my husband in iraq and i let an ex perform oral sex on me, i didnt return the favor. is it cheating?
2006-08-11 11:51:27 · 22 answers · asked by needinanswers 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
should i tell him
2006-08-11 12:08:06 · update #1
Yes of course it is.
Here is how you can tell. Just go head and tell your husband about it... if you can't you have your answer.
2006-08-11 11:54:34 · answer #1 · answered by tm_tech32 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's cheating....So if your bf is in Iraq and is getting head from some other chick how would you feel???? Think about it...And if you can't be faithful to your BF ..just leave him and a good ,nice faithful girl can get him...
If you think oral sex is not cheating cause it wasnt "sex" then how old are you 12 ??? Come on now You should know better
2006-08-11 18:55:53 · answer #2 · answered by ?Whiskey Girl? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to justify your infidelity! You cheated!
What if he was getting special treatment from some of those Iraqi women? I bet you wouldn't want to shop with the corner Arabs no more!
While you are giving your ex permission to take advantage of your husband situation and he's over there risking his life for everyone here at home, You should be considering whats gonna happen if he doesn't make it out.
(I'll pray for his safe return and Hope he leave you when he get back)!
2006-08-11 19:13:34 · answer #3 · answered by dadnnelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you asked this question, then obviously you know it is, so the answer is, yes it is cheating. Would you want him gettting oral sex in Iraq? Why not? I rest my case!
2006-08-11 18:54:52 · answer #4 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oral sex is cheating. how would u like it if your husband had his ex to perform oral sex on him.
2006-08-11 19:46:57 · answer #5 · answered by olive_olive_72 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!!!
What you can't wait for someone who is putting their life on the line? Oh, poor baby you are here all alone. GIVE ME A BREAK!!!
If I could go 8 years without sex anyone can go for a year or two because their husband is serving our country.
How disgusting.
2006-08-11 18:58:00 · answer #6 · answered by arvecar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. Been unfaithful start in your mind, then your eyes and then your whole body.That is adultery!
Matt. 15:19 Adultery really starts "the heart "
Read 1 Corinthians 7
Good luck and be honest with your husband when the time is right.
2006-08-11 19:04:38 · answer #7 · answered by YO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG....you could be the next president. I'll be sure to vote for you in the next election...lmao (at your stupidity). Well in your question you said oral SEX.....sex is sex no matter how it happened, and CHEATING is CHEATING.
2006-08-11 19:44:13 · answer #8 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's cheating no matter if you didn't do anything back. You still let another man do sexually things to you instead of your husband.
2006-08-11 19:52:11 · answer #9 · answered by D!me D!va 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid so, I know some kids, think that oral sex isn't sex, but we all know better.
One thing, don't tell hubby that you did it.
Just don't do it again, and try to forget it ever happened.
It would cause your husband pain, and he doesnt' deserve that.
2006-08-11 19:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by johnb693 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, you cheated, oral sex is a form of sex and intimacy.
2006-08-11 18:59:07 · answer #11 · answered by cruedude1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋