?? PROGRESS is being able to move on, trust eachother, and *work* on making a relationship Healthy. not just superficially better on the outside. i mean Truly Trusting eachother, being able to grow together, talk about ANYTHING, communicate well, work together well, and just be there for eachother no matter what. that means, if u bring this up and he gets MAD at u..for snooping, for bringing up past, for anything.. he is not treating you right.
u have something bothering u. u bring it up to him. whether or not it is "important" or "stupid" in his eyes, it Doesn't Matter. u NEED someone who can validate ur feelings, and put ur fears to rest. in any way he can. the right guy will Try to do that for you. even if he feels u are accusing him, even if u ARE accusing him. he needs to realize he messed up Your TRUST. he needs to build it up. end of story. no more of this "i'm scared" stuff. that's not a real relationship, and i think u know it won't work if it doesn't get stronger.
have expectations. for yourself, as a Woman and Wife. for your partner, as a Man and Husband. what do u want? what do u need? if u do what u can to satisfy ur husband, that's awesome. now u need a man who will do the same for you. if this guy is not awesome, it doesn't mean u don't love him. it means u love someone who's not good enough for you. loving him is giving him a 2nd chance to CHANGE. but staying w/ him is not loving him. staying w/ someone who is bad for you is not Good Decisions.
Take care, good luck, and be strong. there's nothing wrong w/ deserving a Good Guy when u are a Good Woman.
2006-08-11 06:08:23 · answer #3 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
$300 for a star? man what the hell is he smoking?
My wife and I were separated and divorced and remarried each other after a 3 year divorce. During that time we both had "relationships" I dated a woman and gave her Christmas gifts. So what? I know my wife did something similar to a person she was dating. Thats life. If you have resolved or are resolving your problems don't make a big deal of it.
2006-08-11 06:09:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would be suspicious.. but when did this happen? Was it when you guys were separated or when you were trying to reconcile things? Because if it was when you were separated I wouldn't worry about. Three years is a long time. The only reason why I would confront him abou tit is if it was when you guys were trying to reconcile or together that he bought this gift.
2006-08-11 05:59:51 · answer #5 · answered by heatherdrake2005 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i could try initiating off at a decrease fee & see what occurs. That appears like lots for a million week at the same time as ur also identifying to purchase the holiday & nutrition, etc. If the a million makes round $three hundred i could provide her $2 hundred & if the different makes $500 i could provide no more effective then $four hundred.. reliable success & desire every1 has a secure & relaxing time.
2016-11-24 20:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by mitra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not wrong at all. But, come on, you were separated for 3 years. Did you cheat on him at all during that time???? Or do anything that he would deem suspicious????
2006-08-11 05:59:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, I would NEVER get back together with an ex....they are an ex for some reason! Secondly, if you do not trust him or are suspicous of him there is not point getting back with him.
2006-08-11 05:59:54 · answer #8 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be open and talk about it. Suspicion's just ruin a relationship. Try to remember it happened while you were separated.
2006-08-11 06:03:05 · answer #9 · answered by Valarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He paid for a star...hahahahahaha...how freaking corny can you get!!!
Are you sure you want to get back with this star cadet?
2006-08-11 06:06:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋