When you find that special person, how do you know you're in the right place to commit to her?

Question

Be specific.....Do you not want to date anyone else? Do you put the relationship before everything? what?

Answer 1

When you find that someone, you slowly lose interest in seeing anyone else. It may take a few dates, or it may happen after one. You just don't feel like going out with another person.

Eventually you realize that you would rather be with that special someone than out with friends. You would rather be with them than stay home alone. It sort of sneaks up on you.

Soon you spend most of your free time together because it just seems right. That is when you know that it is the time to commit.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

When the person feels like the balance to my life. I want to be established in my own life before I add someone else to it. So first off, I have to feel like I have a stable life. If not, I am dradding that person into turmoil, and that isn't fair, especially to one I love.
And no, you wouldn't want to date anyone else. Everyone else you thought of wouldn't seem to measure up. Even though you might still find other people attractive, your feelings for that person wouldn't be stronger than those for your special person.
As far as putting the relationship before everything else, that isn't a good idea. If it doesn't work, the most important thing in your life would be gone. But it should be a high priority, and should feel like something you want to do, not have to do.

Answer 4

I have been with the same woman since I was 19, I am now pushing 31. All I can tell you is I never felt uncomfortable around her. We were friends long before we ever dated. Don't get wrapped up in the idea of what love is, if you feel that you want to be with her for the rest of your life, then do it. But make that commitment. We both come from divorced parents, between hers and mine there are11 marriages, so divorce is not an option for us. We have had some very bad times, but have learned to get through them. So if you commit, commit. There should be no escape clause.

Answer 5

When you find the person you want to be with you will know. It will be comfortable right away. It will feel as if you've always known that person. There will be trust, love, companionship, compassion and honesty from the start.
When my husband and I first met, I stopped looking at other men. I had no urge to do so, no desire for it. Nearly 3 years later, I still have no desire to do so.
Don't mistake my words, you will have troubles. All relationships do. But your first reaction won't be to leave. It will be to figure out how to fix or talk out the problem.

Answer 6

You will have peace in your heart and can see having children and growing old with that person. I was good friends with my husband before we married and that helped us out a lot. We never felt uncomfortable around each other and we talked about everything so when we did realize we liked each other so much, we were already in love!

Answer 7

The only thing on your mind is that person. After 6 months you still feel,that feelling. You know the other feels that way too. Then get down on 1 knee.

Answer 8

u just feel it and u know that it's the right time but if your not sure just take it slow for a while till u do know for sure it feels right think about that other person.