My husband and I have been together for two years and have never had a fight. Of course, I realize that that can change at any moment. When I was married to my former husband, I used to laugh at couples on TV who claimed they never fight. Now I'm wondering if that really is possible.
2006-08-11 19:00:42 · 25 answers · asked by sweetbaby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm not sure if it is possible or not. What do you constitute as a 'fight'?
My husband and I have been married 3 years and although we haven't really had any huge arguments, we have had disagreements.
No two people are exactly alike and there are bound to be discrepancies between them.
2006-08-11 19:04:49 · answer #1 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope - if it's any type of significant relationship, then there is going to be disagreements. Guaranteed.
However, it all depends on what is considered a "fight" and how they are handled. Having a disagreement isn't a bad thing. That's how couples can grow, learn to compromise, and respect each other.
Just as couples will argue, they will also get angry at each other sooner or later. That is also normal and healthy as long as your anger doesn't dictate your actions or you act out of it. Just remember you can still be angry with someone and still love them.
As long as the issue doesn't include physical altercations or any type of verbal abuse, our differences can help draw us closer together depending on how we work to resolve them. Respect your partner, give more than you get, and work on compromise versus being selfish. That's the way to go for a successful loving relationship.
If done in the right way, the tough times can make the right couple even stronger. :)
2006-08-11 19:12:31 · answer #2 · answered by Lady_Knight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can go without fighting, if you have 2 personalities who don't fight, and who avoid conflicts. My brother and his wife have been married for over 12 years, and I doubt they've had a fight, because they both just hate the conflict. But there's always going to be disagreements. No 2 people think exactly alike.
BTW, I don't think the lack of fighting can define a marriage. My husband and I have horrible fights, we yell at each other, etc. Then.......we make up. ;-) We've been married 18 1/2 years, and consider ourselves very happily married.
2006-08-11 19:09:13 · answer #3 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's possible... there is a difference between fighting (knock down,name calling etc) and disagreements..
My husband and I have been together for 16 years and we have never had a fight...
#1 he's my best friend we can tell each other anything HONESTY
#2 It's ok to have an oppinion and to say it without repercussions
#3 we enjoy each others company
#4 Great SEX
#5 TRUST is complete
2006-08-12 05:21:27 · answer #4 · answered by leta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure it's possible not to ever fight........if you don't talk to each other!!! I mean c'mon. If you have a real relationship then you deal with real life everyday issues. You will have fights now and then. That's what makes a relationship or brakes it, depending on the people in the relationship. Fighting is healthy and will actually make a relationship stronger if handled in the right way.
2006-08-12 00:31:04 · answer #5 · answered by kitty_kaats_go 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
argueing is good for the soul sometimes. i would be worried that it was building up inside. if you think its not then its fine.
the best part about a fight is you start out with a clean slate, if you fight like a adult.
and the makeup is like the first time all over again!
2006-08-11 19:06:17 · answer #6 · answered by rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you two can go a lifetime with out fighting that's wonderful. but sometimes fighting or disputes are good for a relationship. they let each other know that they care. and well i don't know about you but making up is the best part.(wink,wink)
2006-08-11 19:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by tara e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are 2 types of couples living in this world. The type 1 is those who love each other and 2nd type is of those who have compromised with each other. 2nd type doesn't fight.
2006-08-11 19:10:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in any relationship theee will be ups and downs. ther can never be a marriage without misunderstandings(fights) but the beauty of successful marriage is that both husband and wife sit together and work it out
2006-08-11 19:07:20 · answer #9 · answered by trishul60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all have disagreements but fights can be prevented... just because you don't agree don't make it a fight! there fore, it is highly possible! unlikly but possible!
Great to hear that! I'm in my longest relationship currently and we disagree but we don't fight! it's nice!!! the way love should be!
Congrates!
MAd luv
2006-08-11 19:05:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋