Last month my husband admitted to having very deep feelings for a coworker. It started with her asking for advice with her bf, and soon he was asking her about how to solve what few problems we have, but in the meantime they bonded. He said she is not interested in him that way, but he can't help the way he feels. I talked to the girl and she said she is in no way physically or romantically interested in him. That he is living in a fantasy world. They talk all the time on the phone. I feel ignored and that my feelings are not being considered here whatsoever by either party. He's getting his crush fed by the constant contact and she is an attention wh@re and getting what she needs. Had they slept together I could deal, but this emotional affair I have no idea how to handle it. I keep getting told, 'We're just friends, grow up.' How do you fight that? Sorry if this is filled with mispellings and fractured sentences, very emotional atm.
2006-08-11
04:31:33
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