Marriage & Divorce - 11 August 2006

See I have this friend and I know her husband is cheating on her and she won't do anything about it unless she has proof I need help spying on him but I don't know how can anyone help me ?

2006-08-11 12:19:05 · 35 answers · asked by SportsFan 1

2006-08-11 12:12:45 · 8 answers · asked by neer_gosain 2

Did you stop seeing all your friends that are single? You don't call them and if they visit how do you treat them? I'm talking about both male and female friends you had before you got married.

2006-08-11 12:12:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been with my partner since valentines day of 2001. i want to marry, he is against it. always some outragous excuse. he trreats me like gold, and does everything to make me happy , but he wont budge on this one.
i am afraid of being old and never having the chance to be married. and alot of people that i know that are married , think i am crazy to want to be married.

2006-08-11 12:09:52 · 25 answers · asked by Pussycat 4

sex been low, he watches porn everyday, he beat himself when you're at work, when you get home from work he still on the computer and very sneaky on watching his porn, u always the one who initiate in making love but he rejected you and his excuse = not now! I'm not in the mood...... then he tells you that he doesn't have friends and would like to meet new friends.

2006-08-11 12:04:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

So, you're ready to go, but forget the husband, grab the rabbit and hide in the bedroom for some one on one, and leave him playing video games?

2006-08-11 11:58:12 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been thinking about it lately.

2006-08-11 11:55:35 · 13 answers · asked by hellsbells 2

my husband in iraq and i let an ex perform oral sex on me, i didnt return the favor. is it cheating?

2006-08-11 11:51:27 · 22 answers · asked by needinanswers 1

Ok, here's my story.....I had it pretty rough growing up, both of my parents were drugatics and alcoholics (my dad more than my mom). My dad however was a violent drunk and very mean and threatening and had been to jail/prison more times than I can count. He's burnt down our house, wrecked every car we've owned and destroyed everything and would always threaten to kill with a butcher knife he had. We were also pretty poor. We lived in this crappy trailer that didn't have heat, water, electricity or anything. We heated our "house" with a kerosine heater which is also what we cooked our food on and we used the bathroom outside using a pile of cement blocks for support and I slept on the floor. When I was 12 my mom finally decided to leave my dad but when she did that all she did was jump out of the frying pan into the fire. She started dating a guy that was a dope dealer and had been in prison for rape among other things. He was an awful perve. After he tried to hit me one night I finally had had enough and walked to my mamaws house and lived with her for a while. My mom finally got her act together after about a year of dating the idiot and so did my dad. My dad even went back to highschool and got his degree, got baptised and started going to college to become a counselor, but he still got messed up sometimes and would end up in the hospital. Then, a month before my 14th birthday he died. Ok, this isn't all to my story but its all I'm going to write because to tell you about everything thats happened I would need a book. Ok, here's my problem....I think I'm too picky. I have seen so many failed relationships and I just don't want that to happen to me. I'm 17 years old and have never had a boyfriend because I always find something amatter with them. I'm just afraid of being heartbroken. What should I do? I don't want to end up lonely when I get older, but I don't want to be heartbroken either.

2006-08-11 11:49:14 · 26 answers · asked by Led*Zep*Babe 5

is love at first sight an indication that you have met ur soulmate

2006-08-11 11:48:52 · 7 answers · asked by chirag 1

When I first met my fiance he told me he was very close friends with his ex-girlfriend whom he was with in 1998-99. He said they talked several times a week. He said she had tried to get back w/ him a couple of times in the past but he never did because he wasn't interested. I felt very uncomfortable with the fact he was so close with her and put my foot down, I said either she goes or I go. He chose me and said he was going to tell her he couldn't talk to her anymore. But up until then he still had a picture of her on his dresser. After I gave him the ultimatum he said he threw out a bunch of things and I saw that the pic of her was gone.
Do you think I was justified in telling him she had to go? Do you think it was appropriate for him to continue his close relationship with her once he and I got serious?

2006-08-11 11:45:46 · 10 answers · asked by Arcadia 2

my hband i have a verry loving relationship but since we had our baby nothing is the same i dont feel as happy and fun loving as i did before my hb never helps me with the baby i stay home and take care of him and my niece i feel overhelmed and angry my hb and i hardly speek and spend time together we are both onry and he does his thing and i do my we only see eachother at dinner and in bed our fun is watching tv together how can we save our marrage and make it fun again

2006-08-11 11:45:40 · 6 answers · asked by sweet kisses01 1

Have I Told You Lately

The day I first saw you’re face and smile I knew,
my life would never be the same.

You came from out of no where,
and I didn’t even know your name.

I never really believed in love at first site,
and thought it was more of a persons fantasy
but now I have to be honest with myself,
and say I’m glad you made a liar out of me.

You are the reason I get up each day,
and the reason I look for tomorrow.

It’s only when I’m not around you,
that I ever feel pain or sorrow.

I can’t think of a greater gift in this world,
than for a man to live his dream.

To be able to go to bed each night with you,
and wake up in the arms of that dream.

So I just want you to know, why I haven’t told you,
that I love you more than life itself and to its very end.

Because I cannot hurt the one, that just said to me,
have I told you lately, you’re my best friend.

By: Kenny P. aka-Cobra

2006-08-11 11:45:29 · 4 answers · asked by Cobra 5

Search records between 1980 and 1999

2006-08-11 11:43:16 · 1 answers · asked by Pete 1

my husband and i have been married for yrs with three kids. Just 6 monthss ago,he left ot go overseas for sea duty(his military) and to be with his girlfriend.He left me and the kids here in the states where we only knows one person that cna be trust and he 's been a friend for yrs too.He just email me maybe three wks ago and now the girl is asking for things he can't or want give her. I have nay good days and bad days,but im still here. He's a good provider. I'm so scared to move on.Give me honest feed backs

2006-08-11 11:41:34 · 15 answers · asked by tearj 1

Feelling alone in the middle of a crowd

2006-08-11 11:39:36 · 20 answers · asked by KennieA 1

2006-08-11 11:38:10 · 22 answers · asked by luxxx ♥ 3

A few months ag, I found my wife was still in contact with a man she had quite an affair with. I became very angry at her and said, go live with him, I want a divorce. She said she will not agree to that. Today the cell bill comes in the mail, I see she is talking with him yet again. Its his work phone now. I see the calls last for a minute. Its like there trying to hide his phone number by using his office phone. I also assume my wife gets his message and retuns or calls him from her office too. I have tried and tried to put our marrige back together, I have given every chance to the same. I feel like I was just dumped on again. I know they think there getting away with this , and I am unsure if they try to see eachother when possible. What is the best possible way to confront her. I find this the day before we leave on vacation. Do I confront her before we go? Do I confront her when we get home? Either way, I think I want to seperate for a while. This woman has put me thru hell.

2006-08-11 11:31:11 · 13 answers · asked by paulsexpress 2

I met my husband and we were so crazy about each other we got engaged after dating for 3 months.

We got married 7 months later and the wedding plans were so rushed that I didn't really think about my feelings.

I felt like I wasn't really in love with him, but that it was just "cold feet."

We got married after knowing each other for 10 months.

After our wedding I realized that I didn't even know him.

We have nothing in common and although he is a sweet person, I don't feel attracted to his personality or him at all.

I know now that I was never in love with him and just really wanted a stable home life.

I told him a month after our wedding how I felt, but he won't let me leave because he still loves me.

We have been struggling to keep our marriage together for over a year and went to counseling too.

I know counseling won't make me fall in love with him.

How long do I have to try to make it work before I can leave?

I was never in love with him.

2006-08-11 11:29:11 · 16 answers · asked by BitchyComplainer 1

2006-08-11 11:24:54 · 10 answers · asked by Lorac P 1

I've been going out with my girlfriend for almost 3 years now. We want to get married and start living together. The problem is that she really respects her dad and does't want to get married unless she gets his blessings. She says that he doesn't like me at all. I don't understand why. The only reason I can think of is that I'm not Japanese like his family. Also he lives in Japan so it's hard to get to know him. Is there anybody else going through the same problem??

2006-08-11 11:18:33 · 14 answers · asked by CookieMonster 3

It's Friday and I am becoming very excited about the possibilities this weekend with my wife. Here is my question, what is the one thing your man does to you that absolutely sends you over the edge during sex!
I'm not really sure why I'm asking this question other than the fact that I am really feeling, well you know!
Have a great weekend everyone!

2006-08-11 11:18:12 · 8 answers · asked by Ekimo 5

Do you think you'd feel guilty?

2006-08-11 11:05:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 7 months pregnant and found out a few days ago that he has been lying about his ex-girlfriend.They have been paying each others bills. She lives in a different state. He said he has came clean but i have caught him in several lies since then. I talked to her today, she says they are just friends and I have nothing to worry about. I should still marry him. What should i do?

2006-08-11 11:04:50 · 16 answers · asked by bettie_rose_c12 1

I can't answer anymore questions, Is this because I don't ask enough questions?

2006-08-11 11:02:43 · 10 answers · asked by faith m 2

2006-08-11 10:59:51 · 19 answers · asked by Lala 1

I was with my ex-wife for 2 yrs she was kind,loving,and a good friend....But everytime i decided not to agree with her,,or go places with her...shes would do a 360 and turn into a angry,crazed ***** who would actually resort to violence....
I havent been with her for 3 yrs and i am still bothered by the question of maybe it was my fault...do any of you have this problem with your wifes....She also statded accusing me of cheating and would actually go through my wallet and cell phone... It was to much for me to bear...Was i right to leave her for the way she was????

2006-08-11 10:58:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife of 16 years left after cheating on me and during the separation moved in with our daughters best friends dad,and kept it all a secret from me, to influence our daughter with who she would want to live with after the divorce, which created problems for me and my daughter(she's 16). Has anyone ever heard of something like this?

2006-08-11 10:57:53 · 32 answers · asked by jerry 2

My boyfriend was spending a lot of time on the computer and i put a keylogger and spyware on the computer to map what he is doing. Well he hasnt been talking to any girls but he goes to porn sites and browses at the movies and watches them on the computer. When I confronted him and told him how it made me feel he promised he wouldnt do it anymore! He doesnt like it if i watch male strippers or if a read a playgirl.......so i quit because he is enough for me and i dont want to hurt him. long story short i have confronted him on this three other times after our first incident and today i found out he did it again! He doesnt know about the spyware he tried deleting his temp internet files and i have been able to tell him that the privacy service maps his web sites and i have showed it to him as proof. two things.....what should i do and What does this mean.......I am not trying to be conceited, but I am a goodlooking woman with an awesome body! please help!

2006-08-11 10:55:24 · 9 answers · asked by Shana H 3

2006-08-11 10:50:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous