So, you're ready to go, but forget the husband, grab the rabbit and hide in the bedroom for some one on one, and leave him playing video games?
2006-08-11 11:58:12 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nothing wrong with it at all! There's more than one way to tease the kitty, you know.
Now, if you find yourself preferring your 'little friend' over your husband, then you've got yourself a situation. But then, that's pretty easily remedied, just let him use it on you. Fun for everyone!
2006-08-14 09:41:28 · answer #1 · answered by oh kate! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope. nothing wrong with a little self love.. sometimes, an orgasm from a vibrator is much more intense than from sex with a partner.
a few ideas though:
1. try using your vibrator during sex with your husband
2. communicate with the hubby so he knows how to get you off.. so maybe you will want to have sex more with him vs. the vibrator...
3. try some toys, videos, new lingerie or role playing to spice things up a bit...
good luck.. and don't worry, a lil self love never hurt anyone!!
2006-08-11 12:11:12 · answer #2 · answered by MnKLmT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong on any level. Vibrators are made with women in mind, your husband is human he can only do so much. Masturbation is also very healthy, an orgasm can stimulate all sorts of things in your body. Enjoy your vibrator and life, I do.
2006-08-11 14:25:54 · answer #3 · answered by sweetl8dyt24 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its wrong if he does please you. If you are not getting what you need from him then you two need to talk instead of you running away to handle it yourself. marriage is a partnership and there needs to be open communication. You need to tell your husband whether he is doing something wrong or not. Because the vibrator may lead to another man. Give your husband a chance to learn how to make you happy.
2006-08-11 12:02:04 · answer #4 · answered by tha gurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he is not taking care of the home front, you are still entitled to a little pleasure. He needs to take care of business. I cannot imagine taking video games over a woman's body.
Why not surprise him sometime and crank that baby up right in front of him while he is doing his video games. Then see what he wants to play with.
2006-08-11 23:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell no grab the toy and go for it! it might even be fun for him to watch, who knows use it on a regular basis and maybe your husband will learn something.
He may enjoy the vibrator as well, plug his a s s for a change.
2006-08-11 12:04:28 · answer #6 · answered by Brutal honesty is best 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is perfectly normal to want some one on one time every now and again. I have been married for 12 years and have times that I would rather masturbate than have sex. I am sure you love your husband and enjoy sex, but sometimes it is just easier to get yourself off.
2006-08-11 12:11:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since you are married and you have the real thing at your finger tips why would you want to use your vibrator?!?!?
Unless your husband is that bad then i guess its OK...........
He would probably be jealous and think that he was being neglected so, best not to tell him. I just don't understand why you would not want to have your husband join you?????????????
2006-08-11 12:04:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you involve him?? Put the vibrator in his line of vision and see what kind of reaction you get. Or.....ask him if it would make him feel insecure if you have fun time all by yourself sometimes. I doubt he will find anything wrong about it!
2006-08-15 11:34:31 · answer #9 · answered by ShineOnYouCrazyDiamond 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Works for me. The way I see it if my b.f can't get the job right I can take care of that. And if he is like mine then you are probably about ready to dump is *** any way cause not only does he suck in bed, but he cares more about his video games!
2006-08-11 12:05:52 · answer #10 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋