Marriage & Divorce - 11 August 2006

If you found out that your wife cheated and you were going to forgive her, provided that she change dramatically for the good....would you still want to know the details of the affair or sexual encounter? If she finally, said, yes-we had sex but your relationship was on the road to recovery--would you want to know more about the sexual encounters or would that just be self-torture? Why or Why not?

2006-08-11 04:29:11 · 13 answers · asked by Confused 1

2006-08-11 04:28:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-11 04:19:56 · 15 answers · asked by Naomi 4

(Been together 18 years)

2006-08-11 04:08:44 · 11 answers · asked by A C 1

I am really worried I am taller than my boyfriend, so i have to pick the right shoes all the time, but I love to wear high heels when we out, then I can't. He never said anything, but I don't feel v comfortble about it. What men think of it? do they mind the girl taller then them?

2006-08-11 04:08:40 · 6 answers · asked by Tomorrowalwaysbetter! 2

My wife and I have been married for three months, we have been living together for five years. After our wedding and honeymoon things got really bad and very strange. She got really busy with work and it affected our home life. We also have a 4 year old daughter that takes a toll on us as well. I recently got myself into counseling to help cope with these tough times but my wife is doing nothing for herself or our marriage. We haven't had sex since the honeymoon. There is little to no physical contact. As cheesy as it may sound she's stopped using her pet names for me ("babe" "baby" "honey"). She's just nonexistent in this marriage. I don't believe there is any infidelity going on because she is home every night and on the weekends. There are no guys at her work that should would do anything with. I think she might be depressed for several reasons. Anytime I try talking about any of this she gets defensive and angry. I can't take this much longer. Should I make her decid

2006-08-11 04:07:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife of 2 year but we have been together for 10 years total just told me that she thinks she may be gay. She has had these feeling for a long time but has never acted on them. I want to be supportive but at the same time I am dying on the inside. What do i do?

2006-08-11 04:05:33 · 22 answers · asked by lost 1

We have been together for 12 years and married for almost 10. We have both been faithful this entire time. (We have sex 3 times a week, and get along great!)
He went across the country last month and cheated on me. He had a one night stand with a girl who is 10 years younger.
A few weeks after he got home, I found her phone number in his cell phone and he fessed up. He says it is a terrible mistake and it has been eating at him.
I noticed he has been more moody lately and seems insecure, asking me if I love him, and if I would ever leave. He has also been somewhat withdrawn from our 2 kids, hardly playing with them like he used to. I think his change in attitude is what made me decide to look at his phone, that plus the fact that he has kept it with him at all times, unlike before when half the time he didn't even know where it was!

Anyway, I guess my question is this - He says it was a mistake and that it will never happen again. For some reason I believe him. Should I?

2006-08-11 04:03:18 · 20 answers · asked by Jeff B 1

are you doing" she said. I was just changing the light bulb in her closet and I didn't want to move her clothes to get to it. So I just reached through. She hates when I take shortcuts while doing tasks. Do you ever argue over small stuff like this? Nothing major, just little disagreements.

2006-08-11 03:58:56 · 10 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

I am only 28 and am still very in love with my husband and attracted to him. Sex is great as well. My problem- It used to only take the thought or simple touch anywhere on my body to get me excited and wet for my husband. Now I have to have some serious contact with my nether region before i can get wet down there. Has anyone else expierienced this before? I don't want him thinking he doesn't turn me on anymore.

2006-08-11 03:53:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend has a baby. she got seperated but her ex took all the papers(birth cerificate, social security) with him. and she cannot find him but the baby is with her. Shes looking to have her baby's documents with her. is that possible she can have them?

2006-08-11 03:52:52 · 3 answers · asked by ny k 2

therefore you should try everything even if it means i

2006-08-11 03:51:53 · 5 answers · asked by Rayda1 1

Would having a child make it worse to tell, or is it better to think about your own feelings (relieving yourself of the guilt), or to think about the children and do whatever it takes to keep the marriage together?

2006-08-11 03:49:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-11 03:31:17 · 6 answers · asked by Delta D 1

He said he was from our bank and we had bounced a check. Yeah, right, is what I said. I do all the banking, this was her account. Then I realized I hadn't deposited her check into the account. What do I do? Should I lie and cover it up or confess to her?

2006-08-11 03:30:17 · 9 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

So this weekend I'm trying to plan something my fiance will appreciate... (we are both 21)... So I'm going to wake him up at his place and cook him breakfast in bed (you know, bacon, eggs, muffins, ect.). Then I have the day planned out since its going to rain so I was going to take him to a movie he wanted to see, dinner, and a few other places... I guess I'm wondering if guys really appreciate and like that sort of thing... I mean having their girl come over and make them breakfast to wake them up and having her plan out a day together or if its kind of annoying to them. I really love to pamper & take care of him, I'm just afraid he'll think its kind of dumb or won't appreciate it. Its just a part of who I am though, I love to take care of him & rub his back & pamper him... Is that weird??

2006-08-11 03:27:33 · 6 answers · asked by Domi 2

Stats are out ther that show that a large number of women have cheated on their husbands - be it a one night stand or ongoing affair. But you hardly ever meet one that will admit it.

2006-08-11 03:26:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Most guys would punch me in the face for complaining about this...but I'm not really complaining really...I'm just puzzled. My gf and I use to have a great sex life together. Well, she's been stressed out with family issues, and our sex life just consists of making out and her wanting to give me oral. I'm sorry, but I've never been just a "TAKER"....in fact I've been labeled the "nice guy". My gf is beautiful and I love her and want to please her damn it! She always responds with "i just want to make you happy", and I always think I can change her mind when it's happening, but she comes up with excuses...tired...forgot to do something, or call somebody. Yes, I know.....some if not most of you guys are going to call me a dumb a**, but you are the majority who makes real guys look like d***ks. Anyways, I just feel bad.......I don't ask her to do it either. I just want her to be satisfied too. I've tried being romantic....talking about what's bugging her...but she avoids it....

2006-08-11 03:26:40 · 1 answers · asked by trevorlsu 1

someone asked this question and got some good answers....but i already do this for my man and i only get a reaction like "hanging out" kind of interaction. he plays his vid games, eat & sleep. only time when he truly "interacts" with me is when he wants to have sex. even though he SAYS otherwise. guys plz! we women go on action as well as talk. you can tell us all day about love etc, but when ur actions say the opposite what gives?!

he doesnt like to go out, just stay home and "chill". ive tried many times to suggest some things. and he does go, but only to plz me. shows no true interest. im stumped.

2006-08-11 03:21:37 · 27 answers · asked by lastbutton 1

i mean to go back to the days you were single and had guys run after you?do you recall those days and all the horney things you did with your dates?

2006-08-11 03:21:18 · 22 answers · asked by helpmegetaname 3

2006-08-11 03:18:27 · 17 answers · asked by Lisa C 1

After all cheating is cheating right?

2006-08-11 03:17:33 · 27 answers · asked by jack 2

If you have had an affair on your husband/wife, do you think that you can actually be in love with your lover but cannot leave your spouse for financial reasons....or would it just be infactuation? Has anyone here ever been in love with their lover but forced to remain married?

2006-08-11 03:13:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want it at least once a day. But I'm lucky if I get it once every week. I have a toy but it is not as good. I want the real thing. what do I do to get it more?

2006-08-11 03:10:46 · 44 answers · asked by louisiana_red_rose 1

My husband left me 3 years ago and now that he has a new girlfriend he refuses to pay for the credit card debt. My only income is SSI for my 2 disabled sons. I can't use their money for my husbands dept. Does he have to agree to file bankruptcy with me or can I do it on my own since he made sure all the credit cards were in my name. ..but since we are still married isn't he responsible for the debt too? We've been married 13 years in Florida.

2006-08-11 02:59:19 · 16 answers · asked by Cynthia 2

2006-08-11 02:56:55 · 25 answers · asked by Phantom of the Opera 4

2006-08-11 02:53:54 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

One night I picked up husm=band drunk at party on same night sister came over after a fight with hubby and got drunkl. The next moring my husband got up and went in my room my sister was in thought she was sleeping or passed out I don't know? He pulled up her shirt and unzipped her pants when she woke up and sat up he said nothing got up and took a shower for work? Mysister did not tell me for months later because she said ( I ssemed so happy and really had no where to go if I was not.) taht is why she said nothing. When I confronted husband he said he was drunk and dont remember. Does this mean he is a rappist? Is this something men do? I am lost....

2006-08-11 02:53:27 · 11 answers · asked by glennakay2004 2

Are you happily married? Do you ever feel like you've made a huge mistake? ....ok, I said a simple yes or no...maybe I meant 2 yes's or 2 no's. Thanks.

2006-08-11 02:51:04 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've always been curious to know what it feels like to be with another woman, I am now married and don't know what to do. Any suggestions?

2006-08-11 02:47:18 · 22 answers · asked by lovely butterfly 2