Marriage & Divorce - 11 August 2006

Ive been in a roller coaster relationship with an older man for five years. Ive come to the conclusion that I need to leave him.
I want to get married and he obviously doesnt but wont tell me.
Five years is long enough to wait for a committment.
My problem is fear. Whenever I leave him alone, something happens to make me go back to him. My heart feels empty without him, I ache when I dont see or talk to him and when I do finally see him again, I get the butterfly feeling in my gut. I somehow feel complete again, once we have made up.
He is much older than I and sex is not a major factor (he has problems in that area)
Once we broke up and I got engage to someone else for 6 months. Someone how he managed to slip back into my life. The engagement was not broke because of him...there were other problems, BUT the point Im trying to make is How do I let go, And move on for good.

2006-08-11 19:10:39 · 11 answers · asked by Ms Confused 1

2006-08-11 19:08:53 · 17 answers · asked by zen 1

My husband and I have been together for two years and have never had a fight. Of course, I realize that that can change at any moment. When I was married to my former husband, I used to laugh at couples on TV who claimed they never fight. Now I'm wondering if that really is possible.

2006-08-11 19:00:42 · 25 answers · asked by sweetbaby 1

I'm a stay at home mom with 4 kids (2 boys, 7 and 6 - 2 girls, 3 and 1). I need a break from my kids! I love them to death, but I need to get out and have a little bit of time for myself. I can't really get my hubby to understand this. I never go anywhere without the kids. They are ALWAYS with me. If I do leave by myself long enough to run to the store or something, when I come back, my hubby says the kids wouldn't listen to him and all our youngest did was cry. Of course she's going to cry - she's used to me being with her constantly! I've tried to explain this all to him but all he says is he'll try to find time to give me some time out away from the house by myself - and I never get it! I'm so stressed out that I've literally been losing weight and I'm up to smoking 2 packs a day and have now developed insomnia. I'm a complete wreck! How do I get my husband to give me the break I so desperately need? Unfortunately, there's no one else to watch my kids to give me the time

2006-08-11 18:50:05 · 20 answers · asked by Ken'sBabe 3

2006-08-11 18:46:51 · 4 answers · asked by Wink 3

can i find a person who owes me child support on yhe net for free they all says free intell you get the results of person then they want money so is there somewhere i can get this info for free

2006-08-11 18:46:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

and thought it was to sexy! How would you feel? What would you do?

2006-08-11 18:42:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Married almost 6 years (got married when i was 18) and we have 3 kids and I just let him run all over me....I feel so freggin' stupid :( He's such a jerk.....yet I stay. How dumb is that?

2006-08-11 18:28:36 · 32 answers · asked by ? 3

to make her see that we are really in love. i think its because shes had two failed marrages and dosnt want that for me and when i bring it up she always says that divorces are expensive and stuff like that. im going to do this either way but i want her to be a part of it. im her oldest daughter and it would break my heart if she was not involved in my big day, only honest answers please

2006-08-11 18:22:52 · 21 answers · asked by ?Cheshire Cat? 3

If a married couple haven't had sex for 15 years and one of them begins an affair, is it cheating?

2006-08-11 18:20:19 · 33 answers · asked by Cookie 5

Did you wait if you are married?

2006-08-11 18:19:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Seems like everyone these days is either too busy or too wrapped up in themselves to fall in love. I see this trend as only worsening as the pace of our lives becomes more and more hectic. Anyone agree with this theory?

2006-08-11 18:14:45 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have been married for 2 months and i just realized he is ocpd.......obsessive,compulsive,personality disorder........he's driving me nuts!!!!!!i love him with all my heart.......but the scheduals and perfection and lists and organizing everthing is taking over our marrage.......i have talk to him about it but he doesn't feel he needs help..........what do yall think? anything he does is color cordinated,alphabetical order measured or drawn out to a tee............i like to be neat and tidy too, but this is crazzzzzzzzzzzzy...........advice

2006-08-11 18:04:34 · 23 answers · asked by myyorkies 3

2006-08-11 17:56:56 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1

I wanted to thank those of you who answered my question "unhappy with husband" all of you told me to leave him, but with 3 young kids I coun't just up and leave so I did the next best thing, I made him go. He can't come to my house, work, or school and he can't call me either.Plus he can't visit the kids until we see a judge in a couple weeks

2006-08-11 17:48:15 · 16 answers · asked by funnychic30 2

I love someone very much. But he have nothing to give me other than love. I cannot see he can improve his life standard.. Someone love me very much and he can give me wealth and i believe i will never suffer from any financial problem. But I don't have a love feeling for him. NONE!! But when I see what happened to those couple with financial problem.. they were suffering.. and at last they break up!! But I also saw a couple which is very rich, but not happy.. And there are sucide case just because unhappily love story..?? I am in dilemma..

2006-08-11 17:46:22 · 19 answers · asked by btrc 1

2006-08-11 17:46:09 · 8 answers · asked by kimbolina 1

We've been married for 2 years now. We have 2 little boys, ages 2 and 2 months I'm 25 and my wife is 24. I told her I wanted a divorce today. She is childish and defintely lazy. Always whining and hollering around at me over little things. She doesn't like to cook or clean.She doesn't even have any friends because of her attitude.I put up with this for 3.5 years thinking she would get a little better but no I think it got worse. We work at the same place and I try to tell her we need a break from each other every once and awhile but no. She doesn't like anyone in my family and some don't like her.I don't get along with her mom at all.Damn! don't get me started on that. I really don't think if my wife was typing this she would have much things to say. I think i'm a very good husband and dad not just because i'm the one typing this. My question is should I get a divorce? If so then how do I get to at least see my kids? I would love to have full custody of them.

2006-08-11 17:44:11 · 16 answers · asked by cmhunnads 2

2006-08-11 17:40:38 · 22 answers · asked by SALLY R 1

2006-08-11 17:38:41 · 11 answers · asked by blk man luvs pussc 1

I have moved on...I am married and have a little girl but I can't forget what my ex did to me...he cheated with my best friend...I dont even like him anymore but I just cant forgive and forget...Help!

2006-08-11 17:37:03 · 11 answers · asked by brummy438 2

Get to it. When married I worked 80 to 100 hours a week. come home house dirty no food on the table no relations. 2 years of this I cheat which is wrong. I fess up because I want it to work for my little girls sake. year after year the hours decrease the house is a little cleaner still no food on the table. Now I have mental and physical stress work. I still come home and cook. Only one child at home. So one comment was a day at home with the children will stress and keep her from fealing good and she may not want to be intament. Well my question is I work I cook so why should I come home and work the rest of my day so she may feel better and want to have sex. What about the stressful day I had. I would much rather stay at home with my kids than work.. So If I tell her I love her, cook, rub her feet, bring home the income, and still want to have sex with her after staying up for 24 hours what is wrong

2006-08-11 17:31:46 · 4 answers · asked by ajh8675309v2 1

2006-08-11 17:31:12 · 20 answers · asked by niccinono 2

2006-08-11 17:31:06 · 13 answers · asked by kinguncle 1

2006-08-11 17:29:28 · 42 answers · asked by darknight_is_here 3

I want to move to Georgia and DH wants to stay in the area. If I applied for a job in GA and got it, do you think he will leave with me or stay?

BTW - He's very set in his ways, but I'm miserable b/c it's always his way or no way.

2006-08-11 17:18:29 · 6 answers · asked by hrmom02 2

How do you define the durability of unconditional love?

ths is how i define it

I think that love is be as strong and durable as family love. NO matter what happens your may have a problem with it, though you will always love your family members. It is something that cannot be broken. Time and distance cannot break it, no one can come bewtween that love.



so when I look for true love , i try my heart on these principals.

2006-08-11 17:12:36 · 13 answers · asked by darknight_is_here 3

2006-08-11 17:11:10 · 14 answers · asked by gigglestp76 2

to him and not to me because she says I exhaust her when she tries to talk to me.She chats with him for hours a day at work as well as at home and also gets e-mails from him.She wants me to be ok with this and she says she still loves me for sure but on the other hand,she loves him as a friend and wants to be able to hang out with him.She says she would never cheat on me and I suppose I trust her,but I am not comfortable with this situation at all.She has a son from a previous relationship who is 9 years old now.I have been in his life for the most part since he was 1 1/2 yrs old.I did walk out on her with no explanation way before we ever got married and moved right in with another woman.I have no explanation on why I did this other than I did not communicate with her like I should have and I blame mostly myself for that.It never worked out with the other woman and we got back together and eventually married.We agreed we would be open and honest after we got back together.Help

2006-08-11 17:11:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

If your husband told you after you were married that he had a child on the way would you stay. Then he brings home a photo with him, child and mom to hang in the house what would you do? Then says it's his baby if you dont like it leave do you stay? Then says they'll gonna have another child in a year what would you do?
Personally I would leave but my friend is in this situation and wants answers so i post them to you.She got married in dec. was told about the pregnancy in Jan and baby born in june. She's 40 and he is 28.The baby mother is 35 and turned down his proposal in nov. He then asked her who had no idea that he'd asked the other. Again what would you do?

2006-08-11 17:05:50 · 17 answers · asked by tastyflow 3