My wife of 16 years left after cheating on me and during the separation moved in with our daughters best friends dad,and kept it all a secret from me, to influence our daughter with who she would want to live with after the divorce, which created problems for me and my daughter(she's 16). Has anyone ever heard of something like this?
2006-08-11 10:57:53 · 32 answers · asked by jerry 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she's a whore!
2006-08-11 10:59:49 · answer #1 · answered by <3King Julian :-) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To move in with your daughter's friends Dad is not a problem IF she started seeing him AFTER the divorce. But in my opinion she is a tramp for cheating on you. I'm sure eventually your daughter will figure out what her mother is, it will hurt your daughter, and your wife may end up breaking up the friendship between your daughter and her friend. Right now though if your daughter and you are not getting along, she may see this as a way for her and her friend to become sisters. THIS TOO SHALL PASS
2006-08-11 11:05:21 · answer #2 · answered by arvecar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Psychotic, crazy, mind gamer.
Yep-people post stuff like this all the time. She shouldn't be a mom and you shouldn't have had to go through that. Some people never mature.
Best wishes for a better outcome. Don't try to influence your daughter to agree and don't badmouth your ex in front of her-it'll make the strain worse. Just be her dad and tell you don't want to talk about what her mom said or what her mom is doing. Make everything you do about her..she's the child. Adults don't discuss these things with children. :-)
2006-08-11 11:01:00 · answer #3 · answered by southrngirl2724 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no doubt the situation is a devastating one for you. That said...now you have to move on. Focus on your daughter and reach into every nerve and sinew within your being to be the best dad you can be. It is important(for your well bring as is hers) not to dwell on that incident. Now is the time to be tough so you have to step up.
Criticizing and finding labels for her is counter productive. There is no benefit...and no relief for you, in wasting valuable time in that manner. Try to keep a level head so you can think clearly and productively.
My personal phrase is "when things aren't going your way use it as an opportunity to show how much class you have".
You can overcome this by holding your head high and not feeling sorry for yourself. With diligence and perseverance...add a little fortitude...and you can become a better person in spite of this setback. Also, in the long run, your daughter will have overwhelming respect and love for you as well. Do not let yourself get caught up in stupid arguments with her. They will tend to make you look bad. Remember...stay focused and work hard to not let your emotions get the better of you.
Stay strong and good luck!
2006-08-11 11:23:49 · answer #4 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, divorced people try to use the kids as weapons all the time. So what who she moved in with. There are bigger issues here, stop getting hung up on the petty stuff and start figuring out how you can solve the issues you have with your daughter. Your marriage is over and no longer relevant, your daughter is still your daughter, focus on that.
2006-08-11 11:29:41 · answer #5 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds self centered and spiteful. no separation should result in a child of any age being influenced to take sides or have bad feelings toward a parent. divorce with custody battles brings out the worst in people, from my observation. i'm sorry this happened to you, and hope you can deal with the pain and move on. there are very nice people in the world who consider marriage to be a real partnership, where secrets and spite are not a consideration. good luck.
2006-08-11 11:03:03 · answer #6 · answered by foxfirevigil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously your ex is playing The I'M THE BEST Game with your daughter!!! Simply put if you ex starting acting more like a mother instead of your daughters best friend then maybe she would still have a marriage!!! Your ex is stuck on 16 herself
2006-08-11 11:05:57 · answer #7 · answered by Not Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jerry Springer
2006-08-11 11:19:57 · answer #8 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 20:44:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what you would exactly call someone like that!But,I could tell you if that was my mom it would take a very long time for me to forgive her!Plus being best friends and living together can ruin a friendship!I'm so sorry,God will take care of it!
2006-08-11 11:08:07 · answer #10 · answered by Sweetheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the time, man. There is nothing new under the sun, at least, not wher cheating spouses are concerned. So, she's a sneak and a cheat. Be glad you're rid of her.
Sorry.
2006-08-11 11:01:03 · answer #11 · answered by Dave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋