2006-08-11 03:18:27 · 17 answers · asked by Lisa C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am a strong believer that you get back exactly what you put out in life. So maybe if you start out trying to show your husband more love, and treat him the way you would like him to treat you it will all happen naturally. Good luck!
2006-08-11 03:29:32 · answer #1 · answered by Badkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to keep the romance active by maintaining yourself and guiding him into activities that will be memorable. Keeping excitement in a marriage is usually the first thing to go. Too often the couple takes for granted things they should never let settle. Exercise his fantasies now and then and block out negative things like finance and career after 10 pm. Make weekends special by doing a variety of things on different weekends. Never let life become repetitive. Like the character in 1001 tales keep that interest that captivated him in the first place.
2006-08-11 03:48:43 · answer #2 · answered by hardnose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to him. tell him you do not feel he appreciates you enough. do this in a non-confrontational way, make it slighly light hearted or you could end up in a fight.
when having a hug try something like " remember when you did/ said this..... " and then say how special it made you feel and how valued you felt, then how nice it would be if he did things like that more often and how you would love him more.
if you show your husband your love love for him then he will open up and show more love for you.
for info, my wife and i have been having probs precisely because she did not felt loved enough and did not communicate it in a way i understood. we know now and hope it is not to late but know it might be - don't make our mistake make the first move now.
2006-08-11 03:44:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant make someone love you more but you can up your own self esteem by doing things you love and maybe hanging out with friends. I dont know how long you have been married or why you feel unloved but the only person who can make you feel better is you.
2006-08-11 03:22:53 · answer #4 · answered by arreis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's one of our biggest problems as women, your husband loves you the way he can,you just have to allow yourself see it and believe in the love he has for you.
He wont love you on your own terms.Stop looking for more love from him,you will look forever.Be satisfied with the one you get And also give in return as much as you can.
Dont let him think that you are helpless and trying to please him so he can love you more. Get busy and distract yourself from looking for his more love.
2006-08-11 03:35:09 · answer #5 · answered by helpmegetaname 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone love you.. love is a decision that someone has to make all on their own. If he doesn't love you enough (for you) then tell him.. maybe he doesn't know how to 'show' the love that he feels for you..
2006-08-11 03:23:38 · answer #6 · answered by Imani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can make anyone love you more. That's something the other person has to want to do and have in his heart and soul to do.
2006-08-11 03:35:16 · answer #7 · answered by liliw24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately one cannot make someone love them more...you can however peak his interest...do special things for him, make his favorite dinner with candles and you be the agressive one in the bedroom tonight....men do like for the woman to take the initiative...buy a sleek little nightie and wear it with him....entice him...get the pix
2006-08-11 03:22:02 · answer #8 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE A MINISTER FOR HIS THINGS!(Finance, planning, etc)
BE A SERVANT FOR HIS NEEDS( WHATEVER IT MAY BE)
BE A WHORE IN BED( be open & un-inhibitive in acts)
BE LIKE MOTHER EARTH (in bringing up his progeny, tolerating his small mistakes,guiding him gently through crisis etc)
2006-08-11 03:25:53 · answer #9 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone love you. That has to be up to them.
2006-08-11 03:21:22 · answer #10 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋