2006-08-11 07:25:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How do you know for sure she is the love of your life? Wasn't your wife the love of your life and isn't that why you married her?
2006-08-11 08:03:24 · answer #1 · answered by okiewenee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you found the love of your life and being married t hen you must not be happy in your marriage, you need to get out of that marriage before you start another relationship. How would you feel if the shoe was on the other foot and they did that to you, I would think they would want you to leave before you start missing around with someone else so at least give them the curiosity.. But just remember this may be the love of your life for now till you end your marriage and things can go differently. Good luck
2006-08-11 14:54:41 · answer #2 · answered by Jon and Nichole 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Were u force to marry your wife.. because if u were, well id understand y u call ur new girl love of ur life but if u weren't force to marriage, how can u be 100% sure that this new girl is the girl u really want for lifetime when u did made a vow and a declaration of love to ur wife,and the proposal and evrything...
What to do???Think about this many many times before u end up losing people important 2 u..especially when there are kids involved...Dont be too selfish to think of just ur own happiness.
2006-08-11 21:00:33 · answer #3 · answered by Erin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know it's the love of your life? Sometimes being bored in a marriage can give false signal about someone else.
Now if your unhappy in your marriage and this other person tickles your fancy and your willing to give up on what you have now for the love of your life then go for it, but if your marriage is solid and there is love between you's both, then think about the consequences.
2006-08-11 14:37:33 · answer #4 · answered by Mimi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What makes you so sure you would be any happier with this new person than with what you already have? Remember, its not having what you want but wanting what you got. But if youre positive that this person is your prince charming and Mr right, and you just cant live without him no matter what, then divorce your husband and move on. Just remember that you probably felt the same way about your husband just before you married him and what happens in the future if....! Just be real sure this is what you truly want. Good luck
2006-08-11 14:38:54 · answer #5 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, that depends on a lot of stuff. Like, are there children involved? and how long have you been married, and stuff like that. Sometimes people just get so bored with their marriages, that anything else seems interesting and fun. It might not be worth you losing your wife over.
2006-08-11 14:28:32 · answer #6 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll need to be absolutely sure that this woman is the love of your life and not just a distraction from your marriage. If you are sure that she is the one, you need to end your marriage and be with the one you love. Life is really too short and you only get one life.
But I caution you to be absolutely sure that this is what you want. I would suggest individual counseling so you can have your head completely clear...
2006-08-11 14:38:53 · answer #7 · answered by LovingMichael 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to make sure that the one you think you are so in love with and you think they are the love of your life, because if you leave your spouse and then it turns out that you didn't really know that other person, you just threw your marriage away on some little fling.
2006-08-11 14:38:44 · answer #8 · answered by greeneyes 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to think....you couldn't have meet the love of ur life because you already married her! You took vows! Do the right thing and honor them!
2006-08-11 14:38:30 · answer #9 · answered by LeeLynn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So the person you married wasn't the love of your life? Hmm, sounds like you really don't know what love is.
2006-08-11 14:37:35 · answer #10 · answered by Badkitty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋